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ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!!
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Well first i think that you should tell her that she was really your first dont keep things from her.and if you really love her i dont think that you should have had sex with her and then the next day go make out with a girl that had to really hurt her.and for her to forgive you had to take alot of her heart.she may have cheated on you but hers wasnt has bad because the one she got fingered by wasnt one of your friends.yeah the girl may have said she wasnt her friend but she also could have lied.DONT think about your friends there not the ones in the realtionship! so what if your a punk your happy right.to me it sounds like she really does love and care about you if she forgave you about what you did i just think its fair that you forgive her. You two should get back together and see how things go. i really do hope i helped.
i was only on her side cause i know it took alot of heart and i do hope you two get back together just write back and tell me if you do. i hope i helped you out.
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well if ur both cheating on eachother you dont love her u are emotionally attached to her because she was your first. You feel like you have to make it work but u dont see it workin out in the back of your mind...Just see where she stands she says she loves you but in a week will she be with another guy...? let me know
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You should really tell her that shes your first love. And she her reaction. Then talk to her about it and if she can trust you then you should trust her. Maybe its not working out becuz you two need to be together and talk about it and when you get everything out you can start over again and maybe it will work. I hope I helped..Sara
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well it sounds like u both have cheated on the other one at sum point in ur realtionship. so if u both really love eachother, then i guess u could agree to just start over and forget all about ur past together. but if you dont think you could forgive her then i guess i would try and get over her.
~hope i helped
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alright well if you love her then you should be with her. and you shouldnt care what anyone else thinks as long as you two are happy with eachother. you should talk to her more about it otherwise you'll just keep breaking up and neither of you will be happy. communication is the key thing. so just sit her down and talk to her and tell her you love her but if she wants it to work then she cant ignore you and that you guys have to talk. otherwise it wont work out. and i think you should tell her that she was just kinda your first. its only fair that she knows right? i mean, you wouldnt want her to keep anything like that from you, would you? she might not like it but if you truly loves you then she'll still be with you. its not like you have feelings for those other girls still or anything. hope i helped.
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Alrite hun.. first off forget what your buddies will think. Ughh.. she doesnt sound that faithful and niether do you! Your just as bad as her if you had sex with someone while you were going out. But it does sound like you really like her.. so you should give it one more shot... you guys need to make a serious promise to eachother. Tell her you'll go out with her if she PROMISES not to hurt you while your going out and that she has to stay true to you. Then you need to be ABSOLUTELY faithful to her otherwise you'll screw things up, even if she DOESNT find out. So go ahead, try it again. But please dont cheat on her... and hope if she makes a promise she'll keep one.
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blu eyed chica
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I think that you just go n tell her what she means to you and ask her to 4get wotever happened in the past cuz like whatevers gone is gone and theres no point thinkin buot the past.And dont give her a chance to think that ur cheating on her,u kno like just simply love her(and let her know that ur lovin her).Hope I helped...
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I think that it's not working out because you guys need to spend more time together..like instead of u guys goin and messing around and cheating on each other you should go and spend time with her..also if you love her you should tell her that you love her and tell her that she was your first also..
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