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Question Posted Tuesday October 18 2005, 7:57 pm

i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.

What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??

i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!!

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Additional info, added Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:29 pm:
HELLO!!!! THIS IS NOT ME!! I REPEAT, NOT ME!!!!!
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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:35 pm:
To tell you the truth, I think that a 13-year-old girl is too young to be having sex. I mean waaay too young. 13 years old is old enough to start venturing into warm relationships with boys, but certainly not sex. And I'm not tryng to be mean or anything, but it's also kind of slutty. Making yourself available to boys is a very bad reputation for a girl of that age. Losing your virginity is a big step, and a 13-year-old isn't mature enough to handle it, even if she's considered "mature for her age." Sex shouldn't just be with some hot joe shmoe, but a person you really love and trust. A lot of girls go "but I do love him" but a girl of that age cannot fall in love. A 13-year-old isn't emotionally mature enough and isn't experienced enough of the world to fall in love, no matter how much she's gone through.

There's nothing really wrong with having a boyfriend at 14, but not if he's 17 and you barely know him. You should go out with a guy if you know him and you feel good around him. If they get to know each other, etc., that's lucky. But that's not always going to happen.

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Durene answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 9:16 pm:
Okay, if I was a MAN, and had some sense in my head, I'd totally not date you. Well it depends if I really loved you (as a man), and you really loved me. But then, glance at your past. You better feel pretty ashamed, or your parents better will.

He'd probably be a player, or a sex-crazed idiot. The kind of guy who'd go "OMG LETS HAVE SEX" to a random person in a school hallway, realizing 5 seconds later that it was a teacher. Or, if it was a random student, he'd have sex with her and then afterwards go "Oh.. so.. lyke.. what's your name again?" Then "[insert name here]. Duh." And the guy would be like "riiight" and continue to make fake love to her.

there's a huge chance you are talking about yourself, so I'll just say to watch out, because assuming you are younger than 17... well, you can get really bad diseases and get raped or something. (sometimes condoms dont always work) If your 15, or 16, you really dont want to get a baby then, especially with High School, etc. going on. Enjoy your happy, little child-life, without sex before you regret it and try to act hip and stuff at 30, because you like Micheal J didnt have a correct, childhood, and pretend that you lost your virginity at like.. 20 instead of 13. I would feel bad for your baby, to have such a horrible mother, as thee. For your parents "GET SOME SENSE IN YOUR HEADS, YOUR DAUGHTER IS A SEX-CRAZED IDIOT!!" unless its, you know, a family thing.

And every answer is intelligent, in its own way. You may get mad at it and rate it a 1, but you know that its still smarter than you, because your trying to hide that you know. also, what is so important about getting 5s? Its not like you're gonna get medals or something.

Dont be a slut.

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inthedark535 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:45 pm:
someone is gonna get pregnant or get aids.

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x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:44 pm:
Hmmm...I think I might know you because that is going on right now in my life! WIERD!! Well anyway I think that that girl needs to think about what she's doing and she that it's stupid and I';m not sayign she can't ahve sex, but find one guy...that's near her age..and use protection. Most liekly the girl you're referring to has probably ruined her reputation...but she can fix it if she sticks with one guy...a decent guy! Well I hope helped..good luck. and if you need any more help drop one in my inbox! ♥ caitie

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urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:41 pm:
I wouldn't say slut, because that's really not that nice. It was DEFINATLY a HUGE mistake to have sex, especially at age 13.

I'm very against cheating on people, because it really hurts to think that your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't think you're good enough. I really wouldn't hook up with someone I just met, either. But that's just me personally.

I think you seriously need to stop cheating and stuff or you will turn out to be a whore. No offense meant. Hope I helped!!

!~*becca*~!

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sillyrob answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:39 pm:
I'd consider the first girl kinda slutty and unaware of her maturity level. Thirteen is a bad age to start having sex, and cheating is wrong whether you're twelve or seventy-nine.

I'd consider that guy a player (and no that isn't always a good thing).

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:35 pm:
You want honest answers. Here is an honest answer.

Judging by what you said, this girl you are talking about seems like a slut. Having sex at 13 years old is disgusting, and cheating on a boyfriend at 14 is gross too. Hooking up with a guy she hardly knows that is 17 who is probably way more experienced than she, she doesn't know if he could have any diseases. So, what I think about her, she seems like a slut, immature, and very very stupid.


I consider a guy who has sex with a girl he barely knows to be like any other guy: Young and horny. A typical guy. Sure, I think it's gross, but it doesn't suprise me that a guy would do that. What guy that is horny would pass up the opportunity to sleep with a girl? He won't care if she has a boyfriend, he just wants some ass.


So, you wanted an honest answer, you got one.

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therocketsummer answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:33 pm:
An unsure 13 year old, and as yg said- not very smart, lack of common sense.

-tekcoreht

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Vendetta answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:33 pm:
Person One: A whore.
Person Two: An asshole.

Just like The Rocky Horror Picture Show. No, wait, that was "slut" and "asshole"...

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malibubarbiie111 answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:32 pm:
uhm...* hoes. jay kay.-- but it`s not that good of a choice.*

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karenR answered Tuesday October 18 2005, 8:30 pm:
Same for both. Putting it nicely...not very bright. :)

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