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Name:Devlyn Isaiah Linden

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I am a little mean sometimes to my boyfriend but he doesnt seem to mind. We usually talk it out and things are cool again... but we got in a fight a few days ago and we broke up. We are on and off all the time so I figure i'll wait awhile to get back with him and let us both think things out. I told him I just wanted to be friends for now because I dont want a boyfriend right now. After I told him that he said that he didnt want to be my friend and couldnt talk to me until he was over me. He said he didnt want to talk to someone he loved and know he could only be my friend. I told him not to get over me because I just want to be his friend for now. But it seems like hes pushing me away now. I dont know if I should just let him get over me because I still love him and want to be with him in the future... But he doesnt want to be only my friend. I dont know what to do!! (link)
okay well seeing as how i was this way with my ex, just let him go for a little while and give him his space. Maybe he really loves you and its hurts being just your friend, i know with my ex that i couldnt talk to her for a while after we broke up because it hurt so bad to know she wasnt mine. I think if you just tell him to come to you when he can handle it and give him his space that things will work out great for you. If he does not respect that than.. as my friend kaylee says, "drop him like a bad habbit."

hope it helps hehe

~D3vY


well.. there is thiis boy.. and hes all nice in all and i like him a lot, but one think that brother the fuck out of me... is that he smokes weed and does a lot of drugs... i mean.. i dont kno what to do. erg. i hate this feeling

and btw.. ur fabulous!.. hah

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okay so heres the thing amanda .. if hes a idiot like that you dont need to bother with him at all, you deserve much better, and if he beats you and does drugs and stuff obviouslly hes not as nice as you think he is...stay away from him it is for the better


well.. ii met this guy.. he rely sweet iin all, and ii liike hiim,.. well.. but neways.. he does every kiind of drug.. and the other daii..he ttiied beatiing me when ii diidnt wanna do the drugs.. bc ii want nothiing to do wiith them...
ii just dont kno what to do nemore..iit was rely gd.. the relatiionshiip.. but the beatiing..well tryiing 2... ii duuno.. (link)
sweety you need to disquise your typing next time .... you know thats your mistake, stay the hell away from him babe... you go to the hospital enough you dont need him messing with you to..and if you take drugs i will be SO mad at you ... you will be just fine but stay away from the drugs and find a guy worth your time not a idiot who likes to beat people...simple answer


Ok so im with this guy and he constantly lies to me. He says he not lieing when i know he is. We always fight about it and then i take him back when I know i shouldnt. No one likes a liar right? Well, i dont know what to do. Idk if i should keep getting with him or what? What do you think i should do? (link)
Hm i really want to know who posted this so i can find the guy and ....say something to him... he he ... Anyways i have been in relationships where i lied and had relationships where girls lie to me, you cant keep taking them back they will just keep doing it..i know from experience from both views... if u keep taking a liar back then they will feel that they can walk all over you and that they can do whatever and you wont get fed up. tell the guy to leave you alone and move on, im sure you deserve better

Hope It Helps,

~DeVy


Ok..this guy..I really like him and like everyone had told me that he likes me too..then my bestest friend like came with me to see him and they were all dancing and like they were flirting but she has a boyfriend ((of 5 months)) and like i think she is gonna ruin what me and ((we'll call him mm))MM have and like i dont want that to happen..should i just like not take her back or what should i do!? please help i rate high! (link)
In my opinion you should start by expressing to your friend how you feel about her flirting with the guy you like. I know that alot of people say in that "unwritten book of dating" or what ever you want to call it, when a friend is flirting with your man or ex or someone you like, or if they date them, it's like breaking the rules. So express to her how you feel and that it hurts to see them together. And i dont know if you have already told the guy how you feel but maybe you should tell him that you really like him and all that stuff, you really just have to express your feelings.

Hope it helps,

~DeVy


okay so its summer and im really not in shape anymore. well cheerleading starts august 15th, what do you guys think i can do to get myself back in shape before then becuase the first 2 weeks are all condtioning and those practices are from 9-11 and 12-230..which is a long time and i dont want to be hurting bad after the first day because im so out of shape. any suggestions??..thanks a bunch.. ill rate high! (link)
first of all august 15 is my birthday.

But back to the topic. The best thing you can do is run, i have played baseball,basketball,ran track,ran cross country, and played a season of football, so i am pretty athletic. But i have found running to be the best way to get in shape, also getting a excercise ball helps build your core muscles quite a bit (your back and mid section maybe.) Personally i hate weights, and i imagine alot of people feel that way, so i do a lot of work with medical tubing, excercise and medicine balls, and mainly running. I feel like those few things will really help put anyone in shape.

hope it helps

~DeVy


about what age do boys and girls start french kissing? (link)

whenever the time is right...personally i started when i was 9...it was only a few timse...after that it wasnt again until i was like 12 or 13..but id say for most ppl its around 13-16, just whenever it feels right


my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me (link)
to sum this up in one word, NO!

i have been in the same situation where i took a girl back after she cheated on me, all she did was cheat again, again, and again. Once a cheater always a cheater


My boyfriend is super nice. He is always telling me I'm hot, im sexy, im pretty, im cool, when I don't really think i am. He says he loves me way too much and its strating to get a little annoying. I basically just met him and don't know him as well as I would like to. I feel like hes rushing things, but still hes super nice and he loves me and hes really obsessed with me.....

I rate.... (link)
okay i'll give you advice from a guys perspective. Im a really sweet guy and i like to show my affection for someone, and sometimes i do get a little over bearing. But i have never rushed into anything like love, and to get me "obsessed" if thats what you wanna call it, it takes quite a bit. The girl im with now i have beeen with off and on for over a year, we kinda "rushed" into things (which even then was a few months) and i think that thats what drove us apart when we were first dating. I think you need to come out and be honest with him, tell him he is sweet and all but he is being too over bearing, tell him you cant rush into things like love and relationships or they end just as quickly as they begun. you need to take things like that slowly. If you rush into it you get less feelings and kinda feel like you can walk all over that person, in my mind when you take it slowly you begin to like the person more and thats when you start feeling "love" for them but that takes a while of just getting to know eachother and being in that "neutral" state between friends and lovers first. Come up front and honest and let him know that it needs to be taken more slowly and you need your space.

sorry so long i kinda said the same thing over and over again

~Devy


i love you baby :P hehe! your the greatest!! together forever xOxO (link)
baby that doesnt need advice!!! lol thanks tho i love you too baby! and yes forever of course




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