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i like this guy..
16/f
i like this guy at my new school he's totally cute and captian of the football team we've been talking almost everyday through texting and online and a little bit at school, i have no classes w/ him so it's hard, but i don't know if he likes me. I don't want to freak him out by telling him I like him yet and I don't want to just ask him..any ideas?
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ah, before i start on my advice, i want to say that boys are silly and stupid. if i didn't love them so much i would go lesbian for all the heartache they've caused me.
so i think you should start talking to him at school more. body language can say a lot about someone, so pay attention to what he's like around you: are his pupils dialated? is he leaning towards you? does he touch you somtimes when you guys talk? and when you talk to him, do you have insightful conversation, not the same i hate math or something? most likely if he likes you, he'll trust you enough to talk about stuff more trivial than just normal stuff. and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. if you think he likes you, make a move. most girls have this thing that they always wait for the guy to make the first move, and it's totally idiotic. if he likes you but hasn't asked you out yet, it's probably because he is afraid of rejection from you...a LOT of guys are like that for some reason.
so ask him out. the worst thing that could happen is rejection, and think about it, most guys do it about 10 times more than girls do it. and if he does reject you, it WILL hurt. you can't stop that. just know that if you were such good friends before without him likeing you, then you can still be. it doesn't HAVE to be awkward!
anyway, good luck with that. i'm having a bit of boy trouble myself at the moment, i might just have to follow my own advice lol.
i hope he likes you :D captains of football teams tend to be hottttt as hell!
it would give me hope that i could get through my problems :D
i hope i helped!
Catherine
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