I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do?
Wowitzbrit answered Friday May 20 2005, 9:06 pm: Well if you like him go for him. Who cares he's a senior and your a freshman. Rejection feels better than the fear of never knowing. I know rejection hurts but not knowing whether you and him could have something hurts a hell of a lot more. I've made that mistake before and I'll never make it again. Good luck <33 [ Wowitzbrit's advice column | Ask Wowitzbrit A Question ]
i_define_weird answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:27 pm: I think you should just let him go. That doesn't necessarily mean to not talk to him. You two should just be friends. I think your age differences are pretty big. Look for some other guys in you grade of a little bit older. not freshmans.You should talk to the senior and just be friends with him. good luck && hope i helped. [ i_define_weird's advice column | Ask i_define_weird A Question ]
sourpatchkids379 answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:33 pm: First of all that is a HUGE age diffrence. I think you should just lay off if he doesn't like you it is not big deal. Look for guys your own age maybe a year older. Look around for another guy this will sound stupid but as they always say there are plently of fish in the sea [ sourpatchkids379's advice column | Ask sourpatchkids379 A Question ]
swab answered Friday May 20 2005, 12:00 pm: i think you should just lay off because he will be alot older than you and you will be under age if you and him get into any physical action, and he will get into alot of trouble because of his age and your age. [ swab's advice column | Ask swab A Question ]
K2204 answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:29 am: I was the same way, its just because your new to the school, and guys get "hotter" with age. I overheard these girls talking the other day, their juniors, and they were saying how they remember how when they were freshman and they saw the seniors and how they thought that they were sooo hot!! you could go up to him, and maybe ask for his e-mail address. or one of his friends for his e-mail address. and ask him about college, and things like that, and what he plans to do this summer. then when school rolls about again, ask him about the teachers that you got! and maybe ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, maybe in a group, then alone.
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