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Question Posted Tuesday July 26 2005, 8:22 pm
my boyfrind cheated on me and wants me back should i take him back and worrie all my life to see if hes ganna cheat on me again or breack up i love him
my friends say its not the first time did itto me
babygirl17 answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 12:23 am: Hunnie... I wouldnt go back out with him... If he cheated once... Hes only going to do it again... Alot of guys say that they wont.. and some are honestly not going to.. but then again alot of them still cheat.. You dont need that in your life.. If a guy has enough nerve to cheat on you. He doesnt have the same feelings for you as you do for him. So your better off just going and finding someone new who wont do that shit to you...
ncblondie answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 12:18 am: Since he's done it before, I would say he's going to continue to cheat. The best think to do is let him go. It doesn't seem to me that you trust him right now, and with good reason. Trust is essential for a relationship. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
xthisisme14x answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 11:33 pm: to sum this up in one word, NO!
i have been in the same situation where i took a girl back after she cheated on me, all she did was cheat again, again, and again. Once a cheater always a cheater [ xthisisme14x's advice column | Ask xthisisme14x A Question ]
xomellanie answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 11:29 pm: If you love him, than get back with him. But talk to him first and tell him that if he loves you, he wouldn't do things like that to you. and hopefully this time will be different and he can gain your trust again. hope i helped.
<3 melanie [ xomellanie's advice column | Ask xomellanie A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 10:40 pm: Lose him.. you shouldnt deserve that from ***ANY*** guy no matter how much you love him.. just get rid of him.. you shouldnt have to worry yourself to death about i wonder what he's doing..? you should have to ask yourself those questions.. **Trust should come in a relationship and stay** trust also should come before loving somebody.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Rocker1213 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 10:15 pm: YOU SHOULD DEFFINENTLY BREAK UP WITH HIM. I was in tht situation once but with a girl and she cheated on me but then she wanted me back. I said ok and we went out again but she cheated on me again so i dumped her. Ever since then she has been wanting me back but i refuse her cuz i know she will just not work. Hope i helped!
IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 10:03 pm: is he really worth it? i mean i know u may love him but do you think he really loves you? if he did then there is no way he would have put you through that and cheated on you. if he has done it once then its likely he will do it again unless he realises that its wrong. and the only way to do that is by loosing you. if he wants you back and seesthat beacuse of what hes done he cant have you then he will realise not to do it agn. then in a while when he looks to have learnt his lesson (and i mean leave it a couple of months or sumthing) then it might be safer to try again then.
hope i helped! [ IveGotPinkJazzShoes's advice column | Ask IveGotPinkJazzShoes A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 9:47 pm: hun you should just let him go
why torture yourself like that when you know hes going to do it again if thats not the first time he did it
hes not even worth it you could do better then being with a guy who only cares about cheating and not your feelings
EternalFolly answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 9:40 pm: Most cheaters will cheat again. It's more stress than you need, unless you truly believe he won't do it again. If you're going to be worried about it then leave him for good. [ EternalFolly's advice column | Ask EternalFolly A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 9:37 pm: definitely not. He had his chance. he blew it. Don't fall into his little trap. You're better than that! You should find a boyfriend you trust and are comfortable with.
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