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-first times-


Question Posted Tuesday February 15 2005, 6:11 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused..

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xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 11:35 am:
make 0ut with him..and while y0ure d0ing that start t0 rub y0ur hand 0n his leg.. he'll kn0w..then as y0ure rubbing, g0 int0 his pants and start t0 rub m0re.. he'll like it...all guys d0.. then he'll pr0bably whip it 0ut and want y0u t0 give him 0ral.. just be ready.. its n0t that bad..
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Kels answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:04 am:
you dont have to do anything togehter, your relationship will go great for a little, then it will depend on doing stuff. you've already been togehter for 1year and 4 months, dont ruin that, you dont have to do anything to stay togehter! belive me.

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itsallabOutkimbO answered Sunday February 20 2005, 1:17 pm:
ok well, i made up this game called the handcuff game. get a pair of handcuffs or just pretend the other person is handcuffed. The point of the game is to tease the other person and they can't kiss you or touch you til they give in. once they give in, they lose the game. when me and my boyfriend played this, it was all fun and games until i gave him oral. this game is a good game if you want to go far and kinda sneak it in. make sure you are ready for oral, or whatever kind of sexual stuff you may want. <3

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lxstonecoldmysteryxl answered Saturday February 19 2005, 1:36 pm:
I dont know how old you are, but if you are talking about sex i would recommend not unless you are truly in love with this guy. I know i sound like a mother but seriously if you give yourself up to him and it doesnt work out .. hell your screwed.. other stuff like oral.. go for it as long as you are comfortable with the fact he could have been with other girls. yeah normally guys like it when girls start things so just start kissing him and move in for the kill.. hell love it no worries man
lovemucho--goodluck

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x_sweet answered Friday February 18 2005, 9:48 pm:
ok well I'm guessing you don't mean actual like sex. okay, well when youre just like sitting there hold his hand but keep it by his leg and start to rub your finger up and down his leg very softl at first and then like get a little rougher. Each time you do it, go a little farther up each time. If he gets the point, he'll start to do the same thing to you. Try a little bit more each time its your turn and go as far as you want. If that doesn't really help leave me a message in my inbox. Good luck and have fun!

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Rocker`Chick answered Friday February 18 2005, 1:43 pm:
Ask him to come over when noone`s home and when he gets there tell him I`m ready and if he says ready for what? say come here and you guys go into your room on your bed or a the biggest bed you have in your house push him on it get on top of him and start making out like crazy then take off his shirt let him take off yours and then the pants and well you get the idea..Hope I Helped and..good luck

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tara_rose101 answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:04 am:
Okay, what you do is just start hugging him and good hugs not sissy ones, then you say how hot he is and how much you like him and if he doesn't start kissing you kiss him on the cheek and see his reaction. If he looks happy or looks like he wants to kiss you go for it and start making out with him then if you want, let one thing lead to another if ya know what i mean.

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erica013 answered Thursday February 17 2005, 1:57 pm:
well your in a big predicament at this stage in time. i would say that you should tell your *lover* that you want to move foward in your relationship and experince other things lik in you sexual nature. if you want to start it off start it off with a kiss on the lips and then confront him about your problem! good luck

erica

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Melaur1001 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 7:08 pm:
Start by JUST kissing him. Then makeout. The next part depends on where you guys are located. If your alone the I'd push him down and get on top of him and make out. Things go from one thing to another and he'll probably get the hint that you want to do something sexual. If ya'll are in a public place, or movies or something. Sit where nobody else is and just reach your hand down his pants. TRUST ME guys NEVER mind you doing that. He'll get the point. goooood luuuuck!

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vchicka15 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 4:55 pm:
start making out.. then touch him all over his body.. start going down his pants.. if he stops you he isnt ready..if he doesnt.. well keep going :-P haha hope it helps

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CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 2:05 pm:
Well...I dont have a first time to tell you about (sorry). I think you should ask him if he is ready, because if he's not ready, you would be wasting your time worrying about how to lead him on. Just give him little hints...

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chaos answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 9:49 am:
There is nothing wrong with not doing anything sexual for a year, a month, an eternity. You two need to talk about sex: contraceptive, what are you going to do if you get pregnant, and would you even want to go there.
If you aren't adult enough to talk about these things together, then you aren't ready to have sex. And remember to tell him what feels good if you do decide to.

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Advice-Babe answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 3:13 am:
Men like it when you are llike a wild beast attacking them and acting wild like you just had 100 cups of coffee and good lluck by the way tell me if i helped by rating my answer okay thanks!!!

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snowwalker69 answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:32 pm:
um, we started making out, like most couple. And we talked about sex a lot beforehand. We got comfortable with the subject, then we started touching each other in places, and then one day we were both really horney, and were making out, and we did it. lol.

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Untouchable answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:01 pm:
Never did anything too sexual..

But you shoud invite him over when no ones home, and just hang out for a while and then tell him your gonna go lay down and for him to come and when when you lay down he should too.. and well .. just go from there.. that OR talk to him.. tell him you want to go further... Maybe he would know how to lead it on.

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Magic answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 8:00 pm:
ok i wont describe but i can tell ya how to lead on im a guy and usally me and my girfriend go in to a make out session and i kiss her neck and shes kisses mine and on each others ears ok get the point then you can revmove each others clothing or begin to kiss furter down until you reach his pants and then you can undo them and you can rub his penis and he can rub you in places its really not that hard just gotta get in the mood and everything leads from there just remember to be protected if u have sex hope i helped sorry for details rate me

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