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took a girls virginity after she begged me now shes pissed
ive had a girlfriend for a little over a week now we fooled around allot for 3 nights prior everything but sex and she was mad because i teased her with everything but sex (which i refused because i had a bad feeling about it) after she harrassed me about not giving her what she wanted and her telling me that its what she wants and "dont worry about my feeling ill stop if its not what i want" i desided to go through with it so after a wonderful night which she enjoyed and left with a smile shes mad at me because she said she wasnt really ready and i should have known that. im not saying i have no fault but i dont think she can really be that mad at me for it
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i think that first you should let her know that she was the who pressured you into having sex with her, but be gentle and make sure you're telling her in person.
let her know that you are sorry for giving in to pressure, but she should apoligize for being the one to pressure.
stay with her, and be entirley sensitive.
find out if there's anything else wrong. she may be mad at someone else and be taking it out on you.
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Hey..Sup? Wow thats some really intense stuff I just hope that your both legal.lol. Well I think that (if you still want to be w. her and like her) you should call her up and buy her something cute like flowers and go over her house just to talk about the sitution. She might be feeling a little overwhelmed by you right now because you did just take her virginity so try to act caring and concerned w. w.e. she tells you. Maybe you should ask her what's wrong because it could possibly be that something else is on her mind and not just the sex thing. If she tells you that she forgives you 4 w.e. the problem was than you should refrain from having sex again (or make it REALLY romantic) until she's ready. If you don't want to see her again and you just want to stay friends you should go to her house and confront her and ask her what's wrong. Tell her that you really like her and all but she's just not the girl for you and that you 2 could still be friends. If you feel like being nice about it get her a cute bracelet or something to start your friendship on a healthy jump. Hope I helped. Xo> Rate me~~
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Hmm that does not sound like it's your fault exactly. It seems like she forced you into it. Tell her that. Remind her that she said that to you and pressured you. Maybe you shouldn't have agreed to it, but not much you could do about it now. Don't let her get to you about it, she did nag you to do it. She realizes she made a mistake, but to blame it on you? No fair. Tell her all that though. Good luck.
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she cant be mad at you whatsoever. idk if you're religious er anything but i know alot of people that WANT to have sex, but are into that whole sex after marriage thing like myself. alot do have sex and regret it totally. she cant blame you whatsoever, because she harrased you in the first place. the only fault you have is letting that control you, instead of going with your bad feeling, but she can't be mad at you.
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