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uhgg i need help
13/f
My dad died in october and stuf... and this guy i really liked and once went out with, his name is zach, went to his funeral. at the time i was dating his brother trace , haha. and trace told me that zach only went to my dad's funeral to get out of school for the day.
this made me angry and hurt me really badly. i didnt show it at the time and idk why but i still like him. any ways now several months later hes saying stuf like he thinks he likes me and hes shown some jelouse moments and yeah. one day i asked him if he went to my dads funeral just to get out of school and he said kinda
so hes on and off liked me and i dont know what to do!!! if he ever asks me out again should i saay yes or no???
would it be disrespectful to my dad ???
idk wat to do!!!!!
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This is all about your heart. You have your dad inyour heart you confused if there is room for zach. your dad more than anything would want you to be happy. If you feel like its the right time to orgive him for that. Than do that. If you feel that that can neve change him,t hat's his disrespectful to the core. no ones needs to tell yya when ya should say no. Good luck, sory about yo dad, and did he really say that?
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before i start im sorry about your dad!!!!!!!!!!! anyway well that is fucked up but he was honest and your dating his brother so i wouldnt keep going bac and forth you know but if you really think that you and him can last than do what your tells you to you know but remeber take it slow and dont rush into things goodluck and i hope it works out for the best but i would also make sure you tell him how much he hurt you when he went to your fathers funeral for the wrong reasons
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Just follow you're heart and I'm sure you dad will be happy with whatever his little girl does. But like the other person said(yes im a lurk tehe) it all depends on a persons respectability beliefs.
Just follow your heart but if you're having doubts then you probably shouldn't, but if in the end you decide to say yes.. make sure your heart and head agree.
Hope I Helped.
Sara<3
p.s. R.I.P Daddy. (L) <- your dad.
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He may or may not be insensitive.To some people going to funerals does not mean anything.To them a funeral is an unnecessary ceremony.It will not affect the person.Some people feel it is necessary to show your respect for the person.Others feel that just respecting the person is enough.It just depends on their individual beliefs.But it was surprising that he was honest about it.Just do what YOU want.
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