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It seems like noone is good anymore!!! I need good music! I dont like country, rap, and most pop. I like rock and a tiny bit of pop. Oh yeah and I like artists like rihanna and beyonce, I dont know what thats called. So does anyone have any good bands or songs I could listen to???? (link)
best bands ever:
cute is what we aim for
the color fred
tickle me pink
flogging molly
billy boy on poison
say anything


listen to them. worship them. it's some legitimately good music, something our culture desperately needs.


Whats the best?
I just need to know which would open the most doors for me. I don't care about price. (link)
the person before me gave a college.

i know of two good ones.
http://www.interlochen.org/academy/ (Interlochen)
And http://www.deerfield.edu/ (Deerfield Academy).

They're both fantastic boarding schools that excel in the arts, but I'd reccomend Deerfield if you're looking for a fantastic education also.


Alright
i pretty much know im going to go here
(Bethany university in santa cruz)
But if anyone goes here can you tell me about it...like the social aspect of it how are the people, what are some cool things to do...???
Thanks :) (link)
This website (Juicycampus.com) is basically a college gossip website. It'll basically let you peek into what people are talking about at Bethany or whatever school you want.

I took the liberty of finding the link for you:

http://www.juicycampus.com/posts/search/Bethany%20University

Good luck in college!


That last one was for the bestfriend, but I honestly don't know what to do. So my bestfriend and I like the same guy, not to be concieted, but I think he like's me more. Age is just a number, but he's two years older. He's way way way more expierienced, and he flirt's with me face to face, but when we're talking online, it's like, ugh! But when he flirt's with me to my face, he always does the same thing with my bestfriend, who's always there. And if it's just me and him joking around, she join's in. Lately, i've been daydreaming about him too, I feel like a pathetic fool ): And i have a problem with always putting other's first, HELP! please (link)
I don't know the guy, but...my advice is to not act upon this. This guy, if he flirts with both you and your friend, sounds like he's a player. There's an age gap too, and that sounds like it'd be awkward for your friend. I know it's hard, but it'll probably be best for both you and your friend's emotions to get over this guy.

good luck!


ok i have brown straight medium length hair and homecoming is coming up and i want it to be curly and since my hair doesnt curl very weel, i got these really cheap curler that you put in your hair after you take a shower at night, sleep with them in and then in the morning u have curly hair. but what my question is: can anybody give me some pictures of what my hair will look like if i do that????

thankies (link)
I can't give you an exact image of what your hair would look like; every person's hair is unique...but one friday night when you're not doing anything on saturday you should just try it on your hair. it would give you a clear image of what your hair would look like and you can see if you like it or not.

good luck!


i want to get my tongue pierced but see im terrible with pain. . . i got my second holes done in my ears and i wanted to like pass out so is it anything like that. . . im terrible with pain so that is my biggest fear. . and if i dont like the tongue ring thing and i take it out will i always have a hole in my tongue?

Thank YOu ...... (link)
don't quote me on this because i'm not sure...but...i believe that tongue holes are the same as any other. if you take out the ring for too long, it will close up. and from what i've heard...the tongue hurts the most.

but again, don't listen to me, listen to someone who is more acurate.

http://www.wikihow.com/Pierce-Your-Tongue

check that out, it might help.


hi iam a 24 mum of two who has been struggling to find any easy answers i am still in love with my first love who is in another state, but i have children to another man do i stay for my kids or do i follow my heart and go home? (link)
with your kids

you can't just leave them


the length of 2 sides of a triangle are 6 and 3. the length of the third side may be? (link)
what kind of triangle


If there are any violinists here... I play several other instruments and am asking for a violin for Christmas. I have picked out the Giardinelli Silver Creek Model 4 violin, and the description says that it comes with a Brazilwood half-lined bow stick. I have looked everywhere, and I can't figure out if that means that it comes with the horse hair, or if it's just the actual bow and I need to take it somewhere to have the horse hair put in. Here is a link to the website: http://www.giardinelli.com/product/Silver-Creek-Model-4-Violin-44-Outfit?sku=470311
Help please? And if you have any other violin suggestions, please tell me :) (link)
in every violin i have ever bought, the horse hair has always come already strung on. if this isn't true for this one, though, you can get it strung at any violin or music specialty store and get it done inexpensively.

hope i helped :)


16/f

i like this guy at my new school he's totally cute and captian of the football team we've been talking almost everyday through texting and online and a little bit at school, i have no classes w/ him so it's hard, but i don't know if he likes me. I don't want to freak him out by telling him I like him yet and I don't want to just ask him..any ideas? (link)
ah, before i start on my advice, i want to say that boys are silly and stupid. if i didn't love them so much i would go lesbian for all the heartache they've caused me.

so i think you should start talking to him at school more. body language can say a lot about someone, so pay attention to what he's like around you: are his pupils dialated? is he leaning towards you? does he touch you somtimes when you guys talk? and when you talk to him, do you have insightful conversation, not the same i hate math or something? most likely if he likes you, he'll trust you enough to talk about stuff more trivial than just normal stuff. and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. if you think he likes you, make a move. most girls have this thing that they always wait for the guy to make the first move, and it's totally idiotic. if he likes you but hasn't asked you out yet, it's probably because he is afraid of rejection from you...a LOT of guys are like that for some reason.

so ask him out. the worst thing that could happen is rejection, and think about it, most guys do it about 10 times more than girls do it. and if he does reject you, it WILL hurt. you can't stop that. just know that if you were such good friends before without him likeing you, then you can still be. it doesn't HAVE to be awkward!

anyway, good luck with that. i'm having a bit of boy trouble myself at the moment, i might just have to follow my own advice lol.

i hope he likes you :D captains of football teams tend to be hottttt as hell!

it would give me hope that i could get through my problems :D

i hope i helped!

