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14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys?
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I can tell you - comming from a girl who's in all honors classes and a program for gifted(as in smart not challenged persons- I am actually attracted to guys who seem to either be in hardly any or no honors classes, some even go to summer school. It's not because of thier chances with me or how smart they are, it's because they have personality, and arn't always correcting me. I've noticed that those who are failing just have a hard time with school, not everybody's gifted in that way. If you like her start flirting with her-in a mature way- don't be all imature about it, thats a turn off for girls. If she starts flirting with you or for instance if she always gets this kinda glowing type smile when she see's you for the first time that day, she likes you.Ask her to a movie. The one thing that i hate that guys do is they come up to you and say : will you go out with me? and you know id rather be asked to a movie and then asked out there. If she says no when you ask her out then just keep being a friend and flirting here and there, because like me a lot of girls will tell you no, but the next day or so they wish they would have said yes.
The best of luck,
Lioness
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Start talking to her and try to be friends wit her. Good Luck!!! :)
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Invite her, a friend and another guy to the movies over the weekend. Make sure its not your friend that likes the same girl as you. Giver her a flower. Ask her what she likes to do... become the expert at it. Some girls like wits, some like looks... do best to be both. Be original though.
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Talk to girls one-on-one. It's a little daunting at first but they'll definitely notice you more. One thing girls love is complements! Something appropriate like, "Your hair looks really nice today," or "Those shoes are really awesome," would be good to start with. And don't worry about her being out of your league, there's no such thing :o)
Good Luck!
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Never think a girl is out of your league...because she may think your out of her league also...my advice is just go up and start a conversation with her about...well, anything...if you think she's smarter than you, ask for help with homework...if you are nice to girls and you never seem to get on their nerves, most girls will give you a chance...unless they're one of the stuck-up, think they're all that girls...and you don't want a girl like that because all they would do is end up using you...once you find a girl you really like..go up and talk to her..
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Slowly start hanging out with them, that way they really cant suspect anything. Then start talking to her more and let her get to know you. But dont be someone your not...cuz its just really not worth it in the end.
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You need to talk to girls to get to know them.Talk to her whenever you see her.Start to flirt with her when you become friends.Don't wait for her to talk to you,because if she is really out of your league,she may not even know your name.
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The best thing is always direct contact. Like talk to her and get to know her. If you are shy you should get her screen name on aim or her phone #. Plus if she's in honors and you aren't it doesn't matter. I hope she isn't a snob b/c no one should care if you are in honors or not. Good Luck. ~Calie~
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get her phone number and talk about your personal life on the phone... tell her stuff that you dont tell everybody else. if u have a really good relationship with ur mom... make sure you tell her that. thats really cute. as her to keep secrets for you then maybe she'll open up to you. i know i would. a guy that tells u everything is one of the best things you can have as a girl. mayb even metion the fact that you like her.
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First of all if you want to get close to girls you should try to talk to them like you would talk to anyone else. That way there isn't any pressure of how you should talk to them. The main thing is to just be your self so that way they will like the real you and know what kind of a person that you are.I hope that I helped you some what but if not you can visit me at my advice column.
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Hey sweetie,
I'm a female here. For a guy to get close to me, I have to trust him, he has not let me down, and he has to smile like its not a chore. Those three things can possibly bring you more hope than you already have. Just start hanging with her more. Just make her see your fun to be around with.
Once you guys get close. Confess your feelings for her. That way, she'll feel comfortable by the way she responds :)
G/L!!!
Holla baq acha girlie,
xo0x adriana
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