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I'm a bitch! Don't fuck with me!
Nah, I'm kidding...but really, you don't wanna fuck with me.

I wish I could have what ever I want. You know what I want? A life. A life that doesn't include drugs, hatred, fear, war, and assholes like the president. I'm such a simple girl. I don't see why everything is so fucking complicated! And I want David, but we all know I can't have him!



I hate the way you talk to me.
And the way you cut your hair.
I hate the way you drive my car.
I hate it when you stare.
I hate your big dumb combat boots.
And the way you read my mind.
I hate you so much it makes me sick -It even makes me rhyme.
I hate the way you're always right.
I hate it when you lie.
I hate it when you make me laugh
Even worse when you make me cry.
I hate it when you're not around.
And the fact that you didn't call.
But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you --
Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.


Just a taste of teenage years.
When even your biggest problems
Are too small for tears.
Smiles, tears, superficial fears, All are part of the teenage years. First dates, first cars, having crushes on football stars. First jobs, first kisses, one to many hits and misses. The best years of growing up. With great achievments and screwing up. Good girls, bad boys, finally throwing out old toys. Sneaking out, getting caught, remembering all the fights we've fought. Boyfriends, girlfriends, hoping they're love never ends. Heart-breaks, making out, just to hear parents shout. Drugs, pot and beer, unfortunately all are part of the teenage years. High school college, then it ends, it�¢??s time to change once again. But we'll always remember all of the times, when we won we lost and when we cried. We'll always have memories of our fights and fears, and all the good times spent in the teenage years�¢?�¦

If the sea was vodka, and I was a duck,I'd start from the bottom and drink my way up. But since the sea isn't vodka,and I'm not a duck, just give me my vodka, and shut the fuck up!


Never say "I Love You"
If you dont really care.
Never talk about feelings
If they aint really there.
Never hold my hand
If your gonna break my heart
Never say your going to
If you dont plan to start.
Never look into my eyes
If all you do is lie.
Never say hello
If you really mean good-bye.
If you really mean forever
Then say you will try
But NEVER say FOREVER
Cause forever makes me CRY



*Cute enough to make you look twice, sweet enough, but not too nice, crazy but not too wild, the kinda girl that will make you smile*





E-mail: greenday_and_simpleplan@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: new york
Occupation: musician
AIM: SimplePlanLove8
Member Since: June 4, 2005
Answers: 6
Last Update: December 5, 2005
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i am 13/f, 8th grade, virgin, flat, has not yet had my period, don't masterbate, etc etc. I havent even had my first kiss yet, which totally sucks. but i always have this gross white goopy stuff in my vagina or my underwear. its really gross. it doesnt smell or anything, its just.. gross. what is it????

i rate 5 (link)
umm, actually, it's discharge. If you're getting that, it's almost time for your period. If you have pubic hair, then expect it soon. And once you get it, don't worry about being flat. I was like that, and I am like...a C cup. You grow REALLY fast, and you tend it eat more (in some girls, like me) and you grow taller faster. And if you don't get your period soon, then think about this. (I shoudn't be telling you this, but it makes sense.) If you want to have sex, you COULD go with out a condom, because you have a great chance of not getting prego...even though it can still happen. So there's a good thing about not having your pd. (DON'T BE IN A RUSH! IT SUCKS!)


Good Luck


I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden-- (link)
In order for me to help you with this, I'm gonna need to know PART of your past life, if you don't mind. I was just like you, and I think I'm good at helping out with this stuff. Maybe if you've been neglected, and abused or whatever, that's why you feel hopeless. I was like that too, and now I'm a little better, but still feel the same...you'll get over it, I PROMISE. If you listen to depressing music, then stop. That also has an effect on your feelings. Watch romantic, funny, active movies...to help you along with that crush of yours. Get ideas from those movies and like....try it! You never know what will happen until you try. (god I sound like a mom! lol.) Fantasies work pretty good too. I'm a hopeless, pathetic romantic, but everything is ok. Not the best, but better. Think of things that will make you happy. Like if you are wiht your crush. How does she make you feel? How do you act around her? Try to analyse (spelling?) and like...figure it out. It might take some time, but it's all good. I promise things will get better. Oh yeah....and if you do drugs, or drink or whatever...that probably has to something to do with it. I was drinking andsmoking pot, and then I quit... and I feel GREAT. I just hope you won't do anything stupid. If you wanna talk about this some other time...my AIM sn is xXxGreenDayxXx29......GOOD LUCK


