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ok me and my boyfrind have been datin know for 9 months i am 14 and he just turned 17. we are in a long distance realtionshhip(he live about 2hours away from me) and he left on staurday for 2 weeks to a basketball thing and the thing is he went with his "firend" that likes him. like this girl is a bitch she always tryin to do something with him and trying to get me mad.i trust my boyfriend that wont do anything with her but they are stayin in the same room and bed..i know there is nothing goin on wit them because he doesnt like her like that and his sister would have already told me there is.. his sister is going with him too and the same room but different bed.. should i be worried.:( i trust him but not her. can someone please help me.
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my friend is in a similar situation. she's 14 and her boyfriend is about to turn 17. he lives an hour away from us and is moving to a place that's even farther. since we dont know what goes on at his school, she is a little skeptical about staying with him. she says that he could be doing anything with the girls at his school. but he told me that he doesnt have feelings for anyone except my friend.
if your boyfriend really wants to be with you, and im sure he does, then you shouldnt worry. if she tries to do anything with him chances are that he wont let her in fear of losing you.
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Okay, first of all, I just have to ask this... why would your boyfriend sleep in the same bed as his friend and not in the same bed with his sister instead?? That just seems kind of strange to me. But anyways, that aside, I think that since your boyfriend is already gone on this trip there isn't too much you can do right now. Maybe if you talk to him on the phone or something you could just let him know how you feel about this girl. Make sure you tell him that you trust him, but not her. You don't want him to think that you don't trust him. If your boyfriend really cares about you then you shouldn't have to worry about him doing anything with this girl. If he is tempted to do somthing, he is probably not worth it, anyways because he wouldn't be considerate of your feelings. I'm sure that if he really cares about you he will respect your feelings and be good to you. I hope this helps... just let me know if you need anything else!
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Well.. this is my advice.. I'm not saying that your boyfriend is bad.. but If their sharing the same room.. in the same bed.. Umm.. i'm thinking their doing something.. now my questions is why can't he just sleep in a different room? or switch beds with his sister.?
well.. yeah if you believen him keep on going out with himm..
When he gets home.. you should talk to him.. really the same bed.. well.. that's kind of weird.
Take my advice
-Soraya_
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I understand what you mean I trust my boyfriend to but i dont trust the other girls that he is always around.The ebst thing for me to tell you is to trust him to do the right thing and if he has a cell phone or whatever make sure you call him. But not to much because then he will think that you dont trust him and when ever your about to get off the phone with him make sure you say "I love you" and if he really does not care for this other girl he will say it right back to you with her standing there. Play her games just like she is trying to play but let her know that your man is not for sale.. Hope things work out.. ♥
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well I think you should of talked to your boyfriend ahead of time before he left, but if you can get ahold of him, tell him its bothering you and let him know how much it would mess up the relationship if he were to do something that stupid and do anything with this girl. You could also ask the sister to keep an eye on him for you too..but if you do trust him you probably have nothing to worry about because if he really does like you, he wouldnt risk ruining the relationship by hooking up with this girl! and I don't think he would do anything with her because he knows she would probably try to rub it in your face..and he wouldnt risk getting caught! =D hope i helped ♥
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heyy .. normally its the girl that would do something first and if your guy is loyal enough then he wont go through with whatever the girl is trying to do so just try to relax and trust your guy and his sister would tell you so just ask his sister for a full report when she gets back or even ask your guy about ti if you feel comfortable enough to
hope i helped
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