ok so my bestfriend (whos a guy) who lives 2 doors down and me have been best friends forever..well we always mess around and like wrestle and play fight. ive knwon him since i was 5. well anyways im talking to him on aol right now and hes like "last time you were at my house i almost when down to kiss you but i didnt know if you would like it so i didnt" wtf. i do not like him like that @ all. hes really cute and alot of girls like him..but i cant hlep it...i just dont see him that way..
help..i feel way weird now..
x0xMrSm answered Sunday June 5 2005, 10:38 am: just talk to him about it. but you have to be nice, cuz if you aren't, a fight could start and you wouldn't want to ruin a friendship (a good one). if you don't think that you can talk to him about it, then try to ignore it. you probably see him as a brother type (not like a best friend who you secretly like). hope all goes well.
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TRiSHx0xL0VE answered Saturday June 4 2005, 11:48 pm: HOLY CRAP! lol wooow this is whats happenin to me right now! my best guy friend that's practically a brother to me really likes me..but i dont have any feelings for him at all. well maybe you should tell him how you feel so he doesnt spend so much time worrying about you. If you don't tell him sooner or later, he may htink you're leading him on which would probably crush him. Just tell him how you love him ( as a friend) and you wouldnt wanna do anything to hurt him and you dont think that a relationship is a good idea because you dont wanna lose your realtionship as friends. you can also tell him that he's a really sweet guy and that you're sure that other girls would be dying to get with him.
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Im_Gone21 answered Saturday June 4 2005, 10:48 am: If you don't like him at all in that way, tell him how you feel. But don't do it in a nasty way. Just say you need to talk to him about something inmportant and MAKE him listen. If he reeeeaaally likes you that way, then he should be able to respect your feelings, and drop it. If he can't be mature about, then tell him that you are NOT interested in him, and that you don't want to ruin the most awesomest (i know thats not a word, but i like it. lol) friendsship eVeR over feeling that not the both of you share. I really hope this helps.
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Friday June 3 2005, 7:35 pm: heyy .. sounds like me and my best guy friend eric he did the same thing and i just told him that i like him only as a friend and he dealed fine and said ill just wait until you might be interested and we are still the best of friends
KaTiE_LyNn answered Friday June 3 2005, 7:10 pm: honestly, just ignore it. for now at least. if the subject comes back up just tell him how you feel. also, try to imagine what would happen if you two did get together. you never know. i had a best friend.. and we're in love now. :)
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