"If someone says to you that you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc) for example on Saturday, August 25th and then a week later they tell you you no longer look drawn (tired, haggard, etc), but you now look good would you accept the fact that they no longer think you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc) or would you still think about what they said to you a week ago that you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc)"
clarayow answered Monday December 11 2006, 2:56 am: hey wowowow! I have the same problem as you babe! I read too much into what people tell me bout my appearance!! Haha!
Anyway, Ya I'll think bout what they told me last week but I'll let it pass in no time; I'll let the current impression dominate in my mind.
I'd feel really good that I look better now. So yea, I'll accept what they tell me at present. And I'll be flattered that they actually paid attention to me.
Hey everyone likes attention to a certain extent right?
Think bout it this way, why would you wanna hang on and believe in how you look like in the past? Isnt it silly to waste time living in the past cos you can't turn back time. You are what you are now. [ clarayow's advice column | Ask clarayow A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday December 10 2006, 10:58 pm: *
I would think if they were concerned enough to tell me I looked tired one week, I would believe them the next week when they said I didn't look tired.
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