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I just can't seem to find Mr. Perfect
Well, I really like this guy and i have been likeing him for a lonnnnng time now! And i went up to him and i told him that i liked him and he really didnt responde just kinda said thanks. But i mean it just seem like fate has been bringing us together even my friends notice it!!!
i mean he said i was cute but thats it. I have tried to move on by liking other guys but thoese guys arent really intreasted in me but when ever a guy likes me there usally not my type! when will mr.perfect come along. and i havent even had my first kiss and all my friends have already done that actually i think ever one in my school has had there first kiss.
and its not like im an ugly duckling i guess im pretty since my friends and ppl i dont even know say im and the guy i like thinks i am he's just not intreasted!
WHAT DO I DO TO GET THIS GUY!! BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I TRIED EVERYTHING!! HOW DO I GET MY FIRST KISS???? WHY DO I ALWAYS GET THE GUYS IM NOT INTRESTED IN BUT THE GUYS I LIKE ARENT INTREASTED IN ME???
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well 1 thing dont worrie bout the kiss thing my freind for his purposes only lets call him p hasnt been loved or nothin i wanted to go with him its just he was my cousin like mainly everyone in this town but hes sexy and hes only had 3 girlfreinds but me on the other hand has had about 30 and if i took things slow like him i wouldnt have the names i do but im not about to get into my problems im just gonna say take a look at all the single boys in your school i mean you are in high school so theres bound to be somebody for you i found mine
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well, i'm in a similar situation, except i'm in college. the guy i liked found me attractive and even cuddled with me a few times, but i could tell he was not interested. but you know what, after i talked to him, and cleared things up - that yes i like him a lot, and that no, he really isn't interested in me that way - i felt so much better! so maybe try talking to him again, and actually ask the queston - do you like me back? it's not as scary as it seems at first. and hey, maybe he IS interested in at least getting to know you better or something.
as for finding other guys... i feel your pain. i guess all you can do is try to meet more people, and get to know better those around you. patience is very important. try not to think about keeping up with your friends. i didn't get my first real kiss untill i was 17, and it wasn't even with someone i liked very much - if i had more patience, i may have waited a little longer, and had a better experience with my first kiss. it's so hard not to feel pressured by what others are doing, but think of it this way - the fact that you're not there yet doesn't mean that something's wrong, it just means that life hasn't given you that chance yet, or that you have more patience or higher expectations than others. it'll happen in its own time =)
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This is off subject, but it would've helped to include your age. But either way, it doesn't matter. You are pretty. I do not know you, but everyone is pretty. No one knows when "Mr. Perfect" will come along. God, (or whatever your faith is), has a plan for everyone. It may happen in 20 years or it could happened sooner. Just hold you head high and enjoy life while you can. Don't worry about boys to much, sure.. we love 'em but we shouldn't make them the be all and the end all.
Now, to get the guy.. I know everyone says this but it's the truth. Just be yourself. You wouldn't want to put on an act, have him fall for it and then you be miserable because it's like you're stuck in someones body. It's even worse when they like something that you hate so you're stuck in someones body that you don't like. So-to-speak.
For the first kiss thing, I think you should just hold off. Now you may not care about my opinion and I respect that. But when the right guy comes along and gives you your first kiss, you'll be happy it took so long. Because you never forget your first kiss. So make it count and make sure it's with a boy you really like. Don't do it because "it's in style" don't throw away something so precious over something dumb.
Hope I Helped.
Sara<3
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to tell you the truth...
its better if you wait your first kiss out.
Hon, if you rush into your first kiss.. its won't be as exciting and passionate. Many of my friends have already had their first kiss, but i haven't yet.
But i'm not scared to admit it. a first kiss is a thing you will remember for the rest of your life. you don't want to regret it by rushing into it.
trust me, it's totally worth waiting for.
having a boyfriend isn't everything. I think its better to have a 'crush' than a 'boyfriend' because boyfriends ruin everything. You love the guy... but then you NEVER have time for yourself. You're always around the guy and you never get to do anything you want to do. then one day it comes and he'll dump you and you're heartbroken.
its not a fun feeling.
having a boyfriend isn't that exciting
i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. heck! no guy has ever asked me out. I'm not saying i'm ugly or anything... its just that guys at this age are soo imature they don't even know what love is. they just want a girlfriend asap so they can prove to the world that they are a true man, but honestly they are just being stupid and will break your heart
wait until the right moment, with the right guy.
it's like my best friend says
"never frown because you never know when someone is in love with your smile"
keep your head up and stay strong. main idea is to be yourself and then some guy will meet you.
just make me a promise that you won't be one of those girls who act like prima-donna's and act all prissy just to get a guy to like them. because really.. all they are doing is showing the guy who they are 'pretending' to be.. then when they start going out.. she's herself and he doesn't like her anymore.
its heartbreak after heartbreak.
I hope you make a wise decion and wait it out.
-volleyball2150
PS: guys aren't everything.. who says you need a guy in your life to be happy?
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