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Friendship sorta.
I went out with this boy for 4 months and we broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I don't know her, but one day she messaged me out of the blue and started asking me if I still liked him and have feelings for him. So I told her that I don't because I kinda do, but only a teeny bit. Anyway, she won't leave it alone and everyday she asks me if I want him back and blehh. What do I say to her to make her stop, cause I'm really tired of telling her that I'm not trying to steal her boyfriend.
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say no you 2 are over and hes old and in the past.
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Next time she IMs you, just say somthing like "well it was fun while it lasted, but he's yours now! don't worry bout it, enjoy your time with him!". I know, sounds kinda corny, but trust me on this one, I've been in the same situation and that helped a lot!!! In the mean time, try finding someone else. I mean, even though you like him only a teensy bit, he has a new g/f now and I don't he's gonna want to cheat on her. Good luck [[=
x33 Marii
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Tell her that you aren't going to try and steal her boyfriend and ask why she is so paranoid? She is obviously having some self-doubt issues or her boyfriend is making her feel like if YOU came back, he would dump her for you.3
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You go tell the ex to get her off your back. It might make her mad but, who cares. :)
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well just tell this girl to back off you dont want her man i mean dear gosh if she doesnt get it then.. then by golly shes one stupid chick i mean dont let it bother you.. and if she continues after you tell her that just ignore it i mean its her fault shes that stupid and doesnt get it..
i hope i helped lol
Halee*
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When she asks you be like I was already with him. If i really stil wanted to be with him then we wouldn't have broken up. Be like I don't want him you can have him he's your bf and I get that. I'm not intersted in him anymore and if you're that insecure about it then maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship. Just try to make it clear that you don't want him anymore and you know that he's her bf. If she still doesn't get it then she really has issues and I don't know what to tell you.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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Next time she i.m.'s you just tell her that he's hers & you don't want to intrude into their relationship. Or just tell her that you fancy (like) another guy. Pretty soon she'll leave it alone and understand. I've gone through the same exact thing, and it worked for me! =] Hope I helped! Good luck
♥ kendall
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Wow .. she must be annoying! Just tell her that you do only a little bit so she can leave you alone! You arents trying to take him away from her so make sure she knows that! X0`
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Wow thats a long time!! Just tell her thats you like him a little bit and its not a big deal! I know your not trying to steal him! lol but Just tell her to leave you the freak alone! SAY IM TELLING YOU THIS ONCE AND IM NTO REPEATING IT AGAIN!!
xOx ViLLy*
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She is trying to make sure your not a problem... most of us girls do it now a days... she will stop sooner or later... if she doesn't she has major problems... next time she asks be like... "the more you ask me the more he comes on my mind and the more i think about him and think if i do like him or not..."... maybe if you say that she will be too scared to ask...
Gomesy
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Well then she must be insecure about her relationship and maybe he even likes you or thinks that he does. the only way you are going to make her stop is make it with her clear that you dont like him .. tell her it was a one time thing and you like someone else even .. try telling her that you werent ready for a real relatonship and dont like him more than a friend anyways .. it will help her get over it and you get over him .. hope i helped & please rate (:
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You could make a joke out of it and reply to her that you secretly married him and that your dog and his dog are about to have puppies, and that you're really a queen of the principaility of Andorra, and that he's borrowing your private shoe collection and that you really need the shoes back... and just keep telling her stranger and stranger things until she shuts up...
...becuase really, it sounds like she's trying to play some sort of twisted game with you, and 1) that's not fair to you and 2) it is a waste of your time... so might as well have some fun with her stupidity, eh?
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