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.. first of all, ratings dont really matter to me, i dont understand the concept of rating advice, it's adivce, good or bad it's the same thing, and most people are going to take advice they dont want and rate it bad, cuz they dont like it, when in all actuality it's probably the BEST adivce they could get.... and secondly there's not much to know about me.. ima typical 18 year old girl fixin to graduate in like a week.. and i really don't know who i am, so dont expect me to tell u :)
**human beings must be known to be loved, but divine beings must be loved to be known*** -Pascal

advice

(I wasnt quite sure where to place this question, so I just chose here)
I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half now, and he is about to graduate from highschool. We dont know eachother very well, which is why I am about to ask this. I got invited to his graduation party, which is a bit less than a month away now. Problem is, I have absolutly no idea what to do for a gift. I dont know what types of things you get for someone who is graduating, this is the first time I've had to deal with having to get a graduation gift. Any help whatsoever would be greatly appreciated!

Money.. im fixing to graduate, and that's what i hope most people get me, bcuz i could really use a computer when i leave and a new car, but i know no one can get those, but if everyone gives money you can save it and buy things you need
money's less thoughtful but more versitile..

and maybe get a cute lil teddy bear:D.. well if he's the kind of guy who likes stuffed animals :D

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Ok so theres this boy in my class and he always make fun of me saying something about how my chest is small or w/e, i wouldnt care but he ytell it to all his friend that are boy , there are 20 ppl in my class soo that not alot if yo think about it, its really embarssing and even if I say sotp he doesnt!! Please I feel relaly uncomforatble.

wow, and i thought i typed really bad shorthand, dude i can hardly understand what your asking.. but what i got out of it was that, there's a guy picking on you for having small boobs... so here's my take when i was a freshamn my cousin had bigger boobs than me, but like begining of my Junior BAM! i had boobs, so maybe your not threw growing and i wouldnt worry bout him making fun of you for having small boobs now...

or you can be like my friend, she has kinda small boobs and our friends make fun of her, but she jus goes along w/ it and even makes fun of herself, so that could also help :) Make FUn Of YOURSELF! :).. Life's so Much more fun when you can laugh and make fun of yourself! :)

Later!

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Hey, well my current boyfriend is my first kiss and everything, and I'm nto really sure if im a great kisser or not. If someone could give me some tips on making out that would b awesome!!! I normally follow his lead but i think i wanna surprise him with something of my own for once lol :p

it all depends on him.. you could ask him ways to improve.. :) that's me and my boyfriend do, we talk bout ways to improve on things..:D

plus i like to suck on he's tongue.. i did it once to someone and it was fun and they liked it.. but my current boyfriend doesnt like it.. so yea.. like i said jus ask your boyfriend :P

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well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...

i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??

what can i do to make things better between my mom and i?

.. it depends on how old you are.. my mom was kind of overprotective but since i turned 18 she's kind of let me go and plus me and my boyfriend have jobs and go to different schools, so i go see him after work alot used to id jus tell my parents i got out of work later than i really did.. i dont know if that'd work for you, or you could try and tell your mom that your getting older, and she needs to start letting you go, that way it'd be easier later...

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Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ

id wax it, quicker :) and it won't grow back as fast.. or u could just leave it alone, it's natural for a girl to have a mustache, as long as it's not like BAM! Mustache! :)

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I know that every girl down there is unique, but im not a lesbian or anything but i see pretty girls in magazines and all of them dont have any visible things in their bottoms. like my question is, is it unattractive to have larger "lips" than most girls and will guys be turned away by it? I dont wanna sound weird its just i dont know who to ask without seeming like a weirdo. lol thanx!

umm.. i don't think it's unnatural, and i dont think guys are going to turn away, because the only guys who should see your vagina :P are ones that like you and accept no matter if you have bigger "lips" or not.. well as long as you dont have any weird scabs or disease or nething :)

i htink it's funny u were lookin at girls croutches in magazines.. hehe.. ive looked at girls boobs, never thought bout that.. but anyways, there also jus pictures, no telling how many times those pictures have been touched up, so who know they might have some bulges, they jus got taken out :) but i seen girls with bulges it's not a big deal :P

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I have this shirt that is 100% cotton. It's a bit too loose and it's suppose to be form-fitting. I want to shrink it so it fits my body but not too much because then it won't fit at all! How can I make it shrink just a tiny bit? PS dont tell me to return it!

go throw a car wash :)


JK.. i think hanging it up wont shrink it, the Dryer is more likely to do so.. :) at least my clothes shrink in the dryer!!!! DAMN IT! ( another shirt is to small yet again :)

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ive liked this guy for a while .. but one of my friends has liked him for two years. even though me and her arent that close id still feel bad for making a move or anything even though he acts like he likes me too. i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to not have him either. what do i do?

hmm.. typical girl question :D that tends to happen ALOT :) but i look at it this way, it's fine for two friends to like the same guy, but it all depends on who he likes, if he likes you.. she should be friend enough to let ya'll be together or vice-versa.. sorry if i was of no help

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i have begged and begged but mom will not let me get my tongue peirced! she says im too young to make that kind of choice.im 13! one of my family members got it done when she was 11 and my mom approves of it! i really want this done but i dont know were to go that will let u with out your parents permission and one of my friends said to do it my self which i thought about but then another friend said that if you hit the wrong spot it can kill but still this is a choice.what should i do?

