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Naked while online.
Hello, Im 28 and I was talking to a member of the opposite sex online one day, and I asked them what they were wearing at that time. They replied with the type of clothing they were wearing. They then unexpectedly turned the question around on me and said that since they had answered my question, I had to answer the same one for them. After some persuasion, I timidly admited that I was actually naked at that time. They did not take offence at knowing this. It felt risque at first, but afterwards, I felt kinda releaved to have been able to tell a member of the opposite sex that I was nude. Was it wrong to tell someone of the opposite sex about my nudity when chatting with them? Anyone else have any oppinions or suggestions?
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If you are a nudist looking to make new nudist friends, then by all means say so. But just remember that the person on the other end of the chat may not be telling the truth. What proof do you have that your chat partner was a member of the opposite sex as s/he claimed to be?
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GROW UP.....im only 15 n i tell ppl that im naked all the time.......get a life
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well your paranoid. who gives a crap if you were naked while talking to somebody and you told them. it's not like your ever gonna see them. and if it's somebody you know then that might be kinda weird around them but just don't mention it while you were around them. if they mention it just dont act embarrased just say you were trying to be comfortable.
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There is nothing wrong with being honest & telling the truth, & that is basically all you were doing. I dont think you should be worrying about this at all.
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i don't think it was a wrong thing to do. anyway they couldn't see you so you have nothing to worry about.
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You wouldn't have asked this person what they were wearing if you didn't want this conversation to happen - whether you realized that was your intent or not.
As an adult, you can choose to tell anyone anything you want online. It's important to remember that many younger people pretend to be older, so you could be telling these things inappropriately to a much younger person - which is an offense.
I wonder why you felt 'relieved' to be able to tell someone you were nude. This suggests that you have some issues in that area - but please rest assured that you were born nude. It's a natural state.
Telling someone you are nude will probably lead to a more 'physical' conversation. If you are seeking out an emotional connection, it might be best to skip the nudity thing.
Best of luck.
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i suggest not saying that you are naked. you might end up with a bunch of creepy stalkers lookin for an easy (undressed) target. it doesnt really matter what your waring unless your plannin on cyber. <3
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its not wrong to tell the opposite sex whether you are nude or not.. it is better if you tell the truth anyways.. and most people wont take offense to that because almost everyone is nude while they are online at one point in time.. i wouldnt worry about it too much..
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It would only be wrong if that person was made to feel uncomfortable by what you said and it doens't sound like that was the case. Therefore don't worry about it although you probably shouldn't freely go around telling everyone you talk to online that you're naked! The way you did it was fine especially as you were persuaded into telling this girl the truth. Don't worry about this particular incident just be aware that not everyone may act in the same way!
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thats kinda creepy. please refrain from telling people you are nude. tell them you are at least wearing a fuzzy g-string or whatnot.
-hitler
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