My friend is really fake. She used to be nice, but recently she has changed for the worse. She always talks about people, and I have told her to stop, because how do I know she is not talking about me behind my back. I want to be her friend, but it is getting ridiculous. I am so fed up with her, cause when I tell her how I feel she tries to turn it on me!Please help, I am going crazy here.
Cathryn answered Friday July 29 2005, 9:56 pm: Try to sit down with her and talk about the problem and if she doesnt accept what your saying then shes not worth having as a friend.Even as much as you want to be her friend its not worth it.Take it from somone who knows. [ Cathryn's advice column | Ask Cathryn A Question ]
rikatree2375 answered Friday July 29 2005, 7:40 pm: First of all, people change. Sometimes for good and sometimes for the bad. Sounds like this friend was nice but has changed. If you feel like how she's acting is not worth saving a friendship then maybe you should talk to her one last time about what she's doing and how it's wrong. Most likely if she has really changed she'll get mad at you and your friendship will end. But at least you'll be doing what's right. Try making some more sincere friends. Good luck!!!
dmbabie answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:47 pm: wow been there, done that. you need to have a conversation with this girl and tell it to her like it is. tell her that she is fake, and eventually she is going to end up with no friends. if she tries turn it on you, this girl is obviously not your friend, so just tell her to go be fake with someone else and move on!
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shake answered Friday July 29 2005, 6:30 pm: How do you know shes not talking behind your back? Know this. She is talking behind your back. She'll talk bad about you to anyone else she talks bad about. You hear her whines about one person, they hear her whines about you.
monet answered Friday July 29 2005, 4:33 pm: she probably hang around other people who acts the same way.just ignore it and if she carry on with it just be associates. [ monet's advice column | Ask monet A Question ]
Orlandoxluva answered Friday July 29 2005, 4:22 pm: she sounds like a real bitch I've had a friend like that then one day she fell out with me because she got jealous of my bf and kept trying to take him away from me and flirting with him I told her to back off and theres this girl I really liked she turned her against me but the problem is she was bitchy about my other mate she called her a lesbian I told her to stop so she lied and said I'd called her it you got to tell this girl to stop being such a bitch and to get off everyones case because if she carries on she'll end up with nobody I bet she does bitch about you so if you hear her talking about someone tell them don't let her laugh behind their back it's not fair on anyone and tell her that she's being really insensitive and what would she do if people said stuff a bout her confront her I would tell her she's crossing the line and it's got to stop hope I helped sophie [ Orlandoxluva's advice column | Ask Orlandoxluva A Question ]
xolovexallisonox answered Friday July 29 2005, 3:32 pm: Ask a friend of her's that maybe is ur friend and ask her if she has been talking abt you behind ur back. If she doesn't listen to you, then she is not a friend. I would still try to make you her friend, because when she sees your the only one she's got, she'll do what you say because if she doesn't, she might loose you also.
Hoep i helped!
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kathrenhallie answered Friday July 29 2005, 3:31 pm: well if i were you i wouldnt trust her wiht ne screts or nethign that you dont want neone to kno...and just stop beening her friend it might help her relize what she is doing and stop...but if she doesnt care that yall arent friends nemore then forget about her! [ kathrenhallie's advice column | Ask kathrenhallie A Question ]
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