ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
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cheddar answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 5:51 pm: if it's your first time, and you have to ask how long you should wait, then don't have sex. if you feel ready to have sex, then you'll be ready. not to seem rude, but if you have to ask an online advice column for suggestions about a personal decision, i don't think you're ready. [ cheddar's advice column | Ask cheddar A Question ]
frenchy answered Tuesday November 22 2005, 3:02 pm: hey! personally, i would wait longer. i mean, if the guy is worth it, he'll stick around no matter what. i woudl wait atleast a year, but thats just me. jsut to make sure that you guys know each other well enough. like, i believe that you have to go through good times and bad times just to make sure to see who are the ones who care. and if in a year or so you guys are still going strong, then i'd say you guys are ready.
hope this helped, good luck with your man,
peace and love [ frenchy's advice column | Ask frenchy A Question ]
itsallabOutkimbO answered Monday November 21 2005, 3:18 pm: well, personally i think you should wait a little longer. me and my ex boyfriend who went out for 2 1/2 years waited about 11 months to do it. we were both virgins. i think maybe it depends on if you both are virgins or not. but personally, i think you should wait a little longer than a month. goodluck<3 [ itsallabOutkimbO's advice column | Ask itsallabOutkimbO A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday November 20 2005, 5:04 pm: There isn't a amount of months when you can have sex. If you are 100% ready then go for it. Make sure this is what you want to do and that you will not have any regrets!! Also, make sure you have safe sex. ;) [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
craazylau answered Sunday November 20 2005, 4:57 pm: It's not about how many months you "should" wait or even what anyone else thinks. It's between you two and only you two, therefore it's up to you. However, if you're thinking that you're not sure when you should have it it probably means you're not ready yet. It's the old story- if you have ANY doubts you're not ready. You'll know you're ready when you have no doubts and you can see the relationship that you're in lasting. And please make sure you're aware of the consequences! Good luck [ craazylau's advice column | Ask craazylau A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Sunday November 20 2005, 4:52 pm: I think that having sex is something that you should do when you feel that you are ready for any possibility. You should do it if your ready for a kid or something like that. I think that you should wait til you married but if you are completely ready then you should do it whenever you are sure there is no exact time when you should do it. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
helpachick answered Sunday November 20 2005, 3:48 pm: hey...well you never know when things might change. wait until youve been together like id say probably 8 months...i know its seems like a long time but if you really love eachother you can wait!!!<3 oh yeah and i dont wanna sound like your mom but think of the consequences that could occur...
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