Gender: Female
Member Since: August 9, 2005
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Last Update: August 10, 2005
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14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys? (link)
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I can tell you - comming from a girl who's in all honors classes and a program for gifted(as in smart not challenged persons- I am actually attracted to guys who seem to either be in hardly any or no honors classes, some even go to summer school. It's not because of thier chances with me or how smart they are, it's because they have personality, and arn't always correcting me. I've noticed that those who are failing just have a hard time with school, not everybody's gifted in that way. If you like her start flirting with her-in a mature way- don't be all imature about it, thats a turn off for girls. If she starts flirting with you or for instance if she always gets this kinda glowing type smile when she see's you for the first time that day, she likes you.Ask her to a movie. The one thing that i hate that guys do is they come up to you and say : will you go out with me? and you know id rather be asked to a movie and then asked out there. If she says no when you ask her out then just keep being a friend and flirting here and there, because like me a lot of girls will tell you no, but the next day or so they wish they would have said yes.
The best of luck,
Lioness
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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing. (link)
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Well, I would try in find one of the girls who are always surrrounding her, but thats in one of your classes. Then you could use that as a conversation started. you could be like hey so and so, I'm so and so, your in my whatever period class. then just be like are you friends with the so and so - the girl you like. and she'll say yes, and just let her know that your interested in her friend. She'll definetly pass the word to her friend Aka: the girl you like, because thats just the way girls are and if she says hi or somethin to you then work from there. If she doesn't then she's either not interested or she's shy, but either way keep workin on "flirting" with her by using her friend. But in the end if you don't get her there's more than one fish in the pond. By the way if she doesn't like you.. it's her loss, and there's probably someone in your school who likes you but is to shy to make a move.
Best of luck
lioness
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Hmm well maybe I should start like this. I met this girl like 5-6 months ago and she was pretty cool so we became pretty good friends. Now after being with her at school and seeing her here and there after school, I finally figured out I like her a lot. She had a bf though, but he treated her like crap, he wouldnt ever talk to her or do things with her etc. So now she broke up with him and I'm not sure if she likes me or not but I dont want to ask her out because if she doesnt like me our friendship will suffer, and plus I dont usually like to ask people out. (link)
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Alrighty, This is where i really feel bad for you guys out there. Here's the best advice from a girls point of view that i can give you at the time. If i was the girl you like in this situation i would want you to say somethin like: I have a question for you but if you say no, I would like you to forget that i ever asked you because i don't want to jepredize our friendship. She'll probable be like ummm okay. and then you ask her if she would be interested in going to see a movie the upcomming weekand, and tell her that she can pick it. She'll most lickely say yes, and if she does then just go from there.. eventually ask her out. And if she says no, then atleast your friendship won't (shouldn't) be runed.
Hope everything goes smoothly,
Lioness
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