Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what?
southernndblonde answered Saturday May 21 2005, 9:29 pm: I think u should give him a chance..I think he's just nervous around u..but if u give him a chance he may warm up to ya..and become more interesting! hope this helps
karenR answered Saturday May 21 2005, 3:11 pm: That is a tough one. I want to say if he gets on your nerves forget it. You should really like the guy if you go out with him.
On the other hand, if you give him a chance it might just boost his self confidence enough that he will open up. You could always get him talking. Once you find a subject he enjoys then maybe he will talk more.
VanityScore answered Saturday May 21 2005, 2:22 pm: The guy is shy.. he could get over it, with a little help from you. The more open you are, the more open he'll be. He's nervous because he wants to make a good impression, and is worried about what you think of him.
In my opinion, I'd say at least give him a chance! If you like him, then go out with him. Even if you're not completely obsessed with him, it's not that big of a deal. Usually, dating brings people closer together, and helps your feelings for him grow stronger and clearer. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
>_Ashlie!_< answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:35 pm: i'd say yes, give him a chance... if he really likes you and you like him, then it shouldn't matter how old he is... heck, if he was 2 years younger than me i wouldn't care lol... just get to know him better and maybe he will open up and not be so shy around you. good luck! :) [ _Ashlie!_<>>_Ashlie!_<'s advice column | Ask >_Ashlie!_< A Question ]
sourpatchkids379 answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:24 pm: Well, personally i think you should give him a chance. He obviously likes you alot and if he likes you that much and he seems like a good guy go for it. It's not like you two are going to get married anytime soon so see if he becomes less annoying if you start dating and if it doesn't work out then you can always break it off later on! Good luck! [ sourpatchkids379's advice column | Ask sourpatchkids379 A Question ]
HaNnAhBaNaNa&SeXiLeXi answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:03 pm: Heck yes u should give him a chance...my bf is a year younger than me and i couldnt be happier with him...when i'm around him i dont even think about the age...so give this guy a chance...he could be the best thing that has happened to you...hope i helped!! [ HaNnAhBaNaNa&SeXiLeXi's advice column | Ask HaNnAhBaNaNa&SeXiLeXi A Question ]
xXxTHE-MANxXx answered Friday May 20 2005, 4:07 pm: if he gets on your nerves them just leave him tell him its just not working out " I think we should see other people, i just wanna be friends right now or i dont wanna have a boyfriend right now [ xXxTHE-MANxXx's advice column | Ask xXxTHE-MANxXx A Question ]
darkblair771 answered Friday May 20 2005, 3:20 pm: if he gets on your nerves then don't go out with him, that's the last thing you want. also you could just talk to him and tell him you hate it when he's shy. [ darkblair771's advice column | Ask darkblair771 A Question ]
helpful_jess answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:15 pm: i think you should give it a go , because he is shy so much i just think you need to give him that little push that he needs once u to go out i think he will open up and show you who he really is he sounds eager to give it a shot but its all up to you and who knows you could end up really liking him you only have one chance to make it right so take the chance it could be just what your looking for [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
CCubb08 answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:05 pm: If you like him , I would try it.I would just try to think of things to get a convo started.And jus say I like you and everything, its just me and you dont talk as much as I would like.And Im sure he will understand just be open with him. [ CCubb08's advice column | Ask CCubb08 A Question ]
beautiful_disaster101 answered Friday May 20 2005, 1:32 pm: Hello,
Well personally i think you should give him a shot, but if you dont like him, then dont lead him on thinking you like him back. It really does depend on how you feel about him. If you dont like him like that, just try to sit him down and tell him. He'll most likely understand. But overall you should think about what you would be like in his shoes, i mean asking out someone isn't the easiest thing to do if you know i what i mean ^_~. Well I hope i helped, if you need any further advice, feel free to IM me at wildsilverflames on AOL or email me at miserablehellchild@yahoo.com.
*Jill* [ beautiful_disaster101's advice column | Ask beautiful_disaster101 A Question ]
swab answered Friday May 20 2005, 1:31 pm: i think you should give him a chance because once you and him start to talk more he will become more comfortable around you and will talk to you more. [ swab's advice column | Ask swab A Question ]
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