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My frustrating friend!
I have a friend and we used to be best friends, but now i dont want to hang out with her or anything because i've noticed that shes always making fun of me and trying to make me look bad so i dont want to hang out wit her but she always is making plans that include ME.
so how can i tell her that i dont want to hang out with her without hurting her feelings?
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"hi sorry i hate you know..." yeah pretty much no matter how you do it its gonna hurt. why dont you talk to her about it instead? a friend is a terrible thing to waste, just tell her its making you feel bad when she makes fun of you im sure shell stop.
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Just stay calm when you talk to her. Don't scream and yell like most people would come off to do. And i understand you you don't want to hurt her feelings. But you're breaking a relationship, it's not gunna be that easy, because obviously she still cares for you, and wants to hang out with you! You could try Telling her the problems between you and her. and then just say that you don't think that you shouldn't be friends anymore. OR you can try to work out the problems between each other, and talk to each other about what bothers each of you. Because there are prolly some things that you do that make her mad. Just try to work out the problems. Hope i helped =/
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Just be honest...And try to be gentle.
Explain to her that the way she treats you hurts YOUR feelings, and that she needs to stop. If she really is your friend and does care about you, she will respect you and what you have to say. And try to honor it.
If she can't handle your honesty...Well, now you've got a friend that is inconsiderate of your feelings, even when you spell them out for her. Friends shouldn't make you feel that way. Do you really want a friend like that in the first place.
If she can't deal, and your answer is "no," then stop hanging out with her. You don't need excuse either. You could just say, "I don't want to hang out with you because you're mean to me."
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Tell her how she's been making you feel and that, if she doesn't stop, you won't hang out with her any more. Give her some examples of specific incidents.
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Hmmmm lets see maybe you can say nicley i jusr want a break and hang with some of my other friends for a little while and we can just be buds for now
hope i helped!!
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give her cold shoulder for a little while. it should get her to relize shes doing something wrong. she'll ask what, and you tell her that it really bothers you when shes that way, and you dont wanna hang out with her until she gets her act together.. which is true. hope this helps!
MiiCHELLE..*
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