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I want someone out of my life ... forever!
This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.
Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!
So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.
My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?
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The only way is to be upfront and honest. Apparently she didn't get the message the first time you tried to break things off with her, so it looks like you'll just have to sit down and tell her that you don't think your friendship will really work out.
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there's that saying..hmm let me remember...
"some people come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime..( there's alot more to it)"
I guess you were a reason :) She needed you.. eventually she'll live you alone because she'll realize you jus happened to be with her for th reason she needed you and no more.. i had girls like that before, we were great friends since we were like 5 (im 18 now) and once we were around 16/17.. we drifted, and i wanted them out of my life, they were mean.. but that's not my point.. jus wait it out, eventually she'll live you alone ( unless you'd jus like to "cut" he or something.. (JUS KIDDING!)) sorry if i was of no help, bubye!
-bridgette
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hey hun! im sry that she did that to you... but next time she says something like ' hi ' to you and tries to be all friendly just say look.. ive been friends with you , but all you did was stay depressed no matter what.. and im not that type of person to always be down..
let her know wuts up.. but in a nice way !
=)<3 take care & i hope it works out for u!
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My opinion.. I think it was really bitchy to do that to her in the first place. You wanted to be nice so you were. You were her friend for a little bit. But you shouldnt of even tried being friends with her if you were just gonna drop her in the end. You should of talked to this girl about what she was doing wrong and maybe she would of stopped. If you really dont want to be friends with her tell her. Just tell her what you did. Tell her that you wanted to be friends with her so she doesnt feel left out!! If she gets her feelings hurt that sucks but its one of the ways to get rid of her. Or you could just tell her nicely that you dont want to be friends and for her to just leave you alone. She will get the point! X0`
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you want my honest opinion... i think its bitchy in the first place that you would pitty someone and pertend to be her friend... i cant suggest anything because you started the whole problem you should finish what you started by either A) being a total bitch and telling her to fuck off... or B) suck it up... for now thats basically what you can do untill u *drift* apart...
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Tell her again. Tell her that you don't want to be friends with her and you weren't even really friends with her in the first place you just felt bad for her. If she won't leave you alone then you have to be brutally honest. Tell her the truth and make sure that she gets it. If she doesn't get it the first time then tell her again. If you want her to leave you alone then you have to tell her straight out. Just say I don't like you I don't want to see or deal with you anymore leave me alone. She may be hurt but it will solve your problem. If you were nice about it before then you have to be mean now you tried to be nice about it she didn't get it so now you have to make her get it. Then just avoid her. If she walks up to you walk away. If she tries to talk to you ignore her. It sounds mean but if you really want her away from you then it has to be done.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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anonymous -
Since she already has issues of her own, you're going to have to do away with her nicely, as hard as that is.
It really depends if you still want a friendship out of this or not. Assuming your not, just straight up tell her that you're not her psychiatrist, and you were sick of hearing her whine and complain all the time. Tell her that the world doesn't revolve around her, and she needs to take into consideration other people if she wants a real friendship. Otherwise, you're staying away from her lame emo-ness.
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