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i was staying after school waiting to be picked up and the 1 guy that ive liked ALOT with me. (he kinda had feelings for me but he is so hooked on his gf) well my dad called my cell and said my Aunt DIED, and he'd pick me up in an hour. so i started crying histerically, and Tom just came over and comforted me and i layed there in his ARMS crying. he literally wiped my tears and layed with me the whole time. Once i stopped crying he leaned over and kissed me. and then... we started making out for minutes straight, it was the most amazing/beautiful thing EVER. eventually i had to leave, & later Tom called & said how perfect that was & never had anything special like that. well he asked me what to do about his gf cause theyve been together for a year & he doesnt know if he should TELL her or NOT. hes really confused. so what should he do about his gf do you think he should tell? i dont want her to be mad at me and have all her friends threaten me and stuff. please help i dont know what to do about the whole situation, this is too much... (DONT TELL ME ITS WRONG WHAT WE DID CAUSE no shit I KNOW THAT ALREADY!!!)
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it wasn't wrong... you two are friends who have feelings for eachother and you were vulnerable. He needs to be honest with his girlfriend but he can't say it was you... the best thing for him is to break up with his girlfriend, probably because if he doesn't it could ruin your friendship and get a lot people hating both of you.
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it's kind of his decision. but... if he really likes you, more than his gf, it's worth a shot i suppose. ask him not to give names, or something.
i'm really sorry about your aunt by the way, best of luck chickadee
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Well if he does decide to break up with his GF then he shouldnt say why or if he did it should not have your name involved because if he doesnt say your name then everything will be okey dokey.
Hope I helped
~Brina~
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Babe, i don't think that's wrong. It sounds like something out of a dream, and even though im really sorry about your Aunt, you are really lucky to experience that. You were just caught up in the moment. ok, so probably his girlfriend is gunna find out eventually if you or the guy doesnt tell her, but i think that he needs to choose between his girlfriend and you and go from there. Don't let him go out with you unless he really likes you and doesn't just feel bad for you or something, cuz then he'll just eventually hurt you without meaning to. If Tom is a good guy, then if his g/f were to threaten you he'd totally stand up for you. It's completely up to Tom to decide if he wants to break up with his girlfriend for you. Good luck hun!! and i'm sorry about your aunt!but that's soo sweet! like something out of a fairy tale!
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If u ask me, HE made the move. U were just upset and needed comfort. And he should just tell his gf that he found sumone else, it'll hurt but it's the truth and that's all he can give. I dont think u did anything. Ur just really lucky to have a guy like that! Hope i helped!
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ok he kissed you..and he wants YOu te tell him what to o??
The question is..is he going to break up wiht his g/f?? For if not you dump him.
And yes he should tell his g/f. To me..if a guy kisses another girl..that relationship wiht his old g/f is almost over..or something is wrong.
you can give comfort without kissing...
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Okay he needs 2 brake up with her. maybe not tell her but atleast brake up with her... he shud prolly tell her tho. idk he really likes u (obviously) and he cant go on dating this girl. idk sorry i cant help u 2 much but i think u shud just tell him 2 break up with her and thats all... sorry idk wut ur gunna do about that girl hating u 4 it, cuz she prolly will... anyways good luck!!!!
*nicole*
Hoped i helped a bit.
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well i think he should break up with her because for him to do something like that shows that he likes you...i mean what other guy would do that ya know..so yeah i think he should talk to her about it and tell her cause its only the right thing to do..and yall should really just get together!.i hope i helped.<3 BabyGurl.
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He needs to tell her what happened and let her make the decision whether to stay with him or not. If they break up, you two can end up together. However, know that she'll probably be mad at both of you. If she knows you liked him, she may forgive you, but I doubt she'd forgive him so easily. You know it was wrong, but did you think that maybe the situation was just kind of out of your control? I mean, your aunt died! You were upset, he was comforting you - it just got out of hand. That's all he needs to tell her. She can make the decision herself. Talk to her, if you want, and tell her you're sorry - but only if you are. Are you? Judging by the fact that you said you liked him a lot, I wouldn't think you would be sorry that it happened. I honestly think that someone who cheats is like an accident waiting to happen. Their relationship might have been going downhill for awhile, or maybe just on his end. Or maybe it's just time for him to move on. If so, I suggest you two wait awhile...just to be nice to his ex.
Anyway, he needs to tell her what happened, and explain to her that the situation just got out of hand. Just relax and let him talk to her. He needs to decide who to be with - his girlfriend, or you - and he has to decide on his own.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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