|
giving birth i am TERRIFIED of giving birth. i'm only 15 and i'm not pregnant or anything but it always makes me really nervous whenever i think about birth. if you have given birth can you describe it for me? like:
1) did it hurt? (if yes how much)
2) did anything umm... rip (lol you know where i'm talking about)
3) would you go through it again?
thanks!!!
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
I agree with YoungGrandma in that yes it hurts but it is so worth it. I did it three times and if it wasn't for my husband saying no I would have had another baby. It truly is a magical moment when you hold your newborn in your arms and then everything you just went through disappears. ]
Being terrified is normal. Even older women get terrified of it. So there is nothing at all odd about you! :)
1) Yes. It does hurt. Can't lie to you about that one. The more relaxed you are and the better shape you are in the better it goes.
2) As a rule you don't rip because most docs will cut you so you don't. The reason they do this is because it is easier for a straight cut to heal.
3) Sure! Babies are really worth it, and you do forget it quickly. The first is the hardest. After
the first one it gets easier.
Don't worry about it. When you meet that special guy, you won't think twice about it. :) ]
More Questions: |