wazup i am 14 and i just want to answer questions and talk to people.
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Location: batesburg south carolina
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Age: 14
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i'm currently a senior in high school (counting down the last few days before graduation!) and over the last year, i've met an incredible friend. i met him last august, but over the last nine months, we have grown to have the most complex friendship i have ever had in my entire life; we immediately connected, both having similar interests in literature, music, opera, coffee, etc. he is a year younger than i am, thus when i leave for college, he will be in his last year of high school.
he is currently going through a lot of emotional pain and stress in his life. i admire him him so much for all he does; his parents have just recently separated and he takes care of his two younger sister. i see how he takes charge, takes on more responsibilities than either of his parents do. in addition, he has grown to be an extremely central part of my life.
i'm going to be a good five hours away from my friend next year. he isn't very close with many other kids in our school, or even outside of school, thus i know our separation is going to hurt him (as well as me!). i keep telling him i'm going to come back and visit, that i want to see him and i'm looking forward to seeing him in the school musical next year.. he insists that once i'm gone, i'm not going to come back; he insisted the other day he feels as though he is inferior to me (which i don't understand, considering he is extremely smart, did much better on his sats than i ever did, and has a musical gift).
i have seen how he has lost a lot of people in his life; he refrains from expressing much emotion around me because i believe he is afraid to let me in, afraid of losing me.. how can i assure him that i will keep in touch, that i will come back, that he won't lose me? i tell him constantly that he means to much to me, that he is unlike anyone i have ever met.. but i fear i tell him too often and it all sounds so fake.. (link)
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you should keep telling him that and when you move away you should come back to see him as much as you can.
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OK, Ill try again, with no offensive stuff.
This girl i know did something. And now shes flirting with me alot more, i dont know if she wants to go out with me, or just flirt. (link)
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ask one of her friends if she likes you one that you trust will not tell her you asked.
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I am a 20 years old horny virgin lives in toronto.
You know any girl wants a one night stand thing in toronto area?
Give them my msn
torontoguy_8@hotmail.com (link)
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i don't know ANY girls in the toronto.
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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what? (link)
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i think you should give him a chance because once you and him start to talk more he will become more comfortable around you and will talk to you more.
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I can't seem to find and black cheerleading spandex shorts. You know, the kind that you wear underneath your cotton shorts? Where do you buy those? And what brand do you suggest? (link)
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you can get them from dicks sporting goods (a store) you can also get them from eastbay (a catolog) and you should get the under armor if you can it is high ut it works. but if you can't pay that much you can go to wall mart and get some athletic works for less.
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i have an 11 year old sister who asked me to write here. she has alaways been really atletic, but has never found a sport just for her. can you guys please write abouts sports you like, what type of people they are for, and some info on it. please exclude soccer and basketball (link)
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softball might be good for her, but it will take coordination and some practice to make her good but if she has athletic ability the she probably do good in it.
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I need a work-out routine that will make me loose a little weaight, but I want more like a flatter stomach (I'm really stressed & thats where the stress seems to go) & a 6-pack, & maby some arm musscle, I'm fairly thin, I'm 14/M & I'm about 5'2 & I weaigh about 110 or 115, & I'm not doing this cos I wanna be on a sports team, but cos I'm made-fun of alot, & I think if I possibuly looked better, maby that would decreese, so alls I want is some arms mussles, a flater stomach, & a 6-pack. & I wanted to know a good routine that I could use for that & a good diet. I'm 14 & so I don't have SO much accses, like I can't go to the gym, but I can go for walks & stuff
thanks! (link)
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one thing you could do is some crunches, you could also do some other things to like push ups and jog a little. at first you need to start slow and then you can progress up in your workout routine. and also a first you will be sore. so don't let that stop you because after a few days of exercising you will not be sore. and if you want to get a little thicker you can eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich with some milk right before you go to be, believe me this works.
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Hello, Im 28 and I was talking to a member of the opposite sex online one day, and I asked them what they were wearing at that time. They replied with the type of clothing they were wearing. They then unexpectedly turned the question around on me and said that since they had answered my question, I had to answer the same one for them. After some persuasion, I timidly admited that I was actually naked at that time. They did not take offence at knowing this. It felt risque at first, but afterwards, I felt kinda releaved to have been able to tell a member of the opposite sex that I was nude. Was it wrong to tell someone of the opposite sex about my nudity when chatting with them? Anyone else have any oppinions or suggestions? (link)
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i don't think it was a wrong thing to do. anyway they couldn't see you so you have nothing to worry about.
