my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? gaby09 answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:46 am: tell your friend this but in the nicest way possible. most likely the reason she acts so desperate and will take any guy is because her self esteem isnt very high. So to help her build her up. Give her compliments and tell her why she deserves better than the guys she has been settling for. You have to be careful on how you phrase all of this to her because you dont want to hurt her, but the best thing is to just tell her the truth. What your friend needs most right now is for you to build her up so she can realize for herself that she deserves guys that are better. [ gaby09's advice column | Ask gaby09 A Question ]
BeachBlondie12 answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 7:37 pm: You need to talk to her before its to late. She could get involved in a guy that doesnt like her just useing her he prob will rape her. Talk to her and if she treats like crap after words you dont need her also tell her you are just trying to be a good friend.
Hope i helped
x3TRAGiC answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 7:14 pm: i have a friend just like that. In fact, she is my best friend. and the problem is, i am "more popular" than she is. and it makes her jealous and she will do anything to have a boyfriend. i try hooking her up with guys sometimes.. and she'll take anyone. what i think you should do, is talk to her. what i have said to my friend is: "i know you want a boyfriend and all, but you need to find someone that you truely like. someone who likes you, thinks your pretty, makes you happy, etc. that time might not be now, but you have to wait and it will come" just tell her what a great person she is.. and that she'll find someone who is right for her. she doesnt need to start a relationship with someone she doesnt truely like//likes her. [ x3TRAGiC's advice column | Ask x3TRAGiC A Question ]
BoriquaGirl145 answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 5:26 pm: I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel that way she doesnt have to date to many perverted guys and ends up dating a raper or something and you want wats best for your friend,right?Hope it works out.Please leave me a comment. [ BoriquaGirl145's advice column | Ask BoriquaGirl145 A Question ]
x0Abercrombiex0 answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 4:28 pm: Talk to her about it. Tell her she doesn't need to rush her life and get boys so fast, and its the truth.
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