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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused

ohhmygod your just like lol.. im 16 and im a virgin i decided that little kids are going to start realizing that they cant get pregnant til they start there period so theyre gonna start having sex like before the age of 13 which is sooo fucked up.. im a viring and im sooo proud of that and yeah exactly i get soo much respect and i love it.. you rock stay a virgin b cuz thats how it was sposed to be
sorry that kids are so naive now lol
goodluck--lovemucho

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ok well i love sports,iv played sports for 7 years but anyways ever since about 2 months ago i have been gettin these really painful pains in my knees & achillies tendons(they hurt very bad) after i finish a sporting event(football game,track practice, e.t.c. I told my parents about it but they just said it will go away soon but it hasnt! my science teacher said they wher growing pains but i dont belive her.CAN ANY1 HELP ME! i'll rate 5

13/male

go to the doctor.. you might have fluids in your knees or maybe some kinda weird charlie horse / shin splints or something.. you could have multiple muscle strains which would require muscle relaxers like perscription celebrex.. but it got taken off the market so not that.. i would take a hot bath ice them heat them and icy hot that shit try to stay off it for a bit and your science teacher is a dumb bitch .. growing pains arent real.. flip her off haha jk.. but yeah hope i helped
lovemucho

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all the boys at my school(but one)are cute in there own way and my mom say they really like me i flirted with some they flirted back but i never became closer to any of them but friends and enemys i don't know whats wrong im surronded by flirting hottys and i never get closer i feel invisable but i don't like it every one had a bf(or gf)'cept me i don't know what to do keep trying or just give up some one please help me ! ! !


~confused and lonley

stop worrying about guys if someone is worth your time theyll come to you..


thats the mistake that all girls make
goodluck--lovemucho

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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental?

okay you cant have an opinion about anything if you cant even spell judgemental right. it does prove that your thinking about his looks more than him.. if hes still nice id give him a shot.. hair will always grow out ya know... i wouldnt consider it judgemental after all.. beauty catches the eye personality catches the heart

meaning your drawn to looks but your won over by personality.. just give it a go

goodluck--lovemucho

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hey Im 13/f and im in the 8th grade lately I have been thinking about college and I plan to go. I just dont know whats the best college to apply to in or around NY or not to far away I need to know things about it and like top 10 best thnx

www.collegeboard.com tells you everything you need to know about every college out there :o)

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hey im 13 and i live in pennsylvania around pittsburgh... i want to start thinking about what college i want to go to.. i want to become a psychologist or a lawyer... what are some good colleges to look into?

go to www.collegeboard.com its your best bet to learn about every college there is and about everything you need to get in and stuff.. it tells you requirements and CAN give you tests if you want them.. i think somewhere on there .. theres an aptitude test that will tell you what they think you would be good at. give that a try
goodluck--lovemucho

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I have a 36 year old son who is married with one child. For about a year he has slowly sunk into the depths. His wife has kicked him out of the house. He now lives in his truck. She tells me he is drinking heavily and smoking crack/crank. He refuses to get help. My question is: Do you think I should report him to the police before he harms himself or an innocent person driving around like this. Thanks, Christy

Wow that is a very hard thing to deal with. If you have any way of contacting him i would warn him of your thoughts. tell him if he doesnt start fixing his life that you will have to resort to turning him in for his own good. he wont understand it now and he may not understand it for a long long time but if you do turn him in he WILL get better because he will be forced to. i understand that its a hard decision but you would be making the right choice b cuz you will save your son.
good luck -- love mucho

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How do you avoid a person that likes you but you dont like them back, not even as a friend. But it feels awkward to be around this person! And he just keeps followin you around and asks you if you like him or not and when i say NO then he asks me again and again and he wont stop until he heres the answar he wants but i wont give it to him! NEED ADVICE!!!

tell him hes ugly you hate him and he has a small dick and that if he doesnt stop following you around like a scary mutherfucking stalker that you will tell all of his friends that he only has one nut and his dick is tiny and he hasnt been circumsized and that he prematures a lot.. so if he doesnt leave you alone then .. assume its all true and just laugh it off and walk away.
goodluck--lovemucho

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There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.

She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.

What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore.

i dont know what your question is.. but just dont talk to her.. that or egg her house.. haha jk dont do that lol
goodluck--lovemucho

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Hey. I've been having trouble by getting a picture on to my advicenator homepage. I would be glad if anyone could list me the steps in order of how to do it. Thanks a bunch!

asve your pic as a jpeg.. you can do that by going to paint and hitting save as and changing it to a jpeg format instead of a gif or bitmap file then try to upload it again on advicenator and it should work .. unless its too big.. then that sucks you have to resize it in another program.. most likely.. photoshop if you have it cool have fun man
goodluck--lovemucho

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ok, i have this friend and i really am good friends with her..and then theres a guy i like and i finally got his sn and then she asked for it. i know this sounds really stupid. but i just dont want to give it to her.. i know that she doesnt like him but something is telling me not to..should i? *

dont do it.. im serious.. they may not be interested.. but that doesnt meant that she wont be after talking to him.. i hate giving ppl sns its annoying if they want it then they should get it themselves.. cuz most likely if they ahve to go thru you they dont kno the person well enuff to be talking to them online and nothing good can come of it .. so just odnt
goodluck--lovemucho

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(14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?

