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hey im the girl who asked you about the epal thing. my name is milena and im 13.
my email address is princess.milena@gmail.com whats yours? (link)
alamorx3@yahoo.com


how do i tell my best friend in the whole wide world to back off from the guy i like without her getting all defensive? I've tried to talk to her but she just gets mad....i don't know what to do!! (link)
well, i think that if you try talking to her and she gets all mad, she isnt worth being your friend because she shouldn't act that way. and she should be willing to talk to you about it. so i think you should let her know that. tell her if she is going to get mad for you saying this, then she can get mad at you deserve better. but if she knows you like this guy, and shes flirting with him a lot and stuff, you need to tell her how you feel. if she gets mad, once again, she isnt a true friend and she obviously isnt your "best friend in the whole wide world." you deserve better!!

haha. sorry if i didnt help much!


is anyone interested in becoming my epal? (pen pal but through email)
like one who i can write back and forth with through email.
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or if thats not possible is there any website that hosts epals for free? (link)
ive always wanted a pen pal.(like email) and im up for making new friends. so if you want to email me send me a messege in my inbox and ill give it to you!

sounds fun =]


I don't know, I've just been thinking about this alot lately. Okay, you know how people always say that to go to Heaven you have to believe in God and be religious and such? Well, what about a person who is kind and selfless and is just a good person in general and is an athiest? Does that mean that they wouldn't go to Heaven even though they were a good person who did good for other people? Because if you think about it, not every person who is religious is good. Like the terrorists who flew the plane into the World Trade Center, causing the deaths of all those innocent people. They claimed that they were doing that for God and their religion. I mean, wouldn't it seem wrong for a person just to go to Heaven because they were religious even if they weren't a good person, and a person who was a really good person not going to Heaven because they weren't religious? I was just thinking about this and wondering if anybody had some answers, perhaps? (link)
I have the answer to your question-
this all depends on what religion you are. there are many religions out there, but the main religions in american are catholics, christians, and lutherans. I am a christian. Christians, lutherans, and catholics (and every other religion out there) believe different things. Christians catholics and luthrans all believe there is a God. some other religions believe in different Gods. All i know is there is only one true God, who of course, created everything and is in heaven. Christians believe everything out of the bible. not a word changed. catholics change the bible, and add and remove to and from it. in the bible it explain how there will be a time for every living person to get saved. salvation (if you didnt already know) is when you pray to God that you believe that his son Jesus christ died on the cross for our sins, that you want to go to heaven when you die, and that you believe you are a sinner. once you pray that prayer, and you believe it with all your heard you go to heaven and theres no turning back. when your a young kid, and your raised into a religion.. there is still atleast one time.. where God allows you to see the real religion and the opportunity for salvation.
TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION:
there are many good people in the world, but that doesnt mean they believe in God. Just because they are good doesn't mean they believe Jesus died on the cross for their sins, and that they want salvation. As for the terrorists, yeah, they said they did everything for their religion. but they still had atleast one chance to get truely saved. its hard to determine what relgion is the correct religion because there are so many. but the bible tells us.


this is all very confusing.. especially to type it out on the computer..but i hope i helped atleast a little bit?


16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
i'm really sorry you feel this way. all i can tell you, is ending your life wont solve anything. you must be really depressed and im not sure why, but i know you have friends and family that love and care about you. im not sure why you hate everyone, or what the deal is with that.. but im sure if you find someone that you dont hate.. and get to know them they'll see what a good person you can be andd hey,you will get your first kiss and all. this isnt anyones fault but your own [if you think about it] so you cant reallyblam it on other people. if you have friends, why are you so depressed? there has to be a reason. maybe something happened? but everything is solveable. its not really good to "hate everyone and everything" and im not suree why because i dont reallyhave enough information tohelp you. all i know- is ending your life wont solve anything.
hope i didnt sound mean..
hope i helped atleast a little bit.
ifnot, im sorry. im not really sure what else to say.

hope everything works out


i am 13 years old and in seventh grade (female)
all the girls in my grade wear eyeliner except for me. My mom won't let me. (i asked her one time over the summer) what can i say to her or do so that she will let me wear it? (link)
well. at first i was afraid to ask my mom about wearing make up because i didnt know what she would say. but- if you only asked her once.. you could say something like "mom, i know ive asked you before.. but i am really wanting to wear eye liner. alot of the girls in school are wearing it, and i dont see anything wrong with it." and if she says no ask her nicely to explain to you why. it should be a good answer,=]
hope all goes well, and hope i helped a little?