umm.. well ive wanted my tongue piereced since i was 13.. but ive never gotten it done.. my older sister had told me to wait till i was 18 and if it's still what i wanted to do, then do it.. you change sooo much throughtout highschool.. i think it'd be smarter for you to wait.. im 18 now and i still want to do it..and my mom told me no.. and i respect her and i figured since ive waited since i was 13.. i can wait a few more months till i move out.

and there's not a place that will let someone who's 13 do it w/ out parental consent..

i dont know if that helped at all.. it was jus from personal experience :)

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Hmm well maybe I should start like this. I met this girl like 5-6 months ago and she was pretty cool so we became pretty good friends. Now after being with her at school and seeing her here and there after school, I finally figured out I like her a lot. She had a bf though, but he treated her like crap, he wouldnt ever talk to her or do things with her etc. So now she broke up with him and I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I dont want to ask her out because if she doesnt like me our friendship will suffer, and plus I dont usually like to ask people out.

i see it this way.. if you're good friends.. it shouldnt ruin the relationship by telling her you like her.. either she'll like you in return and it will turn into an awesome relationship.. or she'll say she likes you.. but in a brotherly since.. which won't hurt ur friendship.. in fact it might bring you closer.. who knows.. that's what happened to me and this guy friend of mine once.. :) sorry if i wasnt much help...

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Come home, climb in my bed, wake me up, and do naughty things to me at 7 in the morning. And then, let's fall asleep in one another's arms.

that would have been nice........

how bout friday night.... :)

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ok, i was just looking at my fingernails and i noticed on a few i have white spots.I seem to always have them.What are they?Is there any way to prevent them?

Ah!! it's some evil fungus that will make your fingers fall off, and everyone around you who sees them, eyes will fall out!!! Paint them! Cover them up before you do damage to more people!!!!

Sorry :) im jus kidding.. id say they were calcium deposits.. that's my guess, but if you're really worried go to a doctor or something.. or what about those hand model people.. i wander if they know about finger nails.. hmmm *ponders*

bye now! :)
-Bridgette

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This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.

Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!

So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.

My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?

there's that saying..hmm let me remember...

"some people come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime..( there's alot more to it)"

I guess you were a reason :) She needed you.. eventually she'll live you alone because she'll realize you jus happened to be with her for th reason she needed you and no more.. i had girls like that before, we were great friends since we were like 5 (im 18 now) and once we were around 16/17.. we drifted, and i wanted them out of my life, they were mean.. but that's not my point.. jus wait it out, eventually she'll live you alone ( unless you'd jus like to "cut" he or something.. (JUS KIDDING!)) sorry if i was of no help, bubye!
-bridgette

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Ok here’s the situation, I’ve been seeing this girl for awhile now (over 2 years) Indeed I’m very happy and I’d say very much so in love. She makes me happy and I want to be with her, but recently I’ve met this other girl, I wouldn’t say she’s perfect for me but she’s someone I could see myself dating. Being around her makes me “funny” inside, and I think about her a lot as well as my own girlfriend. I know there is nothing wrong with my relationship now and I don’t want to cheat on her, but I don’t know. I feel a connection to this other girl, I enjoy being around her and even get a bit jealous when she’s talking about dating other guys… I haven’t known her really long; I’ve spent time with her as friend’s one on one to get away from other people. I’d never dream to cheat on my angle but these feelings make me feel so torn and confused I just wanted to know if I’ll get past these feelings or will I have to detach myself from this other girl to get rid of them and just return to complete certainty with my love. Do I really have feelings for this other girl? Or is it more or less a fad were we get along but I’m more so in love with the feelings I get with her attention? Does this mean there will be problems with me and my current girlfriend in the future? There have never been in the past… I’m so confused!

wow.. sounds like a movie :) like have you ever seen Shall We Dance or Forces of Nature? or there's some other movie, i dont remember the name but that happens and he ends up with the other girl instead of the one he's dating..so lets say, your still in highschool, or collge (im not sure how old you are :) ) but if you are then you have plenty of time to figure it out :) if your feeling become greater for this other girl, why not break up with your current girlfriend.. well go on a break anyway and then experience something else, maybe you just want to live a little before you think you should settle down. I had a friend once, who he loved his girlfriend, but he wanted something different before he was older and wanted to be married, and he kissed another girl and it jus didnt feel right, and proved to him that he did want his girlfriend for the Rest of His Life she was the only one for him ( so maybe you try to experience someone new, it might help you realize) granted im a girl and would really like that, but maybe it would give her a chance to experience someone new if only to realize ya'll cant live without each other :) i dont think i really helped, but im new at this :D
Good Luck!

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Every night when I go sleep, I notice tears welling up at the edge of my eyelids for no reason. Its just totally random, I'm not even thinking of anything... Is it possible ,y eyes are just irritated after I've taken my contacts out from wearing them all day? Or is it just another body regulation thing like tapping your leg repeatedly?

it could be your contacts, or it might jus be allergies...mine do that sometimes.. but it's either cuz my allergies are acting up or im jus REALLY tired..

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Who loves ya, baby?

You!!! :)

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