i have this friend tht i have known for years and she always seems to beat me at everything music grades, instrumentsand she is better at everything than me such as sports (netball) snd she thinks tht ts a competition. should i dump her as a friend or tell her how i feel?
ItzMzManda answered Monday July 25 2005, 8:19 pm: Tell her how you feel. She probably can't control it and it jus happens. Sharing your feelings will help the both of you because she'll learn to stop and you'll learn to open. Don't dump her as a friend because you can't jus do that its not right. She'll jus try to bring you down even worst. Hope this helps!!
HyperactiveMiss answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:45 pm: You already asked me this. Next time, don't bother dropping me an inbox if you're going to ask everyone else as well.
t0xicParadiSe answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:44 pm: you should try talking to her first and if she still thinks everything is a competition then dump her because that shows shes not a real friend
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orphans answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:43 pm: well i think you should tell her how you feel.if she is a real friend then she should take it seriously and understand thant your life isnt a competion.
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Karen answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:36 pm: Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't take what you said seriously, then she isn't a real friend and that's when you should end your friendship with her. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Rocker1213 answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:35 pm: U should deffinentaly tell her how u feel. If u dump her as a friend she will still think it is a competition and she will still try to be better than you at everything. If you talk to her about it she will realize what she is doing and if she really is a friend she will stop. Hope i helped
answergiver323 answered Monday July 25 2005, 7:34 pm: you should definantly tell her how you feel, but in a nice way, and make sure she knows you want to talk it over and not just stop being friends, and if she cant understand that, then shes not worth keeping. [ answergiver323's advice column | Ask answergiver323 A Question ]
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