ok so theres this guy that sits behind me in all my classes and he always pulls my hair, and i was wearing a thong and he noticed it.. and kept pulling up my shirt, he hit my butt one day. and it seems like hes always flirting with me. i asked his friend who sits next to him why he always does that, he said " i think he might like you" i dont know if its true, hes cool and all , but he went through alot, his brother just died in september, and i donth think he could handle it, plus my bffl likes him too and they went out but he never liked her, he felt bad for her. im so confused
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dasweetness2603 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 9:08 pm: Hey..sup? I think that you should go for this guy because even though he's been going through a lot lately, maybe he just wants you there 4 moral support. You can be his gf and still help him through w.e. challenges he encounters. As 4 your friend..(I know this sounds bitchy) but she had her chance. lol. Sometimes life just isn't fair..but hey he seems like a sweet guy so how often do you encounter guys w. good personalities? If you're still worried about your friend though, I'd talk to her and let her know the situation, I'm sure if you talk to her before you guys get together than @ least she won't be surprised. She can't control your life and you can't control the feelings you have 4 other ppl. Hope I helped. Xo> [ dasweetness2603's advice column | Ask dasweetness2603 A Question ]
TimmyTM answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:44 pm: Just because someone's going through something doesn't mean he's void of feelings. Though, it's my personal feeling that his style of flirting is a bit of an intrusion. Guess it depends on what YOU are like, as well.
funkymunky817 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:22 pm: i think he likes you...or at least friend with major benefits. although if i were you i would have slapped him upside the head A LONG time ago. but i suggest you try to talk to him about it.
LadyGoodman answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:00 pm: Unless you really really like him, I'd suggest not risking your friendship. Keep him as a friend for now and if you really think you like him after a while, then maybe go for it. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
Staci_3494 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:58 pm: Well I think you and your best friend are most important and that you should just tell him he can be a good friend. Thast what I would do but just do whatever feels right. [ Staci_3494's advice column | Ask Staci_3494 A Question ]
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