Ok. I am a 13 year old girl and i dont know why but when i go to sleep i think about sex a lot i mean a LOTT. I feel like i am the only one that does it. I feel like a porno-freak and i dont know why i do this it kind of comes naturally. Is it normal? I dont have my period yet and can anyone tell me what masturbating means??? i know a lot about sex but i dont know what to do about this. I think that if people find out they will hate me. I dont want to finger myself or anything. I just want to be a normal kid. I dont have a boyfriend and i dont think about anyone in paticular. I just think about sex. HELP ME!Since this was very long i will reat high if you try to help!!! (link)
Hey, it's ok! I am 13 too, and I think about sex all the time! I think it's normal. Oh, and masturbating means (for girls) to finger themselves, but for guys, they whack off...or jack off. You shouln't feel like a porno freak, because it's perfectly normal. Fingering yourself isn't bad either, and it doesn't mean you are desparate. Just don't tell anyone. Just as long as you don't have sex (now) then there shouldn't be any probs. I'm prbobaly worse, because I think about having sex with the guys in Simple Plan and Green Day. So I guess its ok to think about it. There is no such thing as a normal kid either. NO BODY IS PERFECT AND NO BODY IS NORMAL. WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING MESSED UP ABOUT US! And you shouldn't worry about people hating you. Man,do you know how many people hate me? You couldn't even count that high! So no worries. It's PERFECTLY normal. Wait...that doesn't make any sense, but that's ok. Hope I helped...


ok so my bestfriend (whos a guy) who lives 2 doors down and me have been best friends forever..well we always mess around and like wrestle and play fight. ive knwon him since i was 5. well anyways im talking to him on aol right now and hes like "last time you were at my house i almost when down to kiss you but i didnt know if you would like it so i didnt" wtf. i do not like him like that @ all. hes really cute and alot of girls like him..but i cant hlep it...i just dont see him that way..
help..i feel way weird now.. (link)
If you don't like him at all in that way, tell him how you feel. But don't do it in a nasty way. Just say you need to talk to him about something inmportant and MAKE him listen. If he reeeeaaally likes you that way, then he should be able to respect your feelings, and drop it. If he can't be mature about, then tell him that you are NOT interested in him, and that you don't want to ruin the most awesomest (i know thats not a word, but i like it. lol) friendsship eVeR over feeling that not the both of you share. I really hope this helps.

God Bless.


hey..i have been under a TON of stress latley...my whole family has. there's lots and lots of things going on. does anyone know any good ways of releiving strss BESIDES cuttting? ((i REALLY dont want to do that)) yeah i would reaaaalllyyy very much appreciate any effort at all. thanksss!
~*jemmy*~ (link)
Okay. I know what it is like to cut your self. I've done it. It doesnt hurt if you really have a reason to,and if you don't, you will feel pain. What I would do is take a piece of paper and write down all your problems. Then, BURN IT!
It helps me alot. If you cut yourself once, you get addicted...just like a drug. SO w/e you do, DON'T cut, just be cool, and do that paper thingy. OR>> you can talk to a TRUSTED FRIEND and listen to what she/he ahs to say.

I really hope this helps.

*p.s. cutting gives you scars. And you can't get rid of them, especially if you cut your arms or wrist.


God Bless.


ok theres this boy that i really like and have alot of feelings for. i have know him for a really long time. he was my frst b/f, my first kiss, and i lost my virginity to him also. then he switched school districts and moved, only like a 5 minute car ride.but we didnt really keep in touch. now i see him once in a while when hes in the nieghborhood, he stops by my house, he kisses me, and the last time ihe was here he took down my #, and then asked me if he could come over in 2 days and chill and i said sure, he nevr came over though. i need help do u think this kid likes me back, and should i be mad at him for not showing up when he says and wat should i say to him about this??
sorry its so long (link)
Girl, it will be o.k. Actuallym He probably got nervous and chickened out.It happens to a lot a people. So, no worries! I think everything will be just fine, and if it's not, dont be sorry for yourself. No matter how bad things get, they can always get worse.

Hope it helps




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