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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing.
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Well, I would try in find one of the girls who are always surrrounding her, but thats in one of your classes. Then you could use that as a conversation started. you could be like hey so and so, I'm so and so, your in my whatever period class. then just be like are you friends with the so and so - the girl you like. and she'll say yes, and just let her know that your interested in her friend. She'll definetly pass the word to her friend Aka: the girl you like, because thats just the way girls are and if she says hi or somethin to you then work from there. If she doesn't then she's either not interested or she's shy, but either way keep workin on "flirting" with her by using her friend. But in the end if you don't get her there's more than one fish in the pond. By the way if she doesn't like you.. it's her loss, and there's probably someone in your school who likes you but is to shy to make a move.
Best of luck
lioness
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hey. well the way you talk to this girl is by just going up to her and starting a conversation. i know, easier said than done. but by wanting to get her attention to talk to her, you need to show her that you're interested. maybe try walking with her alone... or asking her to walk her to her next class or something. maybe talk to her during lunch. maybe you could also ask her to a movie, that way you'll be alone or with other friends and its casual enough, 9th graders do it a lot. hope it works out, peace and love.
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Is she in the drama club? On the track team? If you find out she's involved in some club that you're interested in as well, that's an easy way to spend time with her and get to know her.
Or try sitting near her at lunch and smiling. The only way to talk to her is to open your mouth and do it, so try to find opportunities to see her without her friends. Find out where her locker is and casually walk by before or after school.
It can be unnerving to speak to people that you don't really know, but it can really be worth the risk. Best of luck.
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When you see her in the hallway, smile at her.If she smiles back, then next time say "hi". If she says "hi" back, next time be like " hey, whats your name? ive seen you around alot" and then get in a conversation. Every time you see her after that, talk to her! then eventually ask her for her number and things will all be good :o) haha well atleast thats worked for some of my guy friends good luck :oP
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Find out where she hangs out before school, after school, and at lunch. That's how my last boyfriend met me- we had no classes together, but I hung out in the library after school. Maybe sit a different place at lunch and if you don't see her, try another place.
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You can ask someone for her phone # and call her. or you can take her out of her group of girls---- because girls like that. when a guy has the bravery to do that, that increases her chances of saying yes to you for a date cuz girls like brave and tough guys.....not wimps.
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Try approaching her in school. If you can't do that, drop a note in her locker saying you want to talk to her or if you have instant messanger, give her your screen name and tell her to IM you on it. Good luck! Hope i helped!
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im a girl in ninth grade so i kno how you feel ( cept i like guys lol ) ok well just talk to her when shes not with all her friends try to get to know her..just be like hey..whats up my name is...........and youll be fine....you seem like a nice guy...so im sure you and her will have fun...hope i helped
~Katie Leigh~
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Just gather your courage, one day, and go up to her. As far as how to talk to her/what to say, you already know what to say. "I don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person." Just say that, and instead of "her" and "she," just say "you". It's that simple. People like being told they're interesting. You could probably pull her away from her friend if you want to, just say "hey, I know you don't know me, but can I have a word with you?" or however you'd like to phrase it, if you don't want to talk to her in front of her friends. It's pretty much up to you. I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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First, every time you see her make sure you smile and say Hey how's it going? and then keep right on moving. It won't take long before she'll want to get to know you more and she'll stop and answer.
Good luck :)
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You should go up or get her screen name and start talking to her online, gradually you will become a person in that group of friends! Good luck
- Ally
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Just when you see her pull her aside and ask if she wants to hang out sometime. Or school dances ask her to dance. Any oppurtunity you get go for it-trix
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Maybe you could try getting her screen name from a friend that knows her. Start up some converstations on the computer, then be like "I've seen you around school all the time and you look like an interesting person". Once you know eachother enough, maybe you guys can start hanging out then take it from there.
♥ Krissy
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