Okay, well there is this boy name andrew and at the end of the 6th grade i started to like him and at first he was cool about it and then he was really mean to me and said mean things to me and really broke my heart although i still liked him. In the 7th grade i went on and off liking him and we hung out a lot more and i was his best friend and he told me that somedays he liked me and other days he didnt and i just stopped like telling people that i liked him i mean if people asked i wouldnt lie about it but one day andrew asked if i still liked him and i said, "ya but i dont want to like you because whenever i like you, your always mean to me." and he was like "that was 1 time and i've changed" and he kisses me a lot and always ask for kisses and i just really like him and he always says these sweet things to me and i mean i really want to be with him but he says that some days he likes me and other days he doesnt and he really hurt me in the 6th grade and i dont even know if he wants a girlfriend and urghh now i just dont know.. somedays i think i'm over him but then when he signs online or calls me or i see him i just completly melt and idk .. should i just keep wasting my time on him or should i try to move on? idk what to do please help i need advice
Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:53 pm: Hm.. he tends to get confused a lot and I dont think he knows what he wants. I think that you should move on. I honestlly dont think that any girl would want someone who likes them sometimes and doesnt like them the other day. Thats just bs! Anyways.. like I said try to move on. I know that you really like him but still you could find someone who will treat you better. You guys can still be best friends. That wont change at all. This is more like lust. But you're smart and I know that you will make the right decision and how what to do. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:49 pm: It sounds to me like he needs to make up his mind on whether or not he likes you. If he really does like you, he should treat you better instead of being mean to you for liking him. I think you should try to move on. I know it might be hard, but I'm sure there is someone perfect out there for you who won't treat you badly. If you don't move on, you might end up getting your heart broken. =[ I hope everything works out for the best.
Sportychicc9393 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:28 pm: I don*t think you should go out with him again. You dont want a man that sometimes likes you and sometimes doesnt.You want a guy that loves you all of the time and wont take you for granted.Hope I helped somehow! IM me if needed Sportychicc9393 [ Sportychicc9393's advice column | Ask Sportychicc9393 A Question ]
i_define_weird answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:21 pm: Something like this happened to me. If he said he's really changed, then i think you should give him a chance. Weather we'd like to believe or not, after guys make mistakes or after they're a complete asshole, some do change. He seems like he's interested in you. && what he did to you is in the past. you never know, he might've acted that way to you cause he liked you too. People act mean to the person they like sometimes. I think you two like each other a lot. So go for it. Good luck && hope I helped.
dasweetness2603 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:20 pm: Hey Sweety..Sup? Well I def. understand the situation that you're under. I think that you should confront him and ask him if he's serious about you or just (what it seems like to me) wants to be "friends w. benefits.* I know that it might seem really difficult to ask him how he feels about you because you might be a little shy but believe me it'll pay off in the end. If he tells you he really likes you and wants you as a Gf than go for it! On the other hand if he tells you he's not intrested in a serious relationship right now than you should just stay friends. If he tells you he just wants to be friends than try your hardest to keep your mind off of him by hanging out w. your friends, movies, etc...Maybe you could even go to some places where you could find really cute boys wherever you live and try to stop thinking about him. I hope everything turns out o.k. Xo> Rate me~~ [ dasweetness2603's advice column | Ask dasweetness2603 A Question ]
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