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Hey stranger, I'm kendall. I'm 14 years old, almost 15 (July 22nd), I'm currently single, but I've got my eye on someone =]. I live with my mom, dad, older sister, & younger brother. I've gone through alot of rough times, especially in 2004 (8th grade). I can help you with just about anything, and I hope to get feedback. Whether it's good or bad. Just one last little message too: Life is too short, so take too many pictures, laugh too hard, & love like you've never been hurt.

Update: I don't make signs for people anymore, so please don't ask. & I'll post more pictures when I feel like it. K thanks. & Yes this is my new column, I got sick of the other one. x3

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Um...so let's say that I'm totaly in-love with my boyfriend...but there is this other guy, he is great! and he is like my best freind, but he goes to the other high school, and I haven't been able to hang out with him in foreve, and we used to go out but I totaly blew that and I still sorta like him, I still really love my boyfriend and he is perfect to me, but I totaly would not mind going back out with him...but he goes to a diffrent school and I don't think he likes me, and the worst think I'm affraid of is that we'll stay so far away from each other for so long and we will never see each other again! But what should I do? I really love my boyfriend but I don't want to lose my best friend that I might like, but he would never go back out with me! please help!

~*~GUYS DRIVE ME NUTS~*~

Well first thing, you have to focus on your current boyfriend. If you REALLY wanna risk your relationship with him to date another guy, then I suggest you do it. Otherwise stick with him! So it doesn't seem all awkward or whatever you should probably start talking & hanging out with your ex boyfriend. Like ask him to hang out with you and some friends over the weekend, so you have more time to talk & catch up on stuff since you go to different schools. Maybe have a friend ask him if he's dating anyone or if he has a 'crush'. You never know if he'll go back out with you or not, so you have to talk more! Just becareful on whether you want to dump your current boyfriend or not, because it could turn into a big mess later on.

♥ kendall

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ok well I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but like he wont ask me out and he says he loves me and i know he does because we went out before. but then there is his x-girlfriend who is still trying to get with him and i dont know how he feels about that because they went out for a year and a half and it was his first love. he says he doesnt want to be with her anymore and that he wants to be with me now, we just cant because he needs to concentrate on school because he is failing like all of his classes. I think something might still be going on between him and his x but i dunno. i dont know what to do and ive tried talking to him and he tells me the same thing everytime.

*confused*

I don't think you should worry about his ex girlfriend, she's probably only in this for the chase, since he likes you now. If he says there's nothing going on then take his word, I've had this happen before & if you keep asking him he may get a bit annoyed/angry! You'll have to wait till he gets his grades up, but I can tell that he really likes you, so the wait is worth it! & don't worry, he chose YOU over his ex!

♥ kendall

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your away message that talks about your so called friends going behind your back and stuff is that true cuz im going thru the same thing n i was jw what ur doin about it

i'm doing absolutly nothing, people piss me off and if they're going to talk shit about me and call ME a drama queen then they can seriously just suck it. hah, because i don't want people like that as my friends because they'll do it over and over and OVER again. if you're going through the same thing then i suggest either talking to them about it (if they're not too damn stubborn to) or just make new friends because your old ones will keep stabbing you in the back even if they say they've 'changed'! you dont deserve drama. nobody does.

♥ kendall

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I'm a freshman at highschool and I have been liking a guy since the beginning of the school year. We've been friends ever since, but lately he told one of my friends that he liked me too. He wanted her to tell me, so she did and now ... it's like I'm not acting like the real me when he's around, and I kind of feel 'scared.' I can tell he's trying every way to strike up a conversation with me, and I feel like he's about to make a move and I know it may sound stupid but, I afraid of it. Is it because I'm not ready for a relationship yet? I really do like him, and want to be more than friends, but there's just something that's holding me back. Thank you!

I know how you feel, I've been the exact same way about some guys too! I think that you're just having some nervous feelings, like whether you guys will work out or not. Or you're just nervous if you will screw up something, I know that I was always nervous about that too! You may be ready for a relationship, but you have to be yourself around him first before you commit to someone. Sleep on it for maybe a day or two and if you still like him or not after thinking about it then talk to him! Try to be yourself and relax a bit, because if he liked you before all this then he liked you for the real you. Relationships can be a bit nerve wrecking since you're commiting to someone & nobody else, plus you feel like you have to be perfect for him, but trust me he likes you for you =] Lucky you!

♥ kendall

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on my myspace .. it wont let me instant message anyone. it pulls up the screen and all, but then it keeps saying "connecting" and it has been like that for 5 minutes. it worked fine like 4 hours ago, i dont know what ahppened. does anyone know what i can do to make it work?

maybe your internet connection is slowing down possibly. but otherwise myspace has been having alot of problems lately, just contact the administrator or just try another time. maybe you're behind a firewall. Hope i helped

♥ kendall

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I downloaded Limewire, but it says I have to let my firewalls stop blocking it. Is this safe?

It should be safe, the same thing happened when I downloaded itunes. I just unblocked it and everything is fine, but to be safe you should probably scan Limewire for any viruses after you download it.

♥ kendall

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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please?

totally normal, don't worry. Once you start it's a bit irregular for your first few times. Later on you can start marking your calander & know when it's comming.

♥ kendall

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I went out with this boy for 4 months and we broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I don't know her, but one day she messaged me out of the blue and started asking me if I still liked him and have feelings for him. So I told her that I don't because I kinda do, but only a teeny bit. Anyway, she won't leave it alone and everyday she asks me if I want him back and blehh. What do I say to her to make her stop, cause I'm really tired of telling her that I'm not trying to steal her boyfriend.

Next time she i.m.'s you just tell her that he's hers & you don't want to intrude into their relationship. Or just tell her that you fancy (like) another guy. Pretty soon she'll leave it alone and understand. I've gone through the same exact thing, and it worked for me! =] Hope I helped! Good luck

♥ kendall

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What are those so called "love handles"?

I'm pretty sure that it's just extra fat around a person's waist or midsection.

♥ kendall

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when u tan in a tanning bed should u use just regular lotion or stuff with bronzer in it because i wanna get tan fast but i dont wanna turn orange??

I'd suggest not using bronzer, my sister used it and she turned competely orange :\ Just use regular tanning lotion when you go to a booth or bed. Maybe even ask the employees at the tanning bed for their opinion, they probably know more than me! Hope I helped!

♥ kendall

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