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HELP!!!!!!
ok well im 13/f and i still havent made out with a guy , like ive had the opertunitys (cant spell sorry) and ive wanted to but it just doesnt feel right and i feel that if i did make out with a guy that i would be known as a slut . everybody calls me prude to and i want to make out im just scared that the person i do make out with will think im a bad kisser . is this normal? should i make out? pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!!!!!
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hey hun you need to always remember one thing :
DONT LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU AND DONT LET THEM PRESSURE YOU INTO DOING THINGS YOU DONT WANT TO
if you are not ready to make out with a guy then dont! you have to be confortable with it not pressured into doing it
if you want to make out with the guy but are just nervous just go for it you wont be so nervous after that
but keep in mind if you are not ready then dont just wait until you are
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i know how you feel being called prude lol. no one is going to think your a slut because you made out with a guy i don't know why they would think that because people kiss alll the time. unless your making out with a guy and you have like no idea who they are lol. but just dont think about making out cause eventually you willand if you do kiss just follow his lead if your unsure how to makeout, etc.
hope i helped
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Hey Sweety..sup?? Well trust me it's totally normal to be freaked out when the topic of making out comes up. I think that you shouldn't force yourself to make out w. anyone until you think your ready for the challenge. Don't worry about the fact that people call you *prude* there just jealous because your not a *slut* and they are. When you think that the time is right and that you want to just grab the guy that your with and go for it..don't worry about being bad most guys won't pull away either way. It's also a proven fact that 99% of guys won't pull away if a girl tries to kiss them because they don't want to appear not manly enough.lol. I thought I was bad the 1st time I made out w. a guy but I got a lot of compliments so don't worry about it and just go w. the flow. Xo> Hope I helped! Rate me~~
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ok well dont be scared to make out! its always scary the first time but after that you wont be afraid anymore! and hes not gunna think your a bad kisser thats just your nerves getting yourself all nervous! so relly dont worry about it and jus go for it! and people wont think ur a slut!!hope i helped XoXo
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wait fro someone special you really care about, dont care about what others call you, and if you real;ly make out with a person you care about you'll be so comfortable you wont feel embarassed. Happened with me. I got my first kiss as a freshman. Why rush it? It will happen on its own time and dont care what people think like I said before.. it will just screw with your emotions when theres no need.
Oh, and you're not prude..
and you're not a slut.
Just make sure you stay un-slutty. ;)
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Lol, I'll tell you what's not normal.
I'm sixteen years old. I've had a boyfriend for three years now. We still haven't made out.
Know why? Because we're saving ourselves for our marriage, and we're old fashioned people.
Don't feel pressured to make out. It'll happen when it happens (if you want it to)... and don't worry about being a bad kisser or a prude or a slut. Do what you feel is right, and if people can't deal with that, it's not really any of thier business anyway. You know, unless they want to make out with you...
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Nah don't rush. You aren't prude or anything for not kissing someone yet. Wait for that first kiss to mean something to you, something you'll want to remember. If its just to say you kissed someone, then theres no fun in telling everyone that. Don't wait until your down the aisle either, but don't kiss someone or let someone kiss you unless you really want to. Normal to feel that way, and no you aren't a late bloomer either. Trust me, nobody wants to see 10 year olds make out. Don't worry about being a bad kisser. That only counts if you are way older and have done is too many times. Then in that case if you are no good, and you'll be able to tell; but for now don't worry. Good luck.
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im 15 and about to be a sophmore. i havent madeout either but like..i made a promise to myself i wouldnt kiss anyone until im 16, and my bf is perfectly fine with it. dont kiss someone juss because your 13 and havent yet. your still young! you want your first kiss to be memorable. you don't want to do it for the wrong reasons. plus, if your bf or whoever you kiss really likes you, then he won't care even if you are a bad kisser. you guys can always practice!
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Maybe you are just not ready for it.I think you need more time, or maybe you're just too shy..It's normal..People get nervous about it..Especially if it is their first time..You should make out if you want to..Don't be shy..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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Don't make out with someone just to make out with someone. Wait for the right guy to come along. Don't rush it! It'll happen sooner than you think & besides, you're 13 so you still have plenty of time.
It is normal to think that you will be a bad kisser. I think everyone thinks that before making out with someone, but once its happening...you don't even think about it!
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Don't be scared. When it happens you will just do it without thinking. Everyone isn't a good kisser on their first kiss. Just kiss someone who you know won't care whether you're a good kisser or not. If they care too much then don't waste your first kiss on him! Good luck!
L♥OVE // Tiffanie*`
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