Ok. I am a 13 year old girl and i dont know why but when i go to sleep i think about sex a lot i mean a LOTT. I feel like i am the only one that does it. I feel like a porno-freak and i dont know why i do this it kind of comes naturally. Is it normal? I dont have my period yet and can anyone tell me what masturbating means??? i know a lot about sex but i dont know what to do about this. I think that if people find out they will hate me. I dont want to finger myself or anything. I just want to be a normal kid. I dont have a boyfriend and i dont think about anyone in paticular. I just think about sex. HELP ME!Since this was very long i will reat high if you try to help!!!
hyperhottiegirl answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 9:56 am: ok first of all masturbating is when you stick your finger into yourself. YEah also your 13 your supposed to be thinking about sex and all. Yeah just to make you feel better i am 13 and who would of guessed i am just like you lol. Well its ok dont feel bad no one can think your weird for that and trust me the boys will think your sexy for wanting sex just dont worry so much. [ hyperhottiegirl's advice column | Ask hyperhottiegirl A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Friday October 28 2005, 10:40 am: It's normal to think about sex. At your age, hormones are flooding through your body, the media is always showing sexy stuff, and your friends are probably starting to talk about it more. You're perfectly normal.
Other girls and boys your age are thinking about sex, too, and some may masturbate. Masturbation just means touching yourself in a way that feels good - that might be fingering, touching your clitoris, or anything else that feels good. It's harmless and a healthy way to explore your body. You don't need to tell anyone you do it, but be assured that most everyone tries it as least once!
While starting to think about sex can be scary and confusing, it's best if you have someone who knows what they're talking about to talk to! Your school may have a guidance counsellor or a nurse. Many areas also have sexual health clinics that will see teens to offer advice and support, and there are also fantastic websites on the subject.
Im_Gone21 answered Sunday October 23 2005, 6:28 pm: Hey, it's ok! I am 13 too, and I think about sex all the time! I think it's normal. Oh, and masturbating means (for girls) to finger themselves, but for guys, they whack off...or jack off. You shouln't feel like a porno freak, because it's perfectly normal. Fingering yourself isn't bad either, and it doesn't mean you are desparate. Just don't tell anyone. Just as long as you don't have sex (now) then there shouldn't be any probs. I'm prbobaly worse, because I think about having sex with the guys in Simple Plan and Green Day. So I guess its ok to think about it. There is no such thing as a normal kid either. NO BODY IS PERFECT AND NO BODY IS NORMAL. WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING MESSED UP ABOUT US! And you shouldn't worry about people hating you. Man,do you know how many people hate me? You couldn't even count that high! So no worries. It's PERFECTLY normal. Wait...that doesn't make any sense, but that's ok. Hope I helped... [ Im_Gone21's advice column | Ask Im_Gone21 A Question ]
advicegodesses2 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 2:42 pm: 1st of all, this is very normal to be feeling this way at your age. I have alot of friends that feel this way, too. What yu're feeling everytime before you go to sleep is that you're horny. Either go find a real dick or go get a dildo. I fyou dont know how to use a dildo write me back. If you dont know how to use a dick then write me back. I'm here for ya gurl. Even though I don't know you. [ advicegodesses2's advice column | Ask advicegodesses2 A Question ]
maria2653 answered Thursday October 20 2005, 8:39 pm: its completeyly normal. do what you want! i read in a book that masturbating is completely normal too. just wait til your married for sex. hope i helped [ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question ]
Jessica13 answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 5:48 pm: ok no you are not the only one that thinks aobut sex.
masturbating is were you like finger yourself i also one of my friends says she masturbates in the shower she puts the shower on full blast and just lays there i don't know what she means but that is her exact words
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Sallyox answered Wednesday October 19 2005, 5:29 pm: well this is very normal
masturbating is basically fingering yourself or using a vibrator. Its very pleasurable and many teens do it so it nothing to be ashamed of.
it sounds to me you just want sex! since you are still young i wouldnt recomend going out and haing sex, but if you really feel like u need that sort of pleasure then you should probably masturbate.
If you have anymore questions id be more than happy to help you!!
tada answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 10:57 pm: hunny hunny hunny... how are you doin?
anyways for your answer! i would say...
-thinking about all that stuff is normal!!! && if you think people will hate you for that then that is plain crazy talk! so yes its normal no biggie dont let it get to your mind so much! to be honest "mature teens/kids/adult" wouldnt really care... well thast what i think...
-masterbating is like having sex but theres no way of gettin pregnant... but you can give your ownself pleasure... thast what it means...
-&& you are are a normal kid! everybody goes through this && it will be over before you know it! so i hope i help you && remember theres nothing wrong with that! love you loads!
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 10:25 pm: It's normal..it's just your hormones...it happened to me too. Especially when you go to sleep, you think alot and the sex thoughts pop into your head because your body is becoming sexually attracted to other people. Mastubating means when you touch yourself and it feels good. I've read about girls doing it..but I myself don't do it and if my friends do, they dont tell me! But I do know plenty of guys who do it lol! People will not hate you..because they might not admit it but they do the same thing....but i wouldn't mention it unless it's to your bff! hope i helped! ♥ caitie [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:04 pm: Ha! You think you're the only one who thinks about sex? You're very wrong. Almost everyone thinks about it.
Mastrubating is touching yourself in a way where it feels good in that way. You know what I mean? Like rubbing yourself.
inthedark535 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:48 pm: it's totally normal. it's called puberty. ur hormones are changing you, but that doesn't mean you have to go and have sex with everyone. it's ok to think about sex. we all do.. all the time.. also, masterbating is healthy. dont worry about it.. grow up.. and dont have sex until ur old enuff and ready!! [ inthedark535's advice column | Ask inthedark535 A Question ]
The_best_there_is answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:16 pm: hey dont worry everyone goes through this i know im a guy and everything but everyone goes through this and your not the only one that just means your getting older and want to expierement more im sry to say but pretty soon you will be expierementing with different things and or ppl your this is just a maby but you might hey i hope i could help you in any way [ The_best_there_is's advice column | Ask The_best_there_is A Question ]
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