Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice

Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics


Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)


Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Contact Us


Question Posted Saturday March 12 2005, 1:10 pm

is it normal 2 get a boner when your making out with a girl or flirting with one,& if they could tell that you had a boner would they get freaked out & think im wired or anything!?

[ Answer this question ]

Additional info, added Saturday March 12 2005, 1:10 pm:
by the way im 13/male.

Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?

xxsorandomxx answered Sunday March 1 2009, 9:11 pm:
yes it is it happends to me all the time

[ xxsorandomxx's advice column | Ask xxsorandomxx A Question

marine6669 answered Sunday June 22 2008, 1:49 am:
when i was 14, now 16
i got my first well
when kissing kelli,
damn she was fine...
she noticed it before me.........

got old yeller, covered it up,
and ran

but thats just me,

or you can take the bubble boy approach
baseball bat anyone?

but, ya
its normal,
happens more than you think

[ marine6669's advice column | Ask marine6669 A Question

Kels answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:13 am:
Nope! I wouldn't.
Its normal, and a part of life!


Hope I Helped!
Always There-
If You Ever Need Anything Leave One In My Inbox!

[ Kels's advice column | Ask Kels A Question

irish_mobsta91 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:07 am:
this is normal at our age, but as we will get older and get used to flirting ect, you wont get one. i used to whenever i layed down with my girlfriend--no fooling around-- but now, i just got used to it

[ irish_mobsta91's advice column | Ask irish_mobsta91 A Question

lxstonecoldmysteryxl answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:36 am:
with raging hormones im sure thats not that bad to get one while making out if your like on top of each other.. now flirting thats a little weird.. but 13 year olds are getting pretty naughty so chicks might not freak out but when i was 13 i would have.. lol but im guessing your a freshman.. maybe 8th grade.. i duno i woulda flipped.. but 13 yr olds are getting hoe-ish so they probly wouldnt mind lol

[ lxstonecoldmysteryxl's advice column | Ask lxstonecoldmysteryxl A Question

AquamarineRose answered Saturday March 12 2005, 9:10 pm:
Hahaha.Ah this question brings up so many memories. But without mentioning names, yes, it is normal. I guess it's all in a matter of opinion if girls find it weird. Personally,as a girl, I don't. I'll admit, the first time it happened, I was caught a little off guard and wasn't expecting it, but I never found it to be weird. And we don't get freaked out. Although this one time in my friend's gym class this guy got a boner while doing pull ups. It took him a while to live that down. So in all honesty I think it is all in a matter of timing and how mature the girl is.

[ AquamarineRose's advice column | Ask AquamarineRose A Question

S_C answered Saturday March 12 2005, 4:42 pm:
It's normal, and most girls would either be complemented, or think it's funny. Not many girls I know would be freaked out, unless seeing that you're 13, they didn't know what it was.

[ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question

Magic answered Saturday March 12 2005, 3:37 pm:

some might get freakedo ut some might not

[ Magic's advice column | Ask Magic A Question

mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:14 pm:
No its normal for a guy to have feelings and have an erection, I think some girls will see it as a complement some wont

luv roxie

[ mrs_radcliffe's advice column | Ask mrs_radcliffe A Question

ThugGirl041790 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:12 pm:
yea its normal.. your 13 and boys have that happen at times.. she probably will freak out if shes your age and might think your weird but when it happens jus walk away or something.. or figure out a way to hide it.. dont worry about it hun..much luv dez x0x0

[ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question

Teza answered Saturday March 12 2005, 2:06 pm:
well some girls may think that is disgusting ! but its perfectly normal and stuff because like all boys do and its so freakin normal maybe girls freak out because they never had a guy get a boner over them! just tell them that y are you going to get grossed out bye it when all boys have them!

[ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question

bucsbaby6969 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:50 pm:
yeah you can get a boner when ur flirtin or kissin a girl...and ya we can usually tell. we don't think its weird we usually think its kinda funny but some girls freak but they dont usually hold it against you

[ bucsbaby6969's advice column | Ask bucsbaby6969 A Question

xluvinux answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:50 pm:
Yes, it's normal. If the girl is polite and understanding, she won't care you got a boner. The girl might freak out though. If she does, stop flirting or making out. If she's worth it she won't leave you or tell other people. All guys get boners so there's nothing to be ashamed about at all. If she has a problem with it, then well that's her problem. =)

♥ lAuRa

[ xluvinux's advice column | Ask xluvinux A Question

FlaWlessMonoLith answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:46 pm:
yes it is normal and it depends on the girl its not really your fault you got a boner

[ FlaWlessMonoLith's advice column | Ask FlaWlessMonoLith A Question

mgh12 answered Saturday March 12 2005, 1:36 pm:
I don't think they would?

[ mgh12's advice column | Ask mgh12 A Question

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: PAIN!
Next Question >>> ?

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

We were on matrimonail site made me see the 7th heaven than ignored without
How to get a tattoo where a parent wont see it?
he confuses me on what to do?
Can this workout?
Don't know how to feel
No friends, social anxiety.
I'm going to be alone forever
Are they my issues or their issues?
how do i tell my friend i like her?(were both girls)
When 2 people have the same dreams
I've had a crush on him since high school.
I'd like to buy some toys for my two little kids
Waiting for my boyfriend who is going to prison part 2
I've had a crush on him since high school.
I have this friend...
he read my messaage but isn't replying, is he interested?
Hmmmm..what to Do what to do
my best friend beat up my little brother
What to do I do of my step dad is a douche?
Pesuading my parents to let me get my ears pierced

All content on this page posted by members of is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker