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I am very close with the boy I am interested in. He comes to my house everyday. He once told me he liked me and even though I had liked him all along, I was afraid to tell him because his best friend and I have been on and off. Suddenly, he doesn't treat me like a girl anymore. He treats me more like a sister. And I wanna go back to the way things used to be. How do I make him see me more as a girl than a sister? (link)
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Simple as this....tell him you've really really liked him for awhile but were jsut too scared to admit it. He will change his perspective on how he treats you right away. Im sure he still likes you, but he had to try to hide the fact cause he already made an ass out of himself by telling you he cared. So just tell him how you feel, sit him down and be serious. And im sure things will work out o.k if u have anymore questions you'd like to ask just ask lol ..hope everything works out well
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Theres this guy that i like. All his friends thinks he likes me and i think he does too. But hes real shy about it and wont admit. Well last night his friend invited us all over and a couple of my girl friends came over. The guy i like lives right up the street and they called him to come over but he never showed. Then today he was supposed to come to a party but he never showed either but his friends went. Does this mean he doesnt want to see me or what? (link)
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Ok dont worry, this guy sounds liek hes to shy to see you, or probably embarressed at the same time. Its not ur fault though so dont worry, you did nothing wrong. His friends are probably nagging and picking on him about you. And typically shy guys get embarressed and they avoid the girl that they like. I think you should get his number n call him, or walk up to his house just to see if he is ok. Im sure he will really appreciate it even if he doesnt show it. I hope I helped and if u have anymore questions, just ask me!
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well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...
i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??
what can i do to make things better between my mom and i? (link)
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you can start by sitting down and talking to her about it without fighting. Just be like mom, im old enough to have a boyfriend now. And just ask why she wont let you go over there if he cant come over your house. Just be reasonable about it and try to work out a deal with her. What works for me is when me and my mom go out by ourselves and sit down for a bite to eat I then come clean and talk to her about everything, it works better that way and it doesnt get my mom mad at me. So just try to have a mother daughter day or what not and tell her how you feel. :-)
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I recently started dating a guy with a very very close family. I am 22, he is 24, and still living with his parents while he saves up to buy a house. The problem is that I'm starting to see signs of his parents making too many decisions for his life.
First of all, he is christian, and quite religious. Me and him have made the decision to wait to have sex, at least for now. I think this is a personal decision that is between me and him.
He stays at my house sometimes, and has already slept in the same bed at me while staying at my mothers house, at my house, and at my sisters house. There is not a problem with this because we are both adults, and are very capable of making out own decisions.
But, recently he told me that he doesn't think he should stay at my house anymore because his parents are already getting suspicious. He has already told him that we're not having sex, but, apparently, they don't believe him, and are trying to stop anything from happening.
Another thing is that I'm planning a trip to Florida, and he really wants to go. He is allowed two weeks vacation from work, and would only need one week. The problem is that he works for his father. I would not see a problem if his father told him "I don't think I can give you the time off, because I need your help here" But, instead, he said "I don't think you should go because you need to save your money"
This guy is 24 and is capable of making his own decisions on where he sleeps at night and what he spends his own money on.
I'm wondering how I could make this clear to him, that it bothers me, without making it uncomfortable. I do not want to make things uncomfortable for me and his parents, him and his paretns, or me and him. Any advice would be much appreciated. (link)
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Ok you may not like my advice, but its the best advice I can give you.
