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I wanna talk to him about us
16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
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Don't be afraid to sound forward. Be asertive, get what you want. I'd start by bringing up the time that you kissed.
You: "I know we haven't talked about it much, but do you remember the time you kissed me?" (or 'I kissed you' or however it would be most accurate to word it)
Him (sheepishly and a little embarassed): "yeah...."
You: "Well, I just wanted to say thank you - I really liked it. I was wondering if maybe we could do that again sometime."
You think that sounds cheesy, but I gaurentee that if you can pull it off and sound serious (no cracking up or blushing) he will be yours within the week... probably within a few moments.
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Hey well...all i can really say to do it to be forward and tell him how you feel and what you think about him...tell him that you like him and let him tell you how he feels about you...your friendship will workout at the end yall just have to make sure of that before you start going out...i hope i helped...--BabyGurl--
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I can totally relate because I've been in this similar situation many times. Since you guys are close, ask him casually "do you think there would ever been an 'us'"? This will sort of give him a hint but also let him know that you are thinking more towards the long run then really soon. It will probobly make him start thinking about you as more than a friend if he hasn't already. This is the first step and it will work extremely well especially since you already have a feeling that he might have feelings for you. This is also really good since it exercises your communication skills with him and it will help the two of you grow closer if you find the ability to talk to him about things like this, even if it feels kind of weird at first. Good luck and if you ever need any other advice, feel free to ask me, because iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENING ♥
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Hey, Karen. So, you like a guy and you THINK he likes you back but you're not sure? O.K. You WON'T sound forward if you bring it up. Give him like... a not or something. If you are shy, that is. First of all, how many people really tell you that he likes you. Some people at my high school (way back then- I'm 37) told me that a really cute boy liked me when he really didn't. They did it as a joke, though. Don't worry. If these people are your friends, trust them. But for now, trust me. I know. Tell him you want to talk to him. Then say, "So-and-so, I really like you." then, wait for a response. He'll most likely say, "I really like you too." Then, you say, "Some friends of mine told me that you wanted to go steady with me. Is this true." If there is an awkward silence after this santence, don't be alarmed. It's hard for guys too. He'll most likely say, "Yes, Karen. This is true." and that is how I married my husband! :) See? Beautiful relationship! Trust me, girl. He likes you but he's scared just like you. He's probably on this site saying, "I wanna talk to her about us" LOL I let you know when I answer his question. LOL Anyway, you'll do perfectly and PLEASE don't be mad at me if it doesn't work out, O.K? I can't predict the future but I CAN tell what the right thing to do would be. Luv ya lotz! XoXoXOXOOxOXOxOXOxXOXOOXOX
~~~Kayla~~~
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You could tell one of your friends or one of his friends that you like him and ask if he likes you. They'll probably end up telling him so either way he'll know and you'll find out if he likes you back =c). If you want to tell him face to face just casually ask who he likes and he'll probably ask who you like and you can say something like "Honestly?" "You." Hope I helped! =cD
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well how about just you two go out to a movie and when you look into eachothers eyes you will be able to tell if hes willing to move in and if he does then just kiss him and then later you can talk about it and what it meant to you. cuz then its not like your being too forward if you just ask him to teh movies as "just friends" and if he does like you then he would say yes to the movie then you would have some alone time to talk and you knoe maybe a lil more .... WINK WINK! lol
but yea good luck
lyl
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