Okay, I went out with this guy in November, we didn't know eachother all too well, rushed into a physical relationship, and ended up breaking up in 2 weeks. We've both seen other people since then. Recently, we've hooked up and been talking more, now that we're both single. We've hooked up a few times recently and Im afraid that if i become emotionally attached to him again, he may not want to get back together. Question is, should I get back together with him if the subject comes up? Should I let him know that I may becoming emotionally attached to him again? Im 14/f he's 15/m
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kitty_kat123 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:45 pm: It all depends. Did he break your heart so badly that you'll remember it it 70 years or did you just DECIDE one day to break up? If it's the first one, then I don't think yall should get back together because he did something bad and he doesn't deserve you. If yall just decided to break up after two weeks because yall got sick of each other, yes, I think you should spend more time together. However, I DO NOT think you should get all that emotionally, even physically, attracted to him AGAIN because history will repeat itself over and over. If you still love him, take a chance and go for it!
BEST OF LUCK!
~~~Kayla~~~ [ kitty_kat123's advice column | Ask kitty_kat123 A Question ]
lilangl1113 answered Saturday May 21 2005, 12:44 pm: Well is it going to be another fling, or are you willing for a serious relationship? Think about it hun, your 14 right? So am I. Your only 14 once and at this age we're both so young. Are you ready for heartache at this age, or do you want to be happy and blissful? I honestly think that right now at this moment you should stay friends. Let your relationship wait awhile, and if a couple months, or maybe even a year, you feel the same way. Maybe you should try it. Good Luck! ~*AmAnda*~ [ lilangl1113's advice column | Ask lilangl1113 A Question ]
CCubb08 answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:14 pm: I would just be staright up and be like look if you are going to do this to me again, I can find someone else.And you need to tell him that sex and things like that girls are more cautious and emotional about that.And just tell him be like if all you want is _______ then you mid as well hit tha road! [ CCubb08's advice column | Ask CCubb08 A Question ]
Van_10 answered Friday May 20 2005, 6:06 am: hi there
i think you should let him know how you feel, if you still have feelings you should let it be known, because he might want you still
if the subject by him, comes up you should let this be know because you'll never know what could happen in the nearer future, anything can happen
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