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dealing with breaking up
welll how do i start....well i start from the very start....i went out with this guy because i knew him from high school..we went out before...now were grow into mature people, and was attracted to each other....every thing was goin great for 6 months...but within the last month he started treating me differently, like he didnt appreciate me...one day he called it off, he said he can see that were not right for each other...i begged and cried and cried...i was so shocked we just spent the weekend together and it seemed great but he said he doesnt love me anymore..i begged him twice and i stopped after that....he tells me im doin great getting over him..so i snapped and yelled at him and said he was unfair and told him that relationships are about communication and honesty...he said loving me and missing me will just go away which mean he would consider going back out with me, i gave up but told him for the last time what i loved about him...then he kissed me and cried....so yup he decided to go out with me again...but left the decision for the weekend..i had to wait 3 days....
yup so we went out...the first three days seemed great..well he was good at making me believe it was great....and i think he was deliberately driving me away and finally broke it off and said he hasnt loved me for the past month although im a beatiful person...we lost the chemistry....i didnt cry this time....but he seem angry at me...i said you lied and he said i should be thankful he didnt lead me on for long...he also said he doesnt care about my feelings about this...and he only went out with me because he didnt wanna deal with breaking up....
now although im badly hurt im realizing he wasnt treating me the right way...everything was based around his feelings, his thoughts, and his doubts. What kind of guy is he? he doesnt know what he wants...
How long am i going to keep feeling lonely and sad about this...
i know hes not worth it but a part of me wants him or maybe just the companionship..
is worth it?? is he gonna comeback?? if he did should i take him back??
im dealing with this better than the first time we broke up but i still get moments where i cry too much, and i cant sleep or eat.
he only cared about his band and friends, i wasnt even special..he said i was, but i could feel i wasnt...
it seemed really good at one stage and he just stopped loving me as he said...
i see him everyday and it seems like hes dealing with it fine...but i dunno how he truly feels behind closed doors...
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alright i like this kind of question long and alot to answer lol .
well anyways he obviously doesnt know what he wants and doesnt know how to treat a girl right from what im hearing since he cared about friends and his stupid band
and yeah it is worth it and yeah he will probably come back and yah you should take him back this last time but tell him if he screws up again your done and if he breaks it off again and comes back dont taking him back
and ..dont worry .. you'll get over it soon i mean im going through the same thing right now and pathetically i cry every single day cause of it and he likes to play the little mind games with my head just like this guysdoing to you ..
and the fact the guy told you he loved you .. that is leading you on weather he wants to admitt it or not he doesnt understand that saying those words to a girl actually gets them hooked and makes a girl love them back ..
and since you see him everyday and he seems like he is all happy about it take him to a place where its quiet and only you and him and be like you claimed you loved me but your fine with seeing me now. not having a problem we broke up . and tell him how you feel .. tell him what is on your mind about him ..and it'll be alright to cry.. but you'll be relived that you went and told him off like you've wanted to for a while and just let everything out that is on your mind so you dont have to think about it cause he will be the one thinking about it more than you will since he'll know exactly how you feel and he'll feel like the biggest dickhead in the world for doing that shit to you ..
sorry so long hun x3
tell me how it goes :)
brookex3
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sorry to hear about this. you really need to get over him. even if he does decide to go back out with you, how do you know he's not going to break up with you again? would you really wanna marry someone like this? he seems confused and doesn't really know what he's doing. you deserve better than he's been treating you, and there's a lot of guys out there that will treat you right. i know it might seem difficult getting over him, but you have to. he obviously messed up twice, and doesn't know what he wants. don't waste your time with him. you need to move on and find someone that loves you for you. someone that won't hurt you, that loves you, and that will treat you right. let him keep making mistakes and find girls that are wrong for him. they're his decisions. stay strong.
good luck!
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This guy absolutely doesn't deserve you. He even admitted that he lied and lead you on!!! What kind of guy is that?!?! He doesn't deserve you if he can't love you and be honest with you. It takes a while to get over things like this, but it's different for everybody. If he comes back though, think of how he treated you before and if it's worth all the suffering AGAIN. He might say that he's changed but you'll truly know when you see him if he's lying or not. You should get to know some nicer guys who you KNOW are going to be honest with you and can love you for who you are. Forget about this other guy because he never even treated you decently. Just start new and you can't go wrong. Hope i helped!!!
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