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I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do? (link)
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i think you should just lay off because he will be alot older than you and you will be under age if you and him get into any physical action, and he will get into alot of trouble because of his age and your age.
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Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c) (link)
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all you have to do is just go with the flow like the last person said and start moving your toung into his mouth when you feel it is the right time.
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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do? (link)
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you should break up with him and have charges brought against him for threatning your life. and find someone better than him.
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Okay so, I babysit everyday for 2 hours which some people have told me will burn alot of calories then as soon as I get home I do 2 hours/an hour and a half of dancing then if I have time I do 30 minutes of skipping (rope jumping)
I'm not doing it to lose weight it's just to stay in shape and keep me busy since I have nothing better to do.
Loads of people have told me I'm over excersizing and I know for a fact it's dangerous to over excersize.
Am I over excersizing? (link)
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i don't think you are over exersizing i think you are just very active and by the way if you were you would know it because your body would let you know.
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I have a Zig Fighter jet that has been very reliable until recently. Just yesterday my air-conditioner belt broke and I had to replace that. And for the past few weeks it has been sputtering just before I hit Mach-8..and it drinks the gas horribly; you all know how much jet fuel costs these days, its crazy. Is there any way I can fix this or make it more efficeient? Should I just get a new jet? (link)
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it sounds like you need to go get it a tune up if it is using that much gas and while you are going to get it tuned up you should ask them what else it could be.
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I have a Toyota Minolta(sponsored) race car that I am using in endurance races. Since it is more than 1000 horsepower, the gas mileage isn't that great. It is a middle-engine, rear wheel drive monster of a car. Heres the problem: My rear tires are wearing out much faster than my front tires, i know with it being rear wheel drive that it is prone to doing this, but is there a way to prevent it? Should i increase the downforce on the rear wing or would that just cause more problems? Advice please. (link)
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you should add more down force to it so it gets better traction and dosen't wearout as many tires.
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Ok. Just yesterday I got my driving permit, and I'm a little nervous about driving on the bigger roads. Afraid I'm going to forget to look for signs, miss turns, etc. Anyone got any ways I can just chill and do everything I've learned without /over/doing it? Or maybe I should just start small for awhile, drive around in college lots or my own neighbourhood?
~fellow Advicenator (link)
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you should just chill when it comes to driving. once you are one the road everything just comes to you from instinct, but you should start small for a while before you try to conqure the world
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do guys like... care about a girls body size... like i have c boobs and a big but and my bellys flat... but im not like 100 % thin... so what are guys' expectation in a girls bodies? (link)
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you are the perfect size if you are a little thick in the waist. everything else is just right for a guy to like you espically if you look good in the face. take it from me i am a guy.
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Well, there's this girl at school named Garrison. I can't keep her out of MY FREAKING HEAD! I was sleepless for two fucking nights just thinking about her face, and I can't stand it. I want to ask her out, but I'm too nervous. Please help. (link)
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my friend had the same problem. we were a fair and everytime he saw her he turned the other way. so he just had to work up the courage to ask her and she said yes, i think you should do the same. just go up to her and ask her.
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Well heres the thing..
Sex..
im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!
any advice on the subject??
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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don't be scared the condom will break. people always say that the condoms will break so you will not have sex. and by the way lifestyles are really good
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For guys- What physical turn-offs do you have in girls? I know personality is what REALLY matters, but the reason you go to try and learn a girl's personality is because they look nice, neat, and well-kept. SO what do you think? (link)
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there are many turn-offs.
-fat
-smells
-voice
-toooo much makeup
-hairy arms
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Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, he was the first love of my life. We went out for almost a year, and we loved eachother so much.Well we were really serious about eachother and we had so much fun and it was so crazy, and I knew he loved me. Well until the beginning of this year he went to a different school district and he completely changed...But I know thats not him and thats not how he wants to be because he jsut completely changed the 2nd day he started going to his new school..well we eventually broke up, and then went back out 1 or 2 months after, and he wasnt the same and he hurt me. But I know thats not him and thats why it makes me so upset. And ive tried giving so many guys chances and it jsut doesnt work cause I think about him all the time, and ive waited for a guy that i actually like to come along. And im so confused cause I see my ex every now and then and I see him just looking at me. And my friends tell me he still loves me cause he cant go from loving me one day to completely not loving me and he told them that he loved me cause they are his friends too. And im just so confused cause hes stuborn, and if he does love me why doesnt he tell me? Because I know if I asked him he would be too shy and wouldnt tell me because he hurt me..
Please help me.... (link)
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you should get over him because he is just what he seems like. if you go back out with him then he will do the same thing.
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