Hi. :) I'm Sara. My friends call me "Sharpie". So call me whichever you please. I'm a 17 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario. I attend CHS and I'm Grade 11. I'm a hockey playing cheerleader there. :) Soon to be a Delta Red Raider. (H) I may seem young but I've been told I give great advice. I'm a kickass writer and want to somehow use that in the future. (IF!)When I go to university I plan on minoring in history and Majoring in Drama, and becoming a Drama teacher in a High School setting. Haha, because I'm a drama nerd that is in love with english. I have morals and do believe that everyone deserves a fair chance. I love debates. Man oh man how I wish my school had a debate team. Haha. I do have a sense of humour, as well as a very serious, emotional side. I tend to open up like a book, so if you ask me what's wrong you'll most likely regret it. I'm currently single, as if it matters. hardy har har. My friends are my life, as if it mattered to you people.
Well, that's a bit of my life story.. want more message me. I love mail. I'll answer back, scouts honour.
Or.. add my msn! i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Bye Folks
E-mail: i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: My Mom :) haha. Hamilton Ontario Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
Answers: 59
Last Update: September 26, 2007
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ive neva made out before and this might be weird but what do i do with my toungue??? (link)
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Just go with the flow, let the guy take charge. Just not fully. If it feels right to you, then stick it in. If he isn't doing it then it probably isn't the right time.
Hope I helped.
Sara
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okay ive kissed alot of times and made out and i have these girls that always tryna givem e advice lmfao buh they told me to bite their lips buh i dont know when exactly to do and what spot you know what i mean ? and if i should kiss the neck. (link)
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oky. usually when a guy bites my lip(best thing by the way), he just springs it in when he feels right. usually.. we'll be making out for a good few seconds and then he does it. and its usually the lower lip region on either side. if any other girl is like me, they'd enjoy it. haha. ;) good luck.
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Okay.
So.
Im on a lacrosse team, and we need a name.
It is supposed to be SYC ______.
(SYC stands for Springfield Youth Club).
Any ideas?
Like SYC Fury? or dolphins? or SOMETHING.
i need to know by tomorrowwww!
please and thank you (: (link)
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What about something like..
- SYC Knights
- SYC Titans
something like that :)
it's corny but whatever, it's also short notice.
kpeace.
Sara
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is nair safe to use on your pubic hair?
if not does anyone know of any other kind of product like that? hair removal stuff i mean?
i HATE shaving down there and i got it waxed and it hurt too bad... (link)
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I've never used it, but I heard it works. It's only a creamrinse stuff, so it isnt like your "down south" area will be messed with.
Hope I Helped
Sara
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I had sex today while wearing a tampon.
I don't know where my tampon went.
I dont know if it came out or not.
I'm scared.
Does anyone know what will happen if it is in me and what I should do and if it was a good idea to have sex with a tampon in. (link)
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obvi it was way bad to have sex with a tampon in. i've never had this situation because no offence but im not that stupid. for one) why didn't you wait til you were married or like happily together OR!! OFF OF YOUR PERIOD!?
and 2) why do you think that it'd be okay to have sex with a tampon in?
i know it seems like im being harsh, no. i'm being truthful. so i say go see a doctor and see what they say.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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Well...my friend has this really cute boyfriend and whenever I see him and her together I get a little jealous.He talks to me but he just talks to me a little.What do I do?? (link)
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Just because you get jealous means nothing. You could be jealous that she has someone. Don't just to conclusions until you know that the feelings are actually there.
Sara
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i'm thinking about getting a magic tan this weekend and it would be my first time. i have some questions on it though..like i know you're in the nude (i mean, it's preferable so you dont get any tan lines and your clothing won't get stained) but is the booth private or is there some intructor out there watching? or do they speak over the intercom or what? (link)
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Just to let you know, tanning beds are 3 UV Rays hotter than the sun. If the sun can give you skin cancer just think of the chances in a tanning bed.
