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my moms over-protective!
well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...
i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??
what can i do to make things better between my mom and i?
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Have her meet your boyfriend, and explain to her why he is so special to you. Maybe she was hurt at a young age as a guy and doesn't want you to go through the same thing. Make sure you tell her that you really like this guy, and it would mean allot to you if she would give him a chance.
Is it possible that you are accidentally hurting her feelings by spending all your free time by his house? If this might be true arrange a girls night out with just your mom to do a little bonding.
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.. it depends on how old you are.. my mom was kind of overprotective but since i turned 18 she's kind of let me go and plus me and my boyfriend have jobs and go to different schools, so i go see him after work alot used to id jus tell my parents i got out of work later than i really did.. i dont know if that'd work for you, or you could try and tell your mom that your getting older, and she needs to start letting you go, that way it'd be easier later...
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since shes your mom, shes gonna be hard to reason with about this. just ask her if she doesnt like it so much then why doesnt she let him go to your house? in my opinon, your parents shouldnt have to agree with everything you wanna do. you should go even if she says no. its not a big deal.
good luck.
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well it all depends on your relationship with your mom. If you have a good one just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and what her options are. I would just talk and keep it casual and avoid any confrontation. Let her know how your feeling. Hope I helped!!!
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You need to talk to mom and explain to her that since you want this relationship to work out you need to see each other. If she would only allow you to have him over to your house a couple of days a week she would see more of you. Try talking to her as you would one of your friends. That may help. :)
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try talking to your mum and find out the reason why he can't go round yours, and ask her why it's such a problem!
maybe your mum just feels like your spending so much time with him and she feels left out like all your attention on him. maybe she's just worried you'll get up to something you shouldn't be or she's worried you'll get hurt,
why don't you suggest u go on a mother daughter day go shopping or something when she feels she's not being felt out then say can he come over so she can really see what he's like and that he can really like him and that he's really worth everything hope it goes well hun xXx
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you can start by sitting down and talking to her about it without fighting. Just be like mom, im old enough to have a boyfriend now. And just ask why she wont let you go over there if he cant come over your house. Just be reasonable about it and try to work out a deal with her. What works for me is when me and my mom go out by ourselves and sit down for a bite to eat I then come clean and talk to her about everything, it works better that way and it doesnt get my mom mad at me. So just try to have a mother daughter day or what not and tell her how you feel. :-)
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