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Too Nice....
My boyfriend is super nice. He is always telling me I'm hot, im sexy, im pretty, im cool, when I don't really think i am. He says he loves me way too much and its strating to get a little annoying. I basically just met him and don't know him as well as I would like to. I feel like hes rushing things, but still hes super nice and he loves me and hes really obsessed with me.....
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if you break up with him now then you may regret it later. communication is the key to any relationship. tell him how you feel. be nice about it. don't be like, "hey dude. you're smothering me and it's annoying." tell him that though you appreciate all the sweet and nice and romantic things he does, it's going too fast. explain to him what too fast means. (some guys take things very wrong, and end up doing something stupid). tell him that you'd like some space, but you still want to be with him because you think this could go somewhere great and mean something deep to the both of you. also add in that you'd like to get to know him better too.
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Uh, just tell him you think things are moving too fast. He'll understand. He probably just really likes you like you said. I'm sure he'll calm down though. Hope it all works out.
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Tell him you guys need to slow things down and get to know each other a little better. Explain to him that loving someone isn't about saying your hot, sexy, pretty, or cool..its about just loving the fact that your with them and that they make you happy. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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Well sweetie.. What you need to do is tell your boyfriend what you just said.. Let him know that you feel like hes rushing you.. and that you would like to slow this down.. and tell him not to be soo obsessive. If that keeps up.. in the long run its only going to get worse and may even cause you to break up. So just talk to him and tell him how you feel.. Otherwise hes going to keep on doing it.. and your just going to keep feeling the same way..
Hope This Helps.. Good Luck
~*Jackie~*
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Just talk to him and let him know his constant attention is making you uncomfortable since you don't feel that you know him that well yet. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you're comfortable.
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sounds like a guy I dated. break up with him. really. I know how it ends up. or talk to him about it, if he continues, break up with him.
sorry to be blunt, but I know how it goes.
if you need anymore help with this, IM me on AIM: fatalXhaerts ...i'll be glad to help.
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okay i'll give you advice from a guys perspective. Im a really sweet guy and i like to show my affection for someone, and sometimes i do get a little over bearing. But i have never rushed into anything like love, and to get me "obsessed" if thats what you wanna call it, it takes quite a bit. The girl im with now i have beeen with off and on for over a year, we kinda "rushed" into things (which even then was a few months) and i think that thats what drove us apart when we were first dating. I think you need to come out and be honest with him, tell him he is sweet and all but he is being too over bearing, tell him you cant rush into things like love and relationships or they end just as quickly as they begun. you need to take things like that slowly. If you rush into it you get less feelings and kinda feel like you can walk all over that person, in my mind when you take it slowly you begin to like the person more and thats when you start feeling "love" for them but that takes a while of just getting to know eachother and being in that "neutral" state between friends and lovers first. Come up front and honest and let him know that it needs to be taken more slowly and you need your space.
sorry so long i kinda said the same thing over and over again
~Devy
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Maybe you should just talk to him and tell him that yall need to slow things down. Take some time to get to know him, like go to the movies with him, or walk around the mall so that you two have a chance to talk. And in time, hopefully things will get better. Hope i helped, sweetie
<3 melanie
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you need to talk to him. tell him that he might be moving alittle too fast for you. tell him that you like him but you just dont feel cofortable when he says awhole bunch of stuff to you. i hope i helped you...if i didnt then sorry.
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