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Well, I really like this guy and i have been likeing him for a lonnnnng time now! And i went up to him and i told him that i liked him and he really didnt responde just kinda said thanks. But i mean it just seem like fate has been bringing us together even my friends notice it!!!
i mean he said i was cute but thats it. I have tried to move on by liking other guys but thoese guys arent really intreasted in me but when ever a guy likes me there usally not my type! when will mr.perfect come along. and i havent even had my first kiss and all my friends have already done that actually i think ever one in my school has had there first kiss.
and its not like im an ugly duckling i guess im pretty since my friends and ppl i dont even know say im and the guy i like thinks i am he's just not intreasted!
WHAT DO I DO TO GET THIS GUY!! BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I TRIED EVERYTHING!! HOW DO I GET MY FIRST KISS???? WHY DO I ALWAYS GET THE GUYS IM NOT INTRESTED IN BUT THE GUYS I LIKE ARENT INTREASTED IN ME??? (link)
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This is off subject, but it would've helped to include your age. But either way, it doesn't matter. You are pretty. I do not know you, but everyone is pretty. No one knows when "Mr. Perfect" will come along. God, (or whatever your faith is), has a plan for everyone. It may happen in 20 years or it could happened sooner. Just hold you head high and enjoy life while you can. Don't worry about boys to much, sure.. we love 'em but we shouldn't make them the be all and the end all.
Now, to get the guy.. I know everyone says this but it's the truth. Just be yourself. You wouldn't want to put on an act, have him fall for it and then you be miserable because it's like you're stuck in someones body. It's even worse when they like something that you hate so you're stuck in someones body that you don't like. So-to-speak.
For the first kiss thing, I think you should just hold off. Now you may not care about my opinion and I respect that. But when the right guy comes along and gives you your first kiss, you'll be happy it took so long. Because you never forget your first kiss. So make it count and make sure it's with a boy you really like. Don't do it because "it's in style" don't throw away something so precious over something dumb.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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how do you know when your in love with a guy? like i dont know him all too well meaning as to i dont talk to him alot of times, but i really like him i think! but idk if its love..
13/f (link)
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Like the other girls said, it isn't love. You will know what love is when you're older and experience it with "the one". For everyone, it's a different feeling. So only you can know if you're in love or not. Right now, I'm highly doubting love. Maybe lust or just a strong like. Nothing more.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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sorry, wrong category i know. anyways, every time i get out of the shower, my hair is super tangley. i use shampoo and conditioner every time, and ive tried a bunch of different stuff. but it is always extremely knotted and stuff when i blow dry or comb it afterwards. it takes forever to get it dry and untangled. what should i do about this?! please and thanks :] (link)
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Well I used to have this problem, well sometimes. Anyways, try bringing a brush into the shower with you. When you're just about to get out, brush through your hair. That way it's still wet and has water giving it moisture. If that doesn't work, then maybe try detangling spray or spray-in-conditioner.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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my cousin is only 13 and she doesnt have her period and she got a tampon from her brothers gf
and she wore it .
is anything going to happen to her
cuz she was freaking out but im scared for her cuz she isnt used to this feeling !
HELP !!!!! (link)
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I don't know if it's necessarily bad for her, but she shouldn't have used it until she got her period, and even then, you're supposed to wait for 2 months after you received your period before you can use tampons. Just make sure she doesn't do it again, and she should be fine. But if she still continues to complain that it hurts then take her to a doctor.
Hope I Helped! :)
Sara
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hello fello advicers! what font is the cross out font that i can use on myspace? could someone give me the code? thanks :] (link)
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to cross out
to underline
to italicize
to bold
to make text big
to make text small
to make text go up
make text go down
bigbigbigtext
for the font one make sure you pick a number between 1 and 9 and that you dont actually out 1-9 because it wont work.
oh also take out the stars:P
Hope This Helps.
Sara
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Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place? (link)
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I have been in your place.. one of my ex's well his mom saw it and told all her friends!! How embarassing. They called me "Hoover" for a good while.
Just tell her he gave you one first and it was to show your sign of affection or something like that. Or be like.. Mrs.[last name],(or whatever you call her), you were a teen once.. were you not?
haha.
