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Girl at school.
Hmm well maybe I should start like this. I met this girl like 5-6 months ago and she was pretty cool so we became pretty good friends. Now after being with her at school and seeing her here and there after school, I finally figured out I like her a lot. She had a bf though, but he treated her like crap, he wouldnt ever talk to her or do things with her etc. So now she broke up with him and I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I dont want to ask her out because if she doesnt like me our friendship will suffer, and plus I dont usually like to ask people out.
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Hi, maybe you should let the dust settle for now.
Give her some time to deal with the break up and then ask her out to the movies or out for lunch. Strike up a conversation with her and find out what her interests are. If you know her quite well which it sounds like you do, Then maybe invite her to the park or somewhere quite were you wont get disturbed. Remember if you dont ask you will never know! Daniel.
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ok like i always say im on the football team and i hear all this crap.. well maybe this girl doesnt want her old bf captivating her... and maybe just when you see her in the hall just walk up to her and start talking and like if her hand is out then hold it because thats a giood sign ( i would kno) or like hug her .. or if someone if making fun of her like calling her a ditz stand up for .. "Shes a ditz and i like her like that" even kiss her unexpecedly and if she gos along with it.. well you kno
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Alrighty, This is where i really feel bad for you guys out there. Here's the best advice from a girls point of view that i can give you at the time. If i was the girl you like in this situation i would want you to say somethin like: I have a question for you but if you say no, I would like you to forget that i ever asked you because i don't want to jepredize our friendship. She'll probable be like ummm okay. and then you ask her if she would be interested in going to see a movie the upcomming weekand, and tell her that she can pick it. She'll most lickely say yes, and if she does then just go from there.. eventually ask her out. And if she says no, then atleast your friendship won't (shouldn't) be runed.
Hope everything goes smoothly,
Lioness
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Your friendship won't suffer unless you let it. I think you should ask her out. Just agree from the start that if either of you feel it isn't working out you will call the romantic involvement quits. With no hard feelings. :)
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Well, I think you shouldn't freak her out and tell her you like her so much suddenly unless she acts like she really likes you, Just give it time Ya know? , Well Start spending time with her.. DO not help her or support her wayy too much with her boyfriend or else she'll view you as a brother or a close or bestfriend. So when you think the time is right , Just ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or something. Good luck !! Best wishes to your courage to ask !! <3
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i see it this way.. if you're good friends.. it shouldnt ruin the relationship by telling her you like her.. either she'll like you in return and it will turn into an awesome relationship.. or she'll say she likes you.. but in a brotherly since.. which won't hurt ur friendship.. in fact it might bring you closer.. who knows.. that's what happened to me and this guy friend of mine once.. :) sorry if i wasnt much help...
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If she only just broke up with her boyfriend, give it some more time before you make your move. Continue to be her friend- support her as she moves on from her ex, and show her that you care. When you feel like she's ready to "play the field" again so to speak, then consider trying to take your friendship to the next level.
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You sound really sweet! So, here is what I think. Yes, I think she will like you and I think you should ask her out. But, there is something else that I think I should advise you on. I dont know specifics on her ex relationship, but I think you should give it some time before you ask her out. I would say like a month or so after they break up. The reason I say this is because it isnt really fair to date someone right after they get out of a relationship. This is because they need time to get over the old relationship and etc. If they rush into anything too fast then they may make decisions for all the wrong reasons. So, I would just wait for a while before pursuing this. Now, when you are ready to date her and you KNOW she is ready, there are a few things you can do to find out if she likes you. One, and prolly the best thing, is to ask her friend(s). They will know if she likes you and if they dont, they can find out. TRUST ME! Two, just ask her. Sit her down and talk to her. Find out how she feels and if she likes you or not. Most girls are not too shy when it comes to these things. Just do whatever is best for you! Hope I Helped And Good Luck!
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Aws thats cute. I bet you she likes you alot!! I think you should take a chance and ask her out. I wish i would have taken more chances like that in the passed. I bet she thinks the same things you do and is just scared to ask you out. And its great that you two have none each other for awhile. Its way better to start out as friends so you no each other. Hope i helped. Let me no how things go and good luck!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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I think you should ask her out because you never know she might really like you but is scared to tell you too. one of you has gotta start somewhere
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