I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!
VainTaraLynn answered Monday August 15 2005, 2:34 am: Sweetie, you cant make anyone fall in love with you. It has to be their decision. Dont go out of your way and act like someone your not just to get her to fall for you. take it slow and let love happen, and if its meant to happen it will.. if not then its just not right. hope things go well though hun =( [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
Nevaeh314 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 8:36 pm: I know exactly where you're coming from. Truly. If you feel that you guys are supposed to be together, you have to tell her in person. Tell her how you feel about her and what makes you feel that way...the things that she does that you like, and why /you/ feel those things. Maybe don't use the word 'love' right away when talking to her, you don't want to freak her out by being too intense right away, but talk to her more and get to know her passions, her fears, her everyday life. You can't necessarily make her love you, but you can try to show her why 'she's the one.' Trust me, as much as this might seem scary, you don't want to miss your chance. If you need anymore advice drop one in my inbox or email me at Nevaeh314@gmail.com. Hope this helps, and good luck!
Love,
Nevaeh [ Nevaeh314's advice column | Ask Nevaeh314 A Question ]
stephii_x3z_yooh answered Sunday August 14 2005, 3:56 pm: if u feel she's "the one" then she must feel the same way. flirt a little, and just hang out and be herself. that way she can become more comfortable around you, and maybe she'll start to like you. if she has had a boyfriend that she really liked, then (i no this sounds really bad, but i don't mean it like that) try to be his friend, and maybe she'll get to see a new side to you, and like you!
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:56 pm: well you can't make her love you but you can get her to like you and then move on to loving you i mean hang out with her .. flirt a little tell her how you feel .. tell her i know you think of me as just a friend but i really think we could be more.. i mean we would be good together .
and like.. when you two hang out listen to her when she talks help her with her problems she is going threw hold her hand .. be like her bestfriend and her boyfriend ..cause girls want to have that kind of relationship ya know?
RicanSpice14 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:44 pm: hey have you tried telling her in person?I think you should get her somthing nice like a ring then you hand her that ring and tell her how you feel from the heart and if she turns you down she isnt worthit!So if she turns you down you can always go out with me.my screen name is RicanBebita03 [ RicanSpice14's advice column | Ask RicanSpice14 A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:03 pm: tell her how you feel. she'll be extremely flattered and might love you too. you guys should hang out and get to know eachother, because then she might see you as more than juss a friend. i know it could be nerve racking telling someone how you feel about them, but it'll help in the long run.
salemwolf answered Sunday August 14 2005, 1:03 pm: you can't really make a girl love you all you can do is spill out your guts about how you feel for her. i know what it like to feel for that one specil person. and i know you can't replace that feeling. im in love with my closest friend ian and well he only thinks of me as a friend the only thing i can do is sit and wait. if you really wanna convince her take her to the movies or where ever she likes to go. [ salemwolf's advice column | Ask salemwolf A Question ]
abercr0mbiie143 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:59 pm: yea i know what you mean, i really love this guy and hes only my friend too the only advice i can give you from personal experience is never give up if you think shes the one because if you do its just gonna be a waste of time for you and your gonna just kick yourself in the ass, i know this girl that liked this guy for 2 years and they went out because the guy finally realized they were ment for eachother, i would push it with this girl if its ment to be like you said then it will happen. But give it time. Dont be all clingy to her and asking her out every 5 seconds because girls dont like that, they get annoyed easily. So just be yourself and never give up..
coolcam666 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 12:58 pm: OK first remember that you cannot make a girl love you and that true love takes a lot of time, what i say you do is invite her to town or something sociable like that saying others are coming then arrange to meet her early (incase her friends come later) set up a really romantic table or something then ask her out through a poem or something like that. Good luck! [ coolcam666's advice column | Ask coolcam666 A Question ]
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