I have thick curly hair!! And i feel lucky that i do have it but............... my hair styles r so limited i want one that will not make me seem dull or to preppy or sporty. My constant hair style is half up half down snd its getting dull. Just ;ast night i cut my slef one side bang to add coolness but im still dull!! i need a few hairstyles i could do with my hair that wont make me half to straighten it.
HELP!! (link)
well, there are some cute hair styles i see in my school that have to do with curly hair. it might be hard since your hair is thick, but if you take a shower in the morning before you go to school. you can put lots of gell & hairspray in it to make it look wet-curlyish. that always looks really cute. if you dont like straightening it, then wear it down. im sure it looks good.


I recently got a haircut...and ALOT of my hair was lost..and now I have a little below shoulder hair!

I love having short hair..but i can't find a nice hairstyle to go with to events.Celebs are always having their hair down...and no one i ask has any good styling tips.

My hair is dark brown, midi-long, thick (RELLY) and pretty fizzy sometimes. It's in steps and had a nice soft texture! (link)
i think my hair is just like yours. it is just below my shoulders.. and it gets really frizzy. what i do- is i straigten it because it gets wavy/curly. celebs that i see with shorter hair usually have it layerd. and girls at my school that look really cute with shorter hair have it layered. so what i think you should do, is get some low, middle length layers.. but not a lot cut in your hair. and maybe get the side bangs?? im not sure what you look like but most short hair goes good with the side bangs. if you dont like those, layering always looks good. as for the frizzyness, i have a major problem with that too. there are many de-frizzing shampoos and hair products out there that dont work, but what i do... use: garnier shampoo. for frizzy or dry hair. also, treseme de frizzing serum and FRIZZ EASE spray or hair serum works well too. if you straighten your hair or blow dry it, it makes it a little less frizzy depending on what product you use.

hope i helped, sorry if i didnt!


my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks (link)
i have a friend just like that. In fact, she is my best friend. and the problem is, i am "more popular" than she is. and it makes her jealous and she will do anything to have a boyfriend. i try hooking her up with guys sometimes.. and she'll take anyone. what i think you should do, is talk to her. what i have said to my friend is: "i know you want a boyfriend and all, but you need to find someone that you truely like. someone who likes you, thinks your pretty, makes you happy, etc. that time might not be now, but you have to wait and it will come" just tell her what a great person she is.. and that she'll find someone who is right for her. she doesnt need to start a relationship with someone she doesnt truely like//likes her.


okay there is this guy that i like nd me and my freind have been talkin to him online....the only thing is he doesn't know that it is me and her..he thinks it is this girl named brooke and i haven't been talkin to im later and now he is all tellin my friend that he loves her....but he thinks it is brooke how do i tell him that it was me and her in thebeginning witout tottally hurting our relationship now? (link)
i think you should explain to him that you like him. and just explain everything you just said- be totally truthful. lying is like digging a hole. ya know? the deeper it gets the more hard it is to get out of. you might not exactly be lying.. but if he finds out in the future it will hurt him more then it wouldif you told him. not sure if i helped at all- hope i did!


I was wondering,
what is the song that goes:
Rock your Body, Move your body"? I was trying to look it up on iTunes but no luck, the reason i was wondering was because i heard it at dancee and i loved it. So, if i could have some answers, taht would be great =] (link)
it might be "rock your body" by justin timberlake. but im not suree! good luck.




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