if you really do have them bring them around.. i mean i know you shouldnt have to prove anything to them just get real pissed.. bring him around.. and then rub him in their faces.. and say fuck you real loud and put your middle finger up and walk away haha
goodluck--lovemucho

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

aww i think thats cute

you should also like put it to a song that reminds you of him.. cuz then when he hears it he'll think of you.. thats so cute
goodluck--lovemucho

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is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?

with raging hormones im sure thats not that bad to get one while making out if your like on top of each other.. now flirting thats a little weird.. but 13 year olds are getting pretty naughty so chicks might not freak out but when i was 13 i would have.. lol but im guessing your a freshman.. maybe 8th grade.. i duno i woulda flipped.. but 13 yr olds are getting hoe-ish so they probly wouldnt mind lol
goodluck--lovemucho

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i was just wondering about this with some friends the otherday:
-If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
--and
-If you ask someone if they're a compulsive liar and they answer yes, should you believe them?
--ohh also
-If a person with multiple personalities threatens suicide, is that a hostage situation?

thx and plz answer asap :)

1 we wouldnt know.. in fact we dont even know if those words are even real.. but they are not misspelled b cuz that was how they were invented
2 never believe a liar
3 its not a hostage situation b cuz they arent different ppl.. and its physically impossible to hold youself hostage.. yeah
goodluck--lovemucho

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Is there any way you can record youself on the computer? Cause I sing, and so I can show it to people to see if It's any good. Does anyone know how??

buy a microphone and then go to start,programs, accessories, entertainment, and then sound recorder. you can record on that and then play it back to yourself and you can save it to your hard drive and send it over direct connections on AIM or you can e mail it or put it on websites..
goodluck--lovemucho

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Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

okay if you dont want panty lines.. wear a thong just be careful.. if you wear granny panties.. theres nothing wrong with that.. just wear those but do know that if someone sees them.. you probly wont live that down for a while.. i would most likely recommend boyshorts if you dont wanna wear a thong b cuz i have never had a panty line problem with boyshorts and also.. its covering and theyre still sexy.. guys love them so if for some reason someone sees them.. its not embarrassing its just cute and fun ! lol
goodluck--lovemucho

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Hey, I just got that Finishing touch hair removal thing. The reason I got it is because I'm deathly afraid of razors lol. Anyway, I wanted to know, if you have one, can you move it up and down on your finger while it's on OR off and it won't hurt and nick you? I know I shouldn't be afraid, because I know it's supposed to be painless and they even did that on TV, but I'm just so afraid of getting cut and everything. I just need to know for sure. Also, how good does it work and everything? Thanks!

okay i also have one of those.. but only for my eyebrows lol.. anyway.. they dont get a very close shave.. there is no way that thing can hurt you.. i mean you can pretend like your leg is a steak and like saw on it with it on or off and it wont do anything lol.. but yeah the hair is still kinda stubbly after using it so that kind of sucks.. but theres nothing scary about a razor.. just one swift motion.. dont move it any other way but fomr the bottom of your leg to the top of your leg against the grain of your hair. dont push down hard just very gently run it up.. its painless and it doesnt cut you unless you do it wrong or too fast.. im not saying do it real slow .. just dont like swipe it up like its nothing.. i hope i helped
goodluck--lovemucho

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My best friend and I got into a fight because she lied to me about why my boyfriend broke up with me. She actually told him she was in love with him and stuff like that.. since she KNEW he also liked her. And the reason she did that was to get him to break up with me.. all because of jealousy! Well.. she finally told me the truth.. AFTER she knew 2 other people told me. She thinks im mad at her for causing him to break up with me.. but im mad because she lied.. I tried to tell her that.. and she got really defensive and blocked me. Everytime i try to talk to her at school, she walks away from me.

She and I have been friends for a few years now. I hate for our friendship to end like hers and her other best friend's did. How can I talk to her? I tried appologizing and all she said was .. "Mhm Im sure you are". How can I make her realize we are both better off with each other?

wow i would so not apologize to her.. shes retarded for doing that to you and all shes trying to do is turn it around and make it look like you did something wrong when you didnt. shes feeling guilty for what she did so shes making you feel like shit for it. i say that if she is going to do that kinda crap to you and then try to make YOU feel bad for it.. then she shouldnt be your friend in the first place.. i kno that sounds harsh and you dont want the friendship to end but if shes lost a friend this way before than she just sucks at holding onto ppl.. she needs to realize that she can take the blame for SOMETHING and if she cant see that, then dont bother talking to her and do NOT apologize, you shouldnt have to.. stand up to her .. and if she tries to talk to you and step on you and make you feel bad for being mad at her.. tell her to fuck off cuz she has NO RIGHT to be mad at you cuz you did absolutely nothing but get upset over something she did that was stupid
goodluck--lovemucho

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Im about to go on a school nature trip in New hampshire in 2 days! Were going to be there for 5 DAYS and i just got sick last night ..my throat feels SO scratchy and im just weak all over. MY head hurts and i feel nauseous but i really wanna go on the trip on Monday because it cost like 200$ and my friends really want me to go. !! I need help how do i get better fast?? Im going to be outdoors all the time even to sleep so i gotta get better!

best would be dayquil and nyquil or if you also have body aches i would do a flu med cuz you have all the symptoms of it or if its more throat.. chloraseptic.. or if you wanna sleep better benadryl.. do NOT take any of these together
goodluck--lovemucho

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