Good Luck and I Hope I Helped!
Sara
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i saw a photo in black and white of a stop sign that had the word 'don't' on top and 'loving' underneath in texta so the sign read "dont STOP loving". i saw it on the internet. does anyone know where i can find it? (link)
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i found one.. under photobucket.com
you didnt indicate the size but i did find it in a small icon as if it were an msn display picture.
http://s37.photobucket.com/albums/e81/411deanna/?action=view¤t=622613-01.jpg
if you want a bigger one just go to www.photobucket.com and go to search and type in a keyword because sometimes 'dont stop loving' wouldnt work.
Hope I Helped
Sara
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Okay, my cheerleading coach is a bitch, and she doesn't like me. She treats me like crap and nit picks at me all the time and she always tells me I can't do anything right. Yeah...very encouraging..not.
So, football cheerleading tryouts are coming up in March and I really want football. I lost it last year because she literally and purposely took me off football and put someone ahead of me and told me I was first alternate. (One of the judging staff told me) And when a cheerleader quit, she didn't move me up like she was supposed to. And I asked her so many times and she brushed it off.
So with her being a uptight "coach", she probably won't let me make football again. But I'm humoring myself and gonna try out. My main probalem is my toetouch. My problem isn't rotating my hips, it's getting my heighth. How can I make my cheerleading jumps higher? And will I be able to do this by March. I also need some tips on nervousness. I tend to get nervous infront of judges. (link)
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wow. your coach is mean.. but you already knew that. lol anyways for me my toetouches suck bad to. but my coach taught us this count..
5 6 7 8
1 - hit a high v
2 - while still in the high v go on your tiptoes
3 - swing your arms in front of your chest a if making an x closer to your "special" place
4 - you should be touching you toes.
if this doesnt work for height then maybe try some hurdling? or running with your legs really high up. also i find dancing helps and doing the splits a lot helps me.
Hope I Helped and if you need anything else then send one to my inbox.
Sara
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what does it mean when ppl say like i droped the soap or something along those lines? (link)
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if you're saying it in the sense like oh whe you go to jail make sure you dont drop the soap.. they're saying that if guys/girls go there and havent had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex they tend to go for the same sex so it just means watch out when you bend over, so to speak.
Hope I Helped
Sara
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turn off the flash button on a digatle camera (link)
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it depends on your camera.. some have a menu for it but mine has a button by the screen.. so you click on the thunder bolt looking one and just click til it says "no flash" or "flash off"
hope I helped:]
Sara
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13/f
My dad died in october and stuf... and this guy i really liked and once went out with, his name is zach, went to his funeral. at the time i was dating his brother trace , haha. and trace told me that zach only went to my dad's funeral to get out of school for the day.
this made me angry and hurt me really badly. i didnt show it at the time and idk why but i still like him. any ways now several months later hes saying stuf like he thinks he likes me and hes shown some jelouse moments and yeah. one day i asked him if he went to my dads funeral just to get out of school and he said kinda
so hes on and off liked me and i dont know what to do!!! if he ever asks me out again should i saay yes or no???
would it be disrespectful to my dad ???
idk wat to do!!!!! (link)
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Just follow you're heart and I'm sure you dad will be happy with whatever his little girl does. But like the other person said(yes im a lurk tehe) it all depends on a persons respectability beliefs.
Just follow your heart but if you're having doubts then you probably shouldn't, but if in the end you decide to say yes.. make sure your heart and head agree.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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What are some ways to make a guy cum other than handjobs, blowjobs, and sex? Me and my boyfriend aren't ready for blowjobs or sex yet, but we want to find another way for him to cum besides from handjobs. Thanks. (link)
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maybe some phone sex or a little harmless foreplay. :]
hope i helped.
Sara
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which are good movies, like teenage love comedy =) like a piece of my heart, mean girls, or somethign like that ?
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Just My Luck?
A Cinderella Story?
I know this one isnt a comedy but it's amazingly cute and its based around love..
Tristan and Isolde.
Hope I Helped!:]
lemme know if you need any more!:)
Sara
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