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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

If u like him that much, then u should try talking to him. If he doesn't understand, than he doens't. Tell him how you fell, and if he likes you back, he will change his ways.
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Hi mi name is candace nd i want a new sn buti dont kno who it should be . I like soccer,pink,talken on mi cell,hanging with mi friends,being crzy nd just haviing fun. Please help me pick a sn thanks!

prettyxnxpink
wetxnxwild
wet n wild
soccerxchick
crzy n pink
crzyxnxpink
wildxcandace
wild candace
hiper_xx
pink is my favorite crayon
pinkxisxmyxfavoritexcrayon

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WHat do you do if your boyfriend wants to do something sexual with you but you dont feel ready at the moment??

Tell him you're not ready. If he understands, than he is a true b/f. He if doesn't, than he's not.
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Does anyone know if they sell the black ipods?
And if so,do you know how much?

Go to amizon.com ro google.com
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ok.. so i want to get a new pet.. but i cant decide what to get. i wanted a snake but my mommy said no. And now im thinking of maybe a turtle.. any sugestions?.. Ok here are the rules.. No rodents (moms rule) No cats.. (blech i hate them) No Snake (:-() No dogs (already have the best one ever) and no birds (they suck) oo ya and no fish (boooring!)
Thanks for your suggestions!
Oh.. and no rocks either.. i already have one :-)

Yeah,
an iguana
a lizard
a bunny??
a turtle
a baeta fish (there not that boring)

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Anyone know of any good websites???

Yeah..
www.xanga.com
www.bored.com
www.addictingames.com

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Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya!

Ok, xanga is like an online journal.
Go to
www.xanga.com
and then where it says username, and password,and sign in under it says get a Xanga site, and push it. Come up w/ a username, password, ect. If you get one, get a layout. Put the layout under Look and Feel
and put it in Custom Module.
Everytime you sign in, and you're at you're page, push New Weblog Entry. There you put what you want.
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Can you take aerosols (i.e. body spray and spray deo) on planes, either in hand luggage or in your suitcase?

Yes. You can take almost anything except knives, guns, ect.
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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

Yes, it is very unhealthy. You're body will go on to starvation mode, and it will store as many calories that it can get. That will prevent you from dying. Eat three meals a day plus a snack. If u want to lose weight, eat healthy foods.
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I'm seventeen and I'd like to get a job, but I am clueless on some places to apply. My previous job was VERY stressful, so I want a job where I'm not under a lot of pressure. I don't want your typical teen job (food places/restaurants, grocery stores, or movies.) Clothing stores, little shops, and tanning salons are more of the kind of job I want. Office jobs wouldn't be too bad either. Any ideas on where else I should look into?

You should try getting a job at Abercrombie, Americain Eagle, and those cool stores. Also try little trinket stores, tanning places, or best buy.
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My friend is really fake. She used to be nice, but recently she has changed for the worse. She always talks about people, and I have told her to stop, because how do I know she is not talking about me behind my back. I want to be her friend, but it is getting ridiculous. I am so fed up with her, cause when I tell her how I feel she tries to turn it on me!Please help, I am going crazy here.

Ask a friend of her's that maybe is ur friend and ask her if she has been talking abt you behind ur back. If she doesn't listen to you, then she is not a friend. I would still try to make you her friend, because when she sees your the only one she's got, she'll do what you say because if she doesn't, she might loose you also.
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Me and my Boyfriend just broke up on Friday after an off and on 4 1/2 years together. This is something I have been through before with him, but this time he told me to leave him alone forever. I don't think he really means that, and this break up hurts so much. He has not called me and I wrote him a letter yesterday that he should get today, reminding him of good times, and I pretended to be ok with moving on. I am still very depressed and I don't know what to do. What do you think I should do?

What you need to do is that you really need to talk to him. Go to his house and discussed what went wrong. Ask him why he never wanted to see you again. If he doesn't want to talk about it, ask him why. "Why" questions are always good.
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does anone know if walking backwards helps your butt get smaller? if it does how often and how long. no links plz

I don't think so, but i wouldn't hurt if you try!
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I heard that if you have six small meals a day, then you lose weight. If you do, what should you eat, and how often?

Thanks in advance!

Probably light meals like..
Fruit
Veggies
Fruit and Dip
Yoguart
Maybe some pasta
Healthy Breakfast Bars
Cheese
ect
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can someone give me some websites that have icons that i can use for xanga plz?? thanks

www.xanga.com/codes____________________icons

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Icons________________________3

They're really good sites!
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can someone please tell me some cheap stores that i can get really cute clothes from?!? especially jeans! and what kind of make-up should i wear i have lite brown/dark blonde hair and blue eyes thanks

There's a lot of stores u could go to...
http://www.ae.com
http://secure.www.oldnavy.com/asp/home.html?wdid=0
http://secure.www.gap.com/asp/home_gap.html?wdid=0

http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/lifestyles/html/homepage.html
^^Abercrombie isn't that cheap though..lol

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i like this college guy whose a rlly good friend of mine. i dont kno if he likes me. he leaves soon for college ... ne tips ... ne advice on what i can do to find out ?!?!

thanks

Ask one of his good friends if you no them, or just ask him yourself. You could be like, "I know some 1 who likes you, but before i tell you, you must tell who you like." If he says you, then you can tell him that you like him too, but if he says someone else be like "OK, thanks!"
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Hey on the dark on xanga the drop down music player...how do you get the play button, pause button, and stop button...to the names you wanna change them too?? I RATE HIGH

Go to where it says "PlAY" and put what u want there. Same w/ "PAUSE" and "STOP"
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Hey,


DOes anyone know a website where i can find cute dools and stuff for my website? Thankx i rate 5's for any answer!!

http://www.msndollz.com/

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well there's this guy i like..and we've dated before and we always seem to fight now but we're the best of friends..well today we got in a big fight..and i told him i didn't want to hang out with him again this summer (we don't live in the same town) and he's like w/e and he got all mad at me..later i told him i was sorry and i still want to hang out with him and he's like yeah right and than i got an e-mail from him and it was this chain that he sent to me and it said that like he will always be there for me and everything and how i'm a great friend..but later he sent me a message when i wasn't there and it said i hate you (one time i was talking about someone hating me and he said "who could hate you"). so it kills me to know that he hates me. and he pretty much said that he could never hate me. i have no idea what happened..cause we always kid about that stuff be he didn't say he was kidding or anything..i'm soo worried about our friendship now..and i didn't even do anything..i love this kid right to death and i would do anything for him..i never knew how much the words "i hate you" could feel until you hear it from the one person you would do anything in this world for..even give up your life for them to keep living. it hurt me so bad..and i just want to tell him but i don't know if i can even express to him how much it hurt me. please help me..i just want to know what to say to him..i know it's really what i feel i should say but i need some help. i rate high! please help me! i'm stuck in the gutter on this one. =/

Tell him! Tell him that you're sry. It might seem weird, but if you have a guy problem like that guys tend to forgive you if you're the first to say you're sry. It's really weird, but it works most of the time. Tell him that you were wrong and that you are very sry. "i hate you" are a three powerful words, but they turn better if you can find away to eleminate them.
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