Catherine


where can i get a cheap homecoming dress? i want it black and or red thats kind of a punk style but still sexy..pics would be great...plez just dont name jcpeeny,macys,deb,ect...i know those...thank you (link)
forever 21 probably has what you're looking for.


I'm a female who's approximately 5'7 and weighs about 117 lbs. I haven't had my period for two months. I was on a diet & I do have strict eating habits. What can help me get my period?? I'm satisfied with my diet & don't want to change it up too much. I'm maintaining my weight, not trying to lose or gain. I have an appointment with the gyno, but other than that is there anything I can do?? Should I be worried or concerned?? Is this normal?? Thanks!! (link)
When you lose weight, it's normal that you lose your period for a while. This also could happen from diet changes or severe stress. I woouldn't worry about it, it's totally normal.

hope i helped!


i love my boyfriend named danny but there is 1 problem i like some1 eles the same named chris but chris makes me fell better about myself thn danny.what should i do

xXNEED OFF SOME HELP :(Xx (link)
well, first, i think you should elaborate on your problem.

second. if you like someone else, then you obviously don't love your boyfriend in that way.

you know what to do. you don't need a advice website to help you figure that out.


well ive had my period for over a year now and ive had boobs since the 6th grade and my nipples havent exactly like "popped out" like they only stick out when im cold. is something wrong with me? if not when will they "pop out"?
please help. im desprate.
becasue i really like this one guy and when he like wants to feel me up im afraid hell find out that they havent "popped" and hell make fun of me. (link)
ok usually i hate leaving advice like this, but it must be done.

you are going through puberty. it's bound to happen sometime, so don't worry about it.

and how old are you? it sounds like you're in about 7th grade, i think. well, i think it's a bit young for a guy to be feeling you up that young...unless that floats your boat...

but if it doesn't, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. if you feel insecure about that part of your body, it's ok. everyone goes through it, and nobody can make you do anything.

oh, and he won't make fun of you i don't think. no matter how stupid boys may be, the majority of them aren't that insensitive.

hope i helped a bit, at least.


well ive been dating my boyfriend for like three days now and i really want to french kiss him cauz kissin is the best part of any relationship with a guy....well besides sex but i dont want to do that with him, well not yet.....but when would be the appropriate time to kiss him?

one more question i kind of bragged a little about my kissin skills so if theres any pointers you could give me i would appreciate it! thks (link)
cmilner is TOTALLY correct.

you don't plan it out...it just happens.

good luck with that i guess.


I want to start keeping germ x with me since its getting close to cold season, but I saw someone witha square looking bottle that doesnt smell like germ x but like vanilla, where could I get this? (link)
bath and body works!

ask a person who works there, and you'll be in.

good luck finding it!


What are some signs your boyfriend is falling out of love with you? (link)
i don't know, maybe its just me, but if it is possible for someone to fall "out of love" then they weren't really in love in the first place. for me, love is everlasting and can't be broken.


I really want to get my haircut soon.

At the moment its about an inch below the shoulder with a couple of long layers and no fringe. It's also really dry and flat at the top yet sticky-out at the bottom.

I know a haircut can't cure the dryness but I would like something that would stop it from being flat on the top and sticking out at the bottom.

I want it trimmed,with lots of layers at the top to give it more body, and also some more layers towards the bottom, and then a sweeping side fringe (sort of loike an emo fringe if you know what I mean).

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
sounds like you want a shorted version of ashley tisdale's hair...try that


okay so i have this friend,and we were really good friends in the beggining of the year, then she started being a bitch and talking about me for no effing reason!(i was hanging out with a different group that week) and so my point is,its like she thinks im stupid.like she thinks i steal like all my ideas from her,and like i cant think for myself. you know?ugh shes a bitchhh!what do i do??and no i do not want to talk to her about it,bc that will start another fight and it will be myyyy fault once again.omg please help.

thanks in advance (link)
i think that you've got this all figured out. the way you've phrased this queestion says that you really don't want to be friends with her anymore. she has to apologize to you, not you to her.


Just this year I gain alot of weight over the winter, and now I am starting to get my body back in shape. The only probably is the stretch marks on my boobs. I mean I don't go showing my boobs to people but I would like to feel comfortable in a swim suit. Now is there anyway to get my boobs back to normal faster? I lotion about once a day, and thats about it? Thanks! (link)
i'm not really sure about this one, but maybe use some skin tightening lotion or something...ive heard that works.




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