You need to sit your boyfriend down and tell him whats bothering you, because if you cant do that then how are you and him gonna make it in the long run? Just make it clear to him that you dont hate his parents, you just think he is old enough to make his own decisions without his parents running his life. If that was my boyfriend I would sit him down and be like this is getting out of hand, not that I dont like your parents but we are both old enough and mature enough to make our own decisions now, our parents cant tell us what to do for forever. What your b/f needs to do is stand up to his parents. Cause without standing up to them, they are just gonna think they can run all over him. He needs to tell them to not worry about his life. Even if he is going to be mean to them, either way his parents are going to eventually learn and back off, if he says something. And if it doesnt work, then he should move out as soon as he possibly can. Because even though they are his parents its none of their buisness on how he runs his life. I know they are probably watching out for him, but since he's 24 they are still treating him like a little kid. I hope everything works out for you :-)
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ok im 15/f and usually i can fake being happy and it all ends up ok but now im having mood swings like crayz and very f-ed up thots bout suicide and i feel like im battling myself and evryone else just to stay alive and i started kutting a while ago but i stopped kuz my boyfrind at the time made me promice so i did eveything i could and i did then we broke up and i have been going steadily downhill and started cutting again and not just kuz of him but alot of things first it was on my lower abdoment then lil ones on my wrist im scared of what may be coming next and if i can stop it again and keep hiding my red eyes from tears and the blood stains its getting to hard, and im scared to ask suum1 bout help kuz i think theyll kall me crazy and just another fukd up thing on my mind so dohave any advice or anything for me? anything ? (link)
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Ok first of all, you need to start being around things and people that make you happy. Cause thats a great start. And another thing, talk to your mom or dad or whoever about taking you to a psychologist, just so you can let everything out.And if you dont have the money for that, your friends should be willing to help you. And dont let a little boy get to you, you dont need a b/f to make you happy, that makes things worst. Deal with your problems and issues first because no boy ur age is going to want to go out with someone who is psycho, because they dont need that in their life right now...You need to be around stuff that make you feel good about yourself. You dont want to look back and remember hey when I was 15 I had problems and I wasnt happy. And just to let you know you can get in serious trouble for hurting yourself, thats called self-mutalation (spelling). Im sure after your done dealing with your problems, you'll have a b/f in no time, and ur life will be much better! :-) I hope I helped you out some...
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I'm a senior 18/m and I've liked this freshman girl the whole school year. She's in one of my classes and sometimes I see her around school and the movies and stuff. I think she likes me, and we've hung out before, just as friends. Were pretty close and I just want to maybe have a chance with her before I go off to college. How do I get this chance and is it even worth it? (link)
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Well how bout you just stop and think about this one? Lets see you're basically willing to hurt her. Do you want to hurt her? If you end up going out with this chick and then having to leave, you're going to break her heart. I would just stick to being friends with her,cause you never know who you might end up with while you're at college. Plus shes still young and and has her whole life to date. I dont mean to sound rude, but ur older,and ur leaving...What good is it gonna do, maybe to you, to have one night of bliss with this chick, but it could seriously hurt her. Well I hope I helped you out in some sorta way. :-)
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Honestly, do you think its too babyish to have a pinata and play the limbo at my Luau thenned sweet 16?
Any suggestions or websites for decorating? thank you all..fives for decent answers (link)
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I think it is. Only because its your sweet 16. You want it to be something people can remember. The limbo isnt such a bad idea cause I have friends who did that at theirs, but you have to always keep in mind its not what other people will think, its what you think...Why dont you set up a dance area so you and your friends can dance,and get a DJ or something cool like that, dancing is always great at a party. Hope I helped a little bit.
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how do i get a guy to really notice me and want to talk to me? I think that this guy might like me and I like him. I want to get to know him better, but when I talk to him he sometimes seems to be distracted, but all in all we have a good conversation sometimes. He doesn't even look at me unless I'm trying to talk to him, unless he's just staring. (I don't mind lol) Why doesn't he want to try to talk to me? He probably does, but it isn't showing. He is my friends brother and I feel weird talking to her about it. Plus he knows I like him and I don't know what to do. We ofter lock eyes with one another. I just wonder how he feels. I just want to be better friends with him, so he can get to know me and vis-versa. What do I do. I RATE HIGH for appropriate answers!!!!!!! Please HELP!!!!!! (link)
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You can start off by being yourself..Dont talk about boring stuff to him cause then he wont pay attention, make sure its something you'd think he would want to talk about. You can start that off by talking to your friend and seeing what her brother likes. It might be weird, but atleast ur being honest. Well he is probably one of those shy guys. So just be yourself when you go to her house to hang out with her, start a conversation with him and just have fun! But make sure your friend knows your not going to use her to get to her brother..But im sure things will work out for you in the end.
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