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Confused...Loving an ex
Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, he was the first love of my life. We went out for almost a year, and we loved eachother so much.Well we were really serious about eachother and we had so much fun and it was so crazy, and I knew he loved me. Well until the beginning of this year he went to a different school district and he completely changed...But I know thats not him and thats not how he wants to be because he jsut completely changed the 2nd day he started going to his new school..well we eventually broke up, and then went back out 1 or 2 months after, and he wasnt the same and he hurt me. But I know thats not him and thats why it makes me so upset. And ive tried giving so many guys chances and it jsut doesnt work cause I think about him all the time, and ive waited for a guy that i actually like to come along. And im so confused cause I see my ex every now and then and I see him just looking at me. And my friends tell me he still loves me cause he cant go from loving me one day to completely not loving me and he told them that he loved me cause they are his friends too. And im just so confused cause hes stuborn, and if he does love me why doesnt he tell me? Because I know if I asked him he would be too shy and wouldnt tell me because he hurt me..
Please help me....
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well sometimes you just have to move on.since he goes to a different school you won't be able to see him so don't worry about finding a guyyou'll find the right one someday
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Gahhh!!! Guys are so dumb!!!
I'm so sorry, I know how bad all of that sucks. I've got a friend in a similar situation. They went out for a long time and were totally in love, then they broke up and she still loves him, but he's really cold towards her.
Sometimes you just have to accept the changes in people, even if you know they aren't right. You say it isn't really him, but it may well be. I know how much it sucks to watch people change in ways you don't like, but it happens.
If you still love him, and I mean the new him, not what you remember him as, it sounds like he loves you too, so go for it. Talk to him. Let him know you care. If not, that's the way it goes.
Goodluck.
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Welp, this situation is tough. I think you should talk to this guy and tell him you really love him and ask him why he's changed. If he just acts the same way, wait a while and somewhere in this world, is the perfect guy for you, so keep your eyes open. :P
Hoped I helped.
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I honestly dont really know why your ex wont tell you that he loves you. Just because he wont say it doesnt mean he doesnt. I mean everyone knows he loves you and he really seems like he cares a lot about you. Sometimes people do change when they go to a different school, move or whatever. Maybe he is just trying to fit in with everyone. You need to tell him that you guys need to talk and seriously dont worry about it hes shy. Make him tell you the truth about everything that has been going on. I think he will tho! He obviously cares a lot about you and I know he didnt mean to hurt you. Sometimes guys dont even relize if they hurt someone or not. x0`
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you should get over him because he is just what he seems like. if you go back out with him then he will